Sometimes a narcissist will still hoover you even if they have new supply or in another relationship

SOMETIMES A NARCISSIST WILL STILL HOOVER YOU EVEN IF THEY HAVE NEW SUPPLY OR IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.

JUST BECAUSE A NARCISSIST MOVES ON THEY WILL SOMETIMES STILL KEEP YOU ON AS A BACKUP SUPPLY OR JUST TO KEEP YOU FROM MOVING ON.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

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Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[arielholliday]

Watchin these videos is helping me heal and not go back.

[Anjalish_official]

Stay strong everyone, you are worth more than the BS that comes from the Narc ❤

[stBorn]

After every thing a narc does, they still think it's ok to be friends and talk about their new supply and connect somehow to discuss the past, it's twisted to me, it's like they just forget all of the crap they put you through or they never saw any of it wrong in the first place...why would I wanna talk about your new wife and all the things youre doing with her that you never did with me, like who does that? A narc! Smh 5

[oshinchris]

Thanks Lee, he’s been emailing me even though he’s seeing someone new already. He keeps saying I am not able to move on and I need us back. Such a loser. I’m so done with him.

[daniellemorse]

Thank you, Lee. Your videos are so awesome. Ex-narc hoovered a few weeks ago and said that he was with someone but it didn't work out, which I knew he was lying. He thought he used me but I was on to his game and of course didn't hear from him, so I knew he had new supply. He was already cheating on her. He was hoping to keep me around for sex only. The cord has been cut! They are truly vile and disgusting people.

[cancerqueen]

To 1 try to make you jealous 2 try to get revenge 3. Try to get a reaction.

[tinac]

Heck yeah they will hoover even with NS! It's happening to me right now! He texted me a question...I answered...he ghosted! He was just "heat checking" me & I fell for it! I knew better! 🤦‍♀️Thank you for re-acknowledging for me what i already knew! ❤️

[anolan]

Mine was still hovering both of his exes while with me under fake names, such as “Joe.” He was even telling them parts of our life and making it apply to them, telling one that friends invited her out to dinner with them when they’d actually been inviting me. I reached out to both of them and exposed him to both supplies and his friend. His favorite one disposed of him permanently. The more naive one took a picture of my message, sent it to him, and asked for him to take her back 🤦🏼‍♀️
I’ve of course become enemy #1 at that point and am now blocked for my poor behavior

[joannamartinez]

I’m thankful I found you! I’ve had to move on from my ex narcissist after he basically cheated with his ex (kids mother) and wanted to have me at home, and her too, whenever he would go see his kids. I asked him to leave. Best decision I ever made! I deal with so much anger nowadays, remembering all the bs he did behind my back, but I guess it’s part of healing. I’m just glad I’m over it and I don’t ever want to deal with him again!

[cancerqueen]

Exactly, he thinks he owns me, he thinks I belong to him. I am my own person I don't belong to him

[cancerqueen]

He can try to act all he wants I can see his energy so I don't care what anything "looks" like I see his real feelings

[Treasurehuntingmania]

As the narc gets older the only supply it can get is a flip phone

[prayingmother]

Dude is a coward he couldn't even explain I asked him if he was seeing somebody else and got a lie smh

[cal]

"what are you waiting for" lol scary movie. I think of the same old scene everytime I hear those words.

[shwonbrooks]

I hope he has someone else so he can’t come back to me. He can order them around and be mean to them. I pray 🙏🏽 he doesn’t I pray 🙏🏽 his new supply is all he needs.

[ChristinaVelazquez-jnre]

It is so hard to move on but completely possible. That is why I started watching you. It took over a month but possible

[marielpretelt]

Well, this is very true.

My ex is giving me gift, calling me to talk to me beside our kid and thanks to you, LEE, i know why is he doing it.

I mean, he's with his NS living their very great life... but i think he MAY be discarding her or something is going on, i know... but it feels like he really really DONT WANT ME TO BE with another guy or doesn't want to think that i may be with another person. (I'm single in my healing journey, anyway not even thinking about him or anyone).

But can you believe HE JUST TELL ME 2 days ago that he doesn't want to "accept" or can't admit that he has to let me go because we'll never get back together. I mean... WHAT?! I can't believe I'm seeing with my own eyes EVERYTHING that Lee explains in each video.

Now I see without a blindfold everything he did to me while I was pregnant and living with him is the same he is doing it to his NS (who was his side chick back then), they will never, never change.
God bless that woman when she realizes that the man she fought for and "stole / won" is not the love of her life. (Oh, and believe me everyone here, she was very proud and happy to have been chosen by him and that he left his family for her.)

[elevenkong]

I was the ex then became the mistress of a narcissist, without knowing what was going on

[Godsgiftmee]

Dang I’m starting to think maybe IM the narcissist. Because if my ex really was the narc why can’t I just accept it, heal and move on. Why would I still be wanting validation from someone that treated me so shitty. Literally can relate to experiencing triangulation, hoovering, being gaslit etc BuT still I don’t want him to be with anyone else. What is wrong with me

[ailhaj]

I laugh hearing you say "clapping cheeks" in so many videos 😂