What Does The Narcissist Do When you Ignore THEM

Taking space from a covert narcissist to actually ignoring them highly threatens their sense of control and wellbeing. The Narcissist’s narcissism steps up to re-establish control using a series of manipulations in order to bring the target back under control. This podcast looks at some of these manipulative tactics to further educate on NPD to facilitate a wonderful healing journey for those affected by these individuals particularly in an intimate relationship setting.

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[irocwellOO]

“Never argue with idiots they will only beat you down with experience.”
~George Carlin

[markmartin]

This whole obsession we have with a narcissist has more to do with us. Most people who interact with a narcissist just call them an A hole and walk away. We put up with it probably cause we had a narcissist parent and they’re keying in on it. The narcissist is a lost cause. It’s our own childhood trauma we need to confront

[cherobinson]

Don’t ignore them for awhile don’t take a break Absolutely ditch them. Ignore the Narcissistic neighbors ignore the Narcissistic Ex, Ignore the Narcissistic Family Members. They are at least 33% of the general population. There’s two kinds people in this world Kind and Mean. Narc Are Mean. Avoid

[treelover]

I WALKED AWAY 3 YEARS AGO. NO CONTACT IS THE BEST STRATEGY. TAKES TIME TO HEAL. DEVELOPING NARCISSISM KNOWLEDGE IS VERY NECESSARY.

[sa]

Who cares what they do? Move on. Ignore them.

[teresafraser]

Narcassists are like need a host to feed off of in order to survive !!!

[nabi]

DO NOT LET IT BE JUST TEMPORARY ....MUST BE PERMANENT!!! Thats the only way for us Empaths

[dovelove]

I learned about NPD during the silent treatment. I went no contact & blocked him. He spread rumors, got no reaction and knew I figured him out. Two years of blissful peace.

[bluemoon]

The worst is when they accuse you of being the narcissist when you won't do what they want or don't give them what they want.

[gwendolynwehage]

Because the narcissist is so focused on self it is agonizing to spend time with them. It is usually an unhappy experience because they have no joy or peace, they don't laugh or share anything of their own feelings or emotions. If they are not bragging about their own life they have nothing to say. They have no interest in you or outside of their own materialism of adventure activities. It is absolutely boring to spend time with people who are so invested in appearing acocomplished and perfect that they are like robots. They never help when asked, they will only help if its their own idea and for the purpose of being noticed by others.

[whatsupchannel]

Character assassination is a huge problem. it's so hard to ignore the pain that they inflict . If they cannot reach you directly, they will find other ways 💯.

[izawaniek]

You have nailed it to the smallest detail Pola! Absolutely the case. Narcisists are driven by demonic forces and the only way to survive and recover from this spiritual warfare is by prayer, fasting, work and doing good things for yourself and others. Trusting That God has the final word. And that Jesus is by our side. God bless you ❤

[Kevin-ggbp]

I am a man. I have been through an eye opening narc relationshit. You must understand that no contact is for you to do the inner work on why you went for this person. Deal with your own issues and forgive and move on. The forgiveness is for you because you will go through a stage of feeling you let yourself down. Learn from your failures so you can move on and be health. Endure your suffering and don't let it break you. It does get easier. I am lucky as I don't use social media. This helped me and forces me to live life.

[lauriemendoza]

I have no problem ignoring and being ignored by the narcissist, and I could care less about his new supply. She will learn the hard truth soon enough. Him not having the capability to contact me has brought me an abundance of peace. That peace paves the way for my healing, which is my main focus.
Thank you for this video Paula, it has validated the healing progress I have made.

[joshuaanzalone]

This is an individual that doesn't understand this is my life and I decide who comes in and who goes out. I'm noones doormat.

[madelinehodges]

Think of them as a vampire; you have to invite them in. Don’t do it.

[charliebubbles]

The narcissists motto is…’love me or hate me but don’t you dare ignore me.’

[rosemarythyme]

I have been abused and surrounded by narcissistic people my entire life.

I wish I could go back in time and know then what I know now.

Many of my family members are narcissists, and I ended up marrying one. If I knew then what I know now I would’ve ran like hell moved out of state and never came back .

I was insecure alone and abused and manipulated. Now I know what an empath is. I wish I knew when I was younger how empaths are impacted by these kind of people.

My empathy and my kindness was wasted on vile, disgusting, cruel, wicked people who hide who they are .

I am at an age and have learned enough. I don’t play around with toxic people. I cut them short I walk away I don’t get involved I don’t take their phone calls. I don’t listen to them and I have no problem bluntly ghosting them, and never ever speaking to them again. I fully enjoy door slams on toxic nasty people.

[melindajackson]

They meed help, Stay away from them .They will kill your joy.

[sleeperno]

“You don’t have self agency in the narcissist’s mind”. Truer words have never been spoken. Perfect analysis.