Signs of a Toxic Girlfriend | Adult Bullies | Signs of the Siren | Coach Melannie

Knowing the signs of a toxic girlfriend (who are essentially just adult bullies) is a vital life skill if you want to gain a happy and healthy relationship.

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Most people are well meaning and there is a wonderful girl out there for you! If, however, you don’t know how to spot what I like to call “the signs of the siren” you can mistake one of those toxic adult bullies for your dream girl and end up in a heartbreaking relationship instead.

I’ve got 5 signs of toxic girlfriends for you today. By knowing them you are taking 5 steps closer to finding that cute dream girl!

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Hi! I’m Melannie. I’m a relationship coach with strong Christian Values, an abuse survivor and your biggest cheerleader. I take Christian men by the hand and show you how to find and attract your dream girl by: 1) Opening the doors to “girl world” and how women think. 2) Teaching you how to identify the traits of your dream girl and become attractive to her – Yes, she is out there and she wants to meet you! 3) Giving you the tools to create mature relationships centered on Christian principles rather than mind games or worldly opinions. Subscribe and ring the notification bell if you like what you see!

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[drewnoirfilmz]

After dating a “drama queen”, I came up with a theory that many people are often so addicted to drama that if there isn’t enough drama in their lives that they will create their own!

[yogalover]

You forgot to state that toxic women often throw childish temper tantrums.

[kalisinkala]

I just realized that am dating a needy girlfriend and she makes me feel like the worst thank you

[kevincoelho]

My ex had all these traits. She called herself an “empath”. She was an empath who hit me, gave me the silent treatment, and didn’t respect my boundaries. Weird

[gotnumpompalarim]

Walked out of my 2, 5 years toxic controlling relationship 2 days ago. I can finally spend time with friends in the evening or night without having 5 calls and 10 messages every 30 minutes.

[shrutisubba]

I'm a girl, I just wanted to see if I'm toxic

[Dan-nywx]

Amazing, brought me to tears feels like a weight has been lifted for a moment knowing I’m not the only one going through this.

[MJComics]

This was exactly what happened to me. I lost friends and myself. She is constantly wanting my attention, making assumptions and accusations every now and then. I quit and it feels a lot super beautiful to hang out with friends and chill

[deenanthekemoni]

I cried while I watched this.
I've tried so Hard. So many times.

I Have to Let Her Go. Family no More.

[Geotonrike]

Well! I screwed up!
My girlfriend presents all 5 symptoms except yelling in public

[xWarghoulx]

I had to leave a toxic person yesterday. I feel like a weight has been lifted.

[JL-mbom]

#3 is huge. As men we need to stand our ground and not put up with this. I was engaged and my ex blew up on me at a wedding for talking sports! I had enough and got the ring back. It’s hard, I love her but I don’t think that’s the way to treat someone you love. She didn’t have my back at all.

[ritcheabano]

This is such an eye opener to all who have been sticking in to a toxic relationship for a long time.

[TomDeVito]

You absolutely nailed it! I just got out of a 7 month toxic relationship and she is everything you described especially with #3 and #4.

[waynesmith]

My ex girlfriend didn't put anything into the relationship.. she was seldom there. She constantly complained about her ex husband's (4) her kids, her car, and, almost everything else.

[johannschmidt]

Notice how when you stop texting first, y'all stop texting at all. Girls just don't understand that they have to meet us half way instead of us doing all the work

Edit: I wrote this a year and a half ago, I'd just gotten out of a breakup that tore me to my foundation and crushed me. Two girlfriends later, I'm with a wonderful girl who thinks the world of me and who I adore. Of course it still kills me to remember the first girl, but I want you all to know that it doesn't always have to be bad, there's still good people out there for you all, and you'll have some trial and error before you can find them.

[AnnoyingMoose]

During 14 years of marriage (until her death from cancer) I came to realize that ALL women are high maintenance: the only difference is that some of them are worth the effort.

[beeaddict]

almost all of these describe my ex, she would constantly expect me to give and give, she was controlling, and got upset over the smallest thing. it was very stupid half the time considering the fact that she got mad at me for stuff like sending a meme, playing with a Rubik's cube, and giving her advice. when we broke up she then tried playing the victim and then accused me of playing the victim, I'm with another girl now and she's a million times better than she ever was

[tylernielson]

Thank you Coach Melannie. The simple fact that your channel is here for me gives me hope even considering that i am still having intermittent tears and bawling as i type this out

[consciousphilosophy-ericva]

Great video, Melannie. I totally resonate with this. I have been harassed, smothered, called endlessly on fake caller IDs, texted an innumerable amount of times, always an issue if I want to hangout with guy friends alone, and so forth. Also, it’s evident that if she doesn’t impart the answers she so desperately desires, I’m then the “abuser.” It’s sheer control to keep me constantly in her presence. I am merely an object at this point. Thank you for shedding light on this crucial topic - women are surely abusive, needy, and manipulative. However, due to their nurturing nature, it is always pinned on the man - the woman is the victim, always.