5 Code Words Narcissists Use: What They Really Mean

5 Code Words Narcissists Use: What They Really Mean. In this video, learn about the 5 code words narcissists use and what they really mean. Understanding these code words can help you recognize and protect yourself from narcissistic abuse.

Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with a narcissist and felt like you were speaking a different language?
Well, in a way, you actually are.
That's because they have their own set of code words they use. But little did you know that they're actually using them to manipulate, control, and deceive you.
And in this video, we'll reveal the top code words used by narcissists and what they really mean.
Before that, let's dive into the world of narcissism.
Chances are we know someone who fits the definition of a narcissist. We're talking about someone who's arrogant, entitled, and always thinks that they're right. And as you talk to them, you'll notice that they seem to have a different way of speaking, like they're speaking in code.
What most people don't realize is that narcissists use specific code words to gaslight their victims and maintain their power. So now, let's break down these five of these sets of code words and expose the narcissist's true intentions in saying them.

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[jackilynpyzocha]

They are not "concerned about you"; they are controlling you!

[abhayavinayak]

1. It's for your good
2. That's not what I meant
3. No one else thinks that
4. I'm just kidding
5. You're just being too sensitive

[lynek]

“You made me do it!” Is the standard.

[karenmcgady]

"You are too sensitive" or "I'm just joking and you can't take the joke" are insulting and insensitive. Those statements just DRIVE ME INSANE!!!

[Revelation-]

6. I never said that
7. I never did that

[rw]

This really reminds me of my 1st wife. And using her Christianity as a tool to control me and others. The worst years of my life. Since 2004 a free man.

[darkangel]

Ive been being harassed for years by these people. Its a nightmare. No empathy just irritation.
Every word i say turns into drama

[bchandler]

I met a guy online who introduced himself as Aiden. We really hit it off & eventually met up when I traveled to his city to visit my best friend. When we finally met & I called him by his name “Aiden” he told me, “there must be some confusion, my name is (I won’t put his real name because I try to not let it be part of my vocabulary.) So his name was not Aiden & he corrected me by telling me that I was confused about his name. I was so dumbstruck & immediately questioned my reality like maybe I really did misunderstand what he told me his name was. It was gaslighting at its finest & at the time I didn’t even know there was a legit term for what he was doing. The relationship between he & I went on much longer than it should have. I remember the first time we had a fight about something that he did he acknowledged it with these words, “well, I’m sorry you feel that way, but…” & then went on to insinuate that the problem wasn’t his actions, the problem was how I felt about his actions. I cannot believe these monsters walk this earth & breathe the same air as those of us with good intentions do. Good riddance!

[johnjaymesgreatadventures]

The description of these narcissists sound like cold hearted people that need to be avoided.

[shannonedwards]

6.) "It's really not always about you."

[benjaminA.stantonpun]

I once told a narcissist this: “Until you admit that you have been manipulative, I will never agree with you or ever say that you are right about anything.” He went into tears.😢 It was one of the most entertaining and gratifying moments of my life. 😆🤪

[janetcaruana]

Our ex friend called his girlfriend the worst name anyone can call a woman over a game of cards. I was across from her and our jaws dropped. My husband finally said something like “ there’s no need for that”. He told my husband the next day, “she knew I was just kidding”. He said no one says those words “ just kidding!”. We stopped the games after that. And then dropped their friendship.

[chrisantoniou]

When a Narcissist says, "You're the only one who thinks like that" it's their way of saying you are therefore wrong, and letting others in a group where they are "boss" know who they need to support. When a Narcissist makes a joke at your expense, it's usually something you are going to be sensitive about so when you react, they can then say you're too sensitive, trying to make what they have (deliberately) done to embarrass you in front of others look like you can't take a joke.

A Narcissist will always say something to belittle you and aggrandize themselves, especially in front of others.

[TheBadSpoon]

I've had the misfortune of dealing with a handful of malignant narcissists in my strange life; you know, the kind who are 80% the cause of your therapy sessions. One of the code words they seem to use often is "we", because they can't tell at all where they end, and where others begin.

[remytembe]

Wow! Just when I thought I really know how to detect a narcissist. We live and learn. Thank you.

[michaelfischer-xpcw]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me, i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

[timeslime]

“thats NOT what I meant”….but thats what i always say to the narc, because he twists MY words. THE NARC is the one who misinterpreting, theyre twisting your words…so ITS THE NARC who is bein told, “Thats not what i meant”.

[jrrkmnk]

I was just trying to help. It's not my fault. I didn't do anything wrong. You made me. Blah, blah, blah. It gets old.

[ifazerakathedoctor]

They also ask lots of stupid questions, like "what do you mean?" or "what does that have to do with anything?"

[juliemarks]

My sister is a narcissist and patronising she use the phrase good girl I'm 62 for god sake! She brags about how much she has and rubs it in my face if I can't afford something! She also buys the cheapest gifts possible! Yet she is dripping in gold and diamonds! I'd rather live the way I do! Than be like her. She is sneaky and vindictive. She instigates trouble then watches it happen with a smirk on her face!