Why Do Narcissists Ignore You? | He Wont Stop Ignoring Me! | Narcissist Silent Treatment

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Narcissist silent treatment can be painful to endure. You want to discuss the issues that are present with the narcissist, but they have shut off all communication. Silent treatment in relationships can be seen as emotional abuse and is part of a toxic relationship. Narcissists, or people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, often use silent treatment as a way to control and manipulate. If you tell yourself the narcissist keeps ignoring me and wonder why the narcissist ignoring me again is happening, then you have come to the right place! In this video I will answer the question “why do narcissists ignore you” because you have noticed he wont stop ignoring me! Why do narcissists ignore you? Because it allows them to regain control and prevent against narcissistic injury. If they ignore you, then they can control what information is present and passed along. What does it mean if a narcissist ignores you? It means they are losing control and worry you will find out they are not the entitled, superior person they want you to believe they are! Narcissistic abuse is difficult because you feel helpless in having things resolved. The silent treatment shuts down communication and nothing is ever really resolved. Why is he ignoring me and not talking to me is a question you will continue to ask yourself if you remain in the tox relationship with a narcissist because the narcissist will keep ignoring you as long as it benefits them. Learn why this happening and what you can do about it!

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Sometimes losing a person is a gain. Read that again.

piscesmoon
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It’s a power play. They get more supply ignoring you then validating you. They don’t care to work out differences, they are always right.

dawnacoxon
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Once they do that, it's a form of torture and control, this is where you ignore them for life, just walk away and go no contact, don't ever look back, nobody deserves that bs.

garycordle
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My mother did this. She would ignore me anytime i called her out of her lies. Which was all the time. You give up eventually, i went no contact.

DawnaT
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I can’t tell you how many times this has happened to me!!! I just ignore him until he gets over his hissy-fit!

jillb
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They can dish it out, but can't take it.

pmprei
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I got ignored in my relationship because I held my boundaries and called out the bread crumbing. I was ignored that day for months. So after 3 months I finally (we worked together) I blocked him everywhere and found a new job a year later. So hard working together as I had to see him move on to new relationship and he was nice to me at work. Jerk. Thank god dodged that bullet. Now self care and building confidence to accomplish personal goals.

gracecase
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You think things seem to be going good until the narcissist starts acting the same again. Did no contact for two months on my narcissist ex-girlfriend. She was nice for two days then went back to acting the same way. Barely messaging, taking days to answer, lying a lot, and never really showing that she cares. We would text and then all of a sudden she would disappear for days. We could be having a normal conversation and then poof would just be gone. And whenever I would mess up I would always say sorry first. But whenever my ex would mess up wild rarely get told sorry. And even when I knew how long we dated for she would try to lie about that. It’s such a hard game to play. Having to deal with someone that always thinks they’re right, can never be wrong, and whatever you say doesn’t really matter.

DarthVader-jvrv
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Yes I have been ignored by this person and I've been more than ignore this has got to be the most evil experience I've ever been through in my life I mean they are inherently evil they will manipulate things and twist things and get everybody against you or at least try now that I've watched all these videos and doing a lot better and I know how to deal with them I now have a bunch of ammunition thank you so much

jaimeegilmoreduetcovers
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Ignore and Rejection is a Great Tool, But No Contact if Possible, Depending On Your Relationship With The Narcissist . Another Great Video ! 👍😉

petercofrancesco
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For me the ignoring is almost the worst because it's at work. I have to deal with it every day there. Mainly because she goes around laughing and talking to everyone else.

mpacino
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I connected again with the narc and he future faked me and told me all the things we can do places we can go and then when I said ok you want to meet he didn’t seem bothered. That was 2 weeks ago. I haven’t spoke to him since and he hasn’t reached out to me. However i haven’t made an effort to reach out to him either cause he’s pulled so many weird tricks in 3 years it’s sadly habitual

indraSilentMoonImaginarium
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They want you to play the role of the withdrawing frustrating parent so they can split you cause they couldn't split the parent. You deviate from their
mental snapshot of you (introject). They are not talking to they you outside them they are talking or ignoring the internal image.

edgreen
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Been ignored for so many stupid reasons I don't know most of. Most people never will because their ego is so fragile that it doesn't take much or anything for them to feel wounded.Listing the silly reasons like they feel inferior about their manhood and they bring it up, you stayed silent...but your silence to keep them from feeling wounded in turn, wounded them anyway, it's a no win. They lied so many times, you've figured them out so when you later ask about this lie you've never revealed you see as what it truly is, then they shut down. Get mad because you ask how someone was that wasn't them, or about their child, it doesn't matter. Constant circling the wagons trying to keep their anger at bay never ends no matter how intune you are to them. They'll get mad and ignore you anyway and or punish you with schemes also to then laugh about causing you further .anguish. Sometimes I would even act like I was going on with the trap so they could just go silent and I'd get a break from it all for awhile.

rhondamier
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They do that when have other supply. Permanent silence and cut all ties is the only way

SoulFaeWorld
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I recently called out my Narcissistic mother on something I didn't like. I'm currently getting the silent treatment, but to be honest I'm not interested in talking to her anymore. I don't need that shit in my life. I don't have time for that.

sunnie
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I happened to glance over your shoulder that was an easy answer. ❤ He has stopped participating in the relationship all together after we had cohabitated. He says "he doesn't know what we are now" AFTER he gave me a ring. Sounds like games to me.

dragonclaws
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For as long as I could remember my narcissistic family, mother, father and two brothers ignored me, causing me to become recluse to them, but outgoing and friendly to others. They hated when I had friends and even tried to turn friends against me. I am 70 years old this year and they still act the same way they have always acted. Although I have more control over my situation because our parents have died. They used to try guilt tripping that I only saw my parents once a month, they thought it should be every week. I minimized contact with them because they were horrid to be around. Over the years they contacted me to place pressure on me to go to extended family reunions. I declined, they attempted to make me feel guilty for not going, so I simply asked the question; "why do you want me to go?" They remained silent which told me they didn't really care that I was there because they enjoy me, they wanted me to see them having fun with others while ignoring me. I am convinced there was gossip against me because the couple of times I did go early on, people acted cool toward me as though they didn't want to talk to me. I am also convinced my brothers wanted me to see the others friendly with them while unfriendly with me. I hope those who have been abused as I have will realize their life can be joyful and happy more without family abusers, and that they are not missing anything when they walk away, in fact they are gaining peace, joy and new friends. By the way, it is not wise to introduce any new friends to narcissistic family members, they will attempt to win the friends to be against you.

gwendolynwehage
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The only person a narcissistic cares about is themselves. I know I am married to one.

StraightShooter.
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You are beautiful everything makes since now. I literally had to stop and rewind to let it sink in. It's so sad, but cunning.

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