What makes a Narcissist ignore you or pretend you dont exist? | The Narcissists' Code Episode 564

What makes a Narcissist ignore you or pretend you dont exist? In this vid I go over a few different reasons as to why a Narcissist may ignore you or stonewall you.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[vacationeyes]

If they ignore you, you are blessed. Take the gift and make it permanent.

[tayshawn]

The better you treat them the worst they treat you they hate people that love them and love people that hate them the more you do for the narcissist the more they take you for granted

[charlotteclark]

They ignore you for something they did! 😂So true!

[niqueadams]

Silence will always kill them slowly. They survive off attention

[gabrielamartiniuc]

When you don’t make them the center of your world ! That is intolerable for them!

[funinthekitchen]

Just telling them "I will no longer tolerate you disrespect me/ talk to me like that" has worked for me. They disappear like the sun at night 🤣😂

[blossom]

My granny always said...stop feeding them and they stop coming! Stop feeding their BS and they literally fall all the way back.

[gardyjure]

They want to keep you second guessing yourself. They want to control the relationship.

[rebeccadewinter]

The indifference they show us is worse than a stab in a heart. I felt invisible in this marriage from day one.

[horncow]

Mine would ignore me when I voiced expectations of him. It was like "how dare you expect anything of me, I do what I want."

[lucywoolcot]

Laying down strong boundaries is a deal breaker for the narcissist

[jy]

Once, they realize they cant control you anymore.

[toniwilliams]

They sure will ignore you…I met one a while ago and when I decided to enforce my boundaries and raised my standards, he started ignoring me. I wouldn’t let him use me and he felt I was tripping. I wanted someone who would show me real interest and date me correctly. He had other motives. Good riddance 👋🏾 I’m now engaged to a great man 🎉

[karin]

Always keep in mind that they have the emotional maturity of a five year old. They are toddlers in an adult body.

[couldntholdacandle]

You caused them to reflect on their behaviour and made them feel ashamed of themselves.

[debsmith]

Yes...
They will ignore for a period and come back out of nowhere to regain your attention. Keep moving forward.

[jy]

They ignore when you stop feeding there ego, and giving them information they love to hear!

[dropbearjd]

Grey rock. Break contact. Stonewall.

If they're ignoring you, count your blessings and move on! 🙌🙏

[edgreen]

Don't react. Don't show them how you feel. They're trying to say " you're not important or even worthy of my attention.

[DPhoenix]

You can't give the silent treatment to someone that enjoys your silence 😂😂😂