Dont let a narcissist keep you around when they have moved on

dont let a narcissist keep you around as a backup plan when they have moved on to a new relationship or when they have a new supply. Narcissists love to have a backup plan in case things go bad.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[JerseyNurse]

Definitely right. If we allow it, they will do it! ✌️ 😊

[careyf]

I just got an email yesterday from the narc asking me to unblock him. He said I was immature and childish to have him blocked. Asked if we could be friends but then said if we could be friends, I couldn't bring up what he did in the past. I didn't reply. Then about 8 hours later, he emailed me again, saying I guess that means no.. no reply to that one either. I'm waiting for the rage email. This man called me every name in the book and then would post about me online. Never has apologized for anything . Said i was the reason for all the problems and i was a terrible fake person, but now wants to be friends lol. He's been blocked for a while and it's staying that way.

[tawl]

Once I finally realized they were NEVER going to change (the things I constantly voiced that was hurting me), I had to call it quits for good. Our last “heart to heart” left me in tears because I JUST KNEW it would not work, no matter what they said to try & fix what will remain broken.
Moving on was the best decision 😊

[susand]

Oh yeah, they put you on the shelf because they know it's much easier to get supply from an ex, rather than to groom someone new.. Stay No contact.. Thanks Lee, 🙏🏼✝♥

[gigicooper]

Neva Eva return to the person who destroyed you... You deserve to be respected and loved :) Go for it!

[kayy.kayyx]

So crazy how this is exactly what’s been happening to me. He’s really the devil.

[HS-buwo]

I definitely was downgraded to back up while he was secretly in another relationship. He'd meet with me to eat or have coffee, tell me how much he loved and missed me (but was too busy with school to invest in working things out with me at the time), spend holidays with me and my kid, give me backrubs, check in on me frequently and cry if I suggested that I needed to move on since he wasn't showing up. Turns out a lot of those times he was checking in on me was because he was out with the new girl at a venue I introduced him to and we used to go to and he just wanted to make sure I wasn't there.

[CL-lowd]

This absolutely happened to me. It was horrible. I still can’t believe how it all went down, the level of cunning and manipulation was so epic, neither myself not the new supply new about each other for quite some time. The whole thing was such a mind fuck. Idk how she’s dealing with it but I am out! I’m never gonna get over this mindfuck. But at least I am out. Single for the rest of my life. I only come across narcs and I can’t deal with this anymore.

[marthasaunders]

Some narcissists mistaken you healing as waiting for them to come back also.

[enlightenedjade]

Block, no contact forever. The narc, the new supply and all the flying monkeys. The new supply can be an unwilling victim actually helping the narc stay in contact with you. Don’t be fooled. Move on, take care of you and you will feel infinitely better. ❤

[recoveringsoul]

The ONLY time I've ever had to "Fake it" in the bedroom was with him. Just to get him OFF of me. He's just not that good.

No chance of him getting back that way.

[thewaythetruththelife]

I have this bad feeling whenever I stick up/assert boundaries and get the blame on me that something is wrong with me. This causes anxiety and makes me feel like something is wrong with me. I know it’s not but it hurts deep down it makes me feel like it’s my fault.

[lalavanegas]

Luckily he has blocked me for over six months, I blocked him as well. I don't think he sees me as backup supply. It feels great no having contact.

[SFCretiredArmt]

My current situation and why I’m headed to divorce. Reeled me back in with lies and knowing the love I have for our daughter…..I refuse to be toxic to myself again trying to be genuine.

[shirlspark_stardust]

No me no contact forever 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾he can cause his demised outside far away from me

[taneshalashai]

I don’t understand that, but if you break my trust I don’t want you around me at all.

[latashahumphrey]

I'm trying to pay my deposit on my home all that other stuff is not important.

[andreeapatrascu]

I will let him poppin at my house, saying he misses me. When he’la split back the chick he left me for and come back to me i’ll block him everywhre. Hope he’s reaching rock bottom too and go to therapy! 🙏🏻

[chandelle_glee]

Count down begins ❤️💯 need this one today. Thanx in advance 😂 already know you’re going to be helping me with whatever I watch

[lizzlester]

It's been a while since I watched your videos. This was a perfect reminder of when to just begin to let it go. Thanks.