What happens when you IGNORE a narcissist?

The mind of a narcissist when you ignore them can be a very dark place. Narcissistic people feel really entitled to having access to you and to others, so when you ignore them they may lose their minds. Narcissistic people could pop up on you at work, call your friends and family or even sometimes pop up at your house. When you ignore a narcissist they feel like you are with someone else and they may lose it for real.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[sharonb]

They are great at dishing it out but they don’t know how to take it. 🤯

[Sunny-orbq]

"never allow someone to be your priority allowing yourself to be their option." Mark Twain.

[ladybutterfly]

Ignoring them makes them feel small and useless.

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Most narcissists can’t tolerate being ignored; the act of silent treatment strikes the narcissist much harder because of their need to feel validated. As the narcissist understands that you are intentionally ignoring them will deflate their inflated ego. Their self-esteem is connected by how much attention they can get from you or others.

A person with high levels of narcissism can get more aggressive when being ignored. When they think you are ignoring them, some won’t be able to control their temper, so they may lash out or change their approach by being aggressive with their calls or text messages demanding to talk or communicate with you. They will never be ready to discuss or be accountable for what they did or said to you. They will just expect you to accept what they want or need while they will be very hypocritical by ignoring their actions. Yes, they will be mad or upset at you for ignoring them, but when or once you call them out on their behavior, they will get mad at you, and in return ignore you.

Even if you ignore a narcissist for whatever reason that may be, they will eventually get bored and seek attention from someone else. The narcissist may replace you with someone else who won’t ignore them and give them the attention, and control that they seek. This is why ignoring a narcissist should be more about you, and less about them. This is how they operate, and how they satisfy their narcissistic supply. Solution: Ignoring them is one of the easiest ways to redeem your control, regain your sense of clarity, and restore your power by focusing your attention on yourself. As far as what happens to a narcissist when you ignore them is really irrelevant. May you know the signs. May you not become a victim. And may you be more concern about your healing, recovery, and emotional-mental health.

[carolynmerritt]

I told him to his face, IT'S YOU, IT'S YOU, IT'S YOU!!! YOU ARE THE REASON FOR MY LEAVING!! Can't stand the look of him or the sound of his voice. Ugh!!! Feeling absolutely wonderful, lighter, free.❤❤❤ So glad I didn't waste anymore time than I already have, but I learned a lot about what I don't want.

[PamelaSofia]

I’m done, so he better get used to the silence!!

[whyYUbee]

Yup, he hates it so much, he's stuck in the loop which looks like that: hoovering -> begging for forgiveness -> hating, assuming I have someone -> apologies and we start again from hoovering. You're on point Lee.

[brennapayne]

My ex broke it off and iv cut all contact. I blocked him on everything. We havent talked in 2 months and a couple days ago i got an email from him try to say he misses me and he should have protected me. Hes the one i needed to be protected from. So i ignored it i refused to send an email back.

[wms]

He's at MY church. I had to quit going to MY church to avoid seeing HIM. I went on Saturday and he said "Hi" to me. I don't want him to think I go there for him. Thanks to your video, I just texted him for the first time in over a year to tell him NOT to speak to me if he sees me at church. I told him to ignore me and treat me like he did when we were married, to say N O T H I N G to me.

[t.bailey]

Checkmate. It ain't no fun no more when the rabbit got the gun. That strikes a nerve.

[ShadowKing]

They go to extremes to get your attention. They have to be known. They're childish individuals who deserve to be ignored. Pay them no mind. What ever they try to do to you always backfires on them eventually. 😉

[tiffanimoore]

It's soooo much worse when you have a child with them

[zaharatrotter]

Trying hard to ignore but he knows exactly what to do to trigger me

[Honeypepper.]

Thank you for wanting us to win. This video was right on time

[kevabrown]

Narcs should be okay with being ignored because they’re the Queen/King of ignoring.

[Hunter]

My brother in law is a narcissist. He tried yelling, being abusive toward me, I don't care. He is boring. It drove him crazy that I really don't care

[annette]

Lee your videos have been a blessing. I have been ignoring my narcissistic male friend for peace of mind. Your videos have been my strength and eye-opener to the behaviors and attitudes of a narcissist. We live in the same neighborhood and I have seen him on occasion but to me he's dead, he ghosted me and I do not speak to ghosts. Today, he spoke to me when he saw me and said, "Hi, " with a smile. I ignored him and I refused to acknowledge him. He attempted to emotionally abuse me when he abandoned the friendship (discarded), ghosted, and showed up at my door twice after two months. LOL. Thank you Lee if it weren't for you I would not have seen him for what he was A NARCISSIST.

[stacyyoung]

I need help to get him out my thoughts and feelings so I can move on with some one else.

[alouise]

Now every time someone posts on fb that they're in a hospital I'm going to assume they're a Narcissist. Lol

[ladyvirgo]

I will never take the bait. My husband showed me at his discard how he truly feels about me. Thanks Lee. I did block 🚫 his number & email, im not on social media thankfully. I only see him at court