Narcissists don’t want to coparent with you. They counter parent and try to make your life miserable

Narcissist dont coparent, they counter parent and try to get a rise out of the other parent-

[joehooper]

Amen. Most of the time it feels more like you have an addition child to deal with instead of a coparent. But it does bring clarity after awhile and helps to reaffirm your decision to remove them from your family's daily life

[nightmareappliance]

Lee, I just want to thank you again. I just found out I got an interview for my ex narcs position at work. He always told me I could never do what he did… I’m going to prove his ass wrong while he’s sitting off suspended waiting to be fired ♥️ you always told me not to forgive, not to forget. I haven’t. Your videos made me strong, please never stop making content 🔥

[sweetoneloves]

Exactly, My mother had to go through that. We somewhat suffered because the father did nothing for us. My mother left with all 7 of us and survived. That rat father was horrible and a pure toxic person along with being a Narc. Mom had sense enough to leave, and I am so happy for her.

[tanyanettleton]

Parallel parenting with your narcissist ex makes going no contact or very minimal contact easier.

[fitu]

Why is this so accurate and so true .... I absolutely cannot co parent with the father of my kids.. it's an absolute nightmare. I mean, to the point that because I refuse to go back to the nightmare, I was living.. he won't send me a penny for these kids.. I work two jobs and make sure the kids are well taken care of. Thankfully my main job I work from home. ... but the point is that everything you said is so accurate he tries to do everything I do hut the opposite.. and the problem is. It's not even in a genuine way, it's in a malicious way. It's so sad.

[INFJ_Pisces]

they dont care if kids are cryin, scared, uprooted….. these beasts dont gaf about anything but themselves, and hurting you.

[iKIDFrezh]

I got two children my baby momma and my son. Only difference is my son actual learns things and grows

[braziliangirl]

Omg! I’ve been thinking about this subject the last days. I was thinking what should I do? He lies to not come and pick up his son on the weekend, he says he is or he will be working, etc. I felt like confronting him but I know I won’t win. Thanks for the video! I’ll follow your advice.

[mysteryfusion]

He's took me to caught reported me to safe guarding tryed everything to get my child taken away all that died down now he's made application to not pay child support . He's remarried with another child. Still trying to terrorise me but I'm grey rocking to everything. I can't wait till my child is old enough to choose not to go. The things I feel like im sending my child to abuse forcing them to see the other parent. I was raised by a narc I know the damage they can do to a child's confidence and self esteem. If there an undiagnosed narc what proof you got for court. There's a big injustice to it all.

[sharonramirez]

As a narcissistic parent, can you explain how u see your kids now vs before ur diagnosis?

[kobeibryant]

I live this everyday and yet she blames me for it but kicker she gave the kid up and now all a sudden wants to be mom of year but never agree to anything and still haven’t seen or spoke to child but the momma can definitely argue countet parent just always her way or no way

[MamiTT]

Yup sure did! And ended getting himself killed in front of our daughter and got himself exposed for the lies he was spreading about me! He had the entire world thinking I was the bad parent but he was lying lying lying! I wonder where he is in the afterlife!

[meekmeek]

Sad indeed. GOD bless you for spreading awareness. 🙏

[jacalli]

These narcs love to make the other parent out to be horrible. Saying to the kids "only a few days til you come back " they don't want to go back to you! What is up with them talking to older kids like they are toddlers?

[heavenlyprecog]

Currently going through this….I got court on Monday 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ just to see my youngest (who I haven’t seen in 3 years)

[Jacquelinerenees]

This goes for step parenting as well. I was a step parent and often, my ex would counter parent and remind me that the child was *his son*. Now, I wasn't trying to push beliefs or anything. And, I happen to be a preschool teacher. So I have worked with countless students and families but often, when I would try to help parent, I was put into the category of "I don't know sh*t". Especially when he was dealing with conflict from the children's mother.

[miab.]

Can you give us solutions at the same time..

[Hfdsettvsexnuigg]

Any of your video is helping me 😏 but in a bit different way that was the intentions of making it 🤭🙈 I am really thankfull, i apprecciate it. And i know....that you know....😏