Narcissists show up in your life in two ways Rescuer or Victim

[HydroDiver]

That's such a scavenger move. That's what hyenas and vultures do. Preying on you when you're at your most vulnerable.

[vacationeyes]

Showed up as a victim who needed my help. Then creeped into my life, isolated me from my other friends taking over my entire calendar. Almost like a virus.

[LarryA-wj]

He hit the nail right on the head this is what happened to me husband had passed away was going through a divorce i learned from the best i am going through the healing process now i am not a victim because i chose to move on with Jesus Christ in my life i can start over i now love myself i am not looking to be in another relationship i can do good by myself i am 74 years old sign Cynthia Smith i know you are never to old to start over i love peace

[stevenmiller]

This is such truth - they can play the victim like no one else, having used it on so many before!

[florencechukwudi]

Mine showed up like a victim, I sympathized with him, we married and the monster in him came full blown

[fragrenscat]

2 massive bereavements... both times a narcissist showed up.

[tammystewart]

I set my boundaries no cohabitation before marriage and no smoking cigarettes. Three months later he proposed. Nine months later we moved in one week before marriage at a traditional church and no alcohol at the small church reception. I had champagne at the dressing room. After the church ceremony and both of us got into a car to drive to my parents place for reception he asked what I thought about the ceremony I told him how I really feel at the time which I thought was a no big deal out of nowhere the newly 2 hrs groom smashed his head on the steering wheel.😮 I was shocked and didn't see that coming. We both were young and I believe I acquired his narcissistic personality disorder as well as my mother's mental abuse throughout my life. Didn't understand what was going on. Took me 30 years to finally figure out what both of them been doing to me psychologically. Needless to say marriage lasted for 11 years and both the narcs are friends on FB to continue torturing me.😢 One day I'll be finally at peace.🙏👍

[corbinhbucknerjr]

Mine showed up as a victim. I bought her line from start to finish. She gutted me like a fish.

[joannefernie]

I'd quit drink 4 a mth & spoke to a guy that I know was drinking to much. Stupidly I thought I could help by listening. His gf had gone, his wife b4 had gone so I be ame a friend to him. After 10mths he made it clear he liked me more. His drinking was less so I thought after 8yrs of celibacy I'd date him. Within mths he demanded a made him a sandwich. I'd just come back from the shop with his scotch.
Because I told him to make his own he three a remote across the rm & went into a fit of rage! I was so shocked I just froze. That was the start of his narcissistic behaviour. He apologised the next day & said he'd drank too much. So yes, I let it go. I did tru & help him - around his hs, his letter's he hadn't opened but his nasty unpredictable behaviour continued. Suffice to say I left & since he has ignored my calls I made to try & get my stuff back. I later find out he had his gf in a chokehold according to his x wife. If u meet these kind of men - run like he'll 😮😢❤

[ashleywilkerson]

He played victim. Said his ex wife was crazy, trying to get everything from him, didn’t care about her kids, etc. Doubt if any of it was true now that I look back.

[MariaWestermeyer-hdtg]

Thank you for this video, mine I think used victem mode because he played first as a broken man who was abused by his ex wife ect, I have allot of compassion, he went on to make it feel like God had sent me to him that day, the way he was with me was so different, except I did feel my gut telling me somethings off, at that time I ignored it because I could not see it, so here iam 24 years later, listening reading comments from others and I see it now, I think with me is I had numbed the abuse and taken the blame for it, iam doing breathing excersises for my nervous system walking and focusing on myself, and going forward to separate, because I can't keep having him break me anymore, thank you

[laceypotter]

Uff the second part is true. When I lost my mom a move and pregnant all within 6 months time frame. He abandoned ever step of the way still does. I still see him jumping for other people and figuratively slapping me in the face. 8 years this been happening. Uff I shake my head

[Superempath]

Yep My Bf Babymom shows up as a Victim To him / Controller and The Rescuer to her daughter she never seen any fault in her daughter and rescues her even when she's in the Wrong? Smh

[accountholder]

Yes but not necessarily in just these two ways! They can be your colleagues, they can be friend, family members, neighbours! Not limited to anything really!

[sabaansari]

Met both kind of😂.. Now I am the hero and victim both😂

[nzingaase]

😂😂😂😂😂 where's the lie, stay strong lovlies ❤

[ashleyhinds]

Is it normal for them to try to give things to your kid even when you've told them that you no longer want contact?

[leyapriya]

Hooo... Danish... Are you a super man or something? All your words are exactly same that happened to me... My husband always fight with me, he don't like me and my family...one day my husband pushed me away from his house...then I went to my home i can't even explain what a situation I were gone through that time...in that situation one of our family friend came to chat with me like a rescuer...first I felt him as a nuisance..but when I get closer to him I feel so.. comfortable and safe, prode to have...when he knews I'm in his trap...he try to uses me in different ways, but he didn't get what he wants...then he suddenly abandoned me..blocked me on social medias too... .still I'm shocked why he left me like that!!!

[oceanlife]

Or show up as a helper in a medical situation using their job title as a nurse. Not long after you realize their lure was never to help you, but for what you could do for them in their pretend victim stories that they start laying out. The double-sided coin is played at the exact same time, both hero and victim in the story. Flip, flip, flip goes the coin. So fluid, flipping the coin as easily as they breathe while they play the game. They know exactly what they're doing.

[samanthaq]

But not all good samaritan are narcissist but narcissist pretends to be like good Samaritan 😢😢😢😢