Living With a Covert Narcissist

Dr. David Clarke discusses what you should do if you're living with a covert narcissist.

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They are professional victims. It's infuriating and so much crazy making. I was so brainwashed through his use of guilt trips and martyrdom.

[mcawesomest]

It’s literally physical, psychological, emotional torture at levels incomprehensible to the average person.
They never have a good day.. they are a martyr and they will sacrifice YOU, your family, and your kids for his Own personal glory.
They ALWAYS bash you behind your back, lots of silent treatments, and you will always have to apologize.
Their punishments can go on for weeks! Even Months!

[joshuaescalante]

Oh, the list of grievances the covert narcissist remembers and brings up during arguments. After an argument, the silent treatment for days, weeks and for me, months. Thank you Dr. Clarke for putting this video together. I’m no longer married to the covert narcissist. I’m back with my family and friends, life is good. A Covert Narcissist to everyone else walks on water, high thought of and respected. At home, it’s misery, it’s everyone’s fault.

[womanatthewell]

This man needs a platform in every church. He is one of the few that speak the truth about destructive relationships. Most of the church is completely blind and ignorant.

[Dee-Dee]

Dr Clarke, this is my story. You just described my ex and yet you don't know him. You're so right about the fact that I'm the only one who knows who he truly is, and how he treated me in our marriage. Everyone thinks he's this wonderful, kind guy, and that I'm crazy to have left him. I've stopped explaining cos I know what he did and who he really is and, most importantly, I now have peace. This video made me feel seen and heard. Thank-you so much.

[amberinthemist]

I'm so glad to see you address this. I was raised by a covert narc mom and older sister, who teamed up to destroy my self esteem from birth. Neither could make friends of their own so I guess decided they'd cripple me so I would be their loyal slave companion. I've been so lucky to escape. Of course my sister tried to destroy me as I was leaving. My mom has Alzheimers and is no longer capable of such behavior.

It's so easy to spot an overt narc. There needs to be a campaign to get info out about covert narcs because they destroy people even more.

[lillybethford]

They will cheat..cheat…cheat and masterfully hide it. I’m praying for you’ll.☮️

[sandramaloney]

Wow- this was so concise and accurate in describing a covert narc. The more we can educate people about them, the better we can render them impotent to harm us. Thank you for doing this.

[Liam_S_G]

I’m with a narcissist woman. Just yesterday she admitted she thought I purposely hide her important docs so it would be harder for her to move out. She found them and said it’s sad that I make her think I’d do that to her. God help me.

[stephm]

Two days ago, he said he would cancel all the credit cards and slash my tires if I tried to leave. I had to sleep in the car with my son because I didn't feel safe. Yesterday he said the problem is my unforgiveness and his years of neglect and maltreatment is my fault. He got me a coffee that day so he's apparently so nice and I'm ungrateful. Oh and all this yelling at me and drama and calling me names -- my mom just suddenly died last week. I'm heading to her funeral by myself, driving 1500 miles grieving with a child, where I'm sure everyone will tell me how wonderful he is.

[rrscotts]

This is a Godsend YouTube channel!!! Thank you for getting this truth out there!!!

[OlyaTopolya]

Your description of life with covert narcissist exactly what I live for 13 years. I thought I going crazy because for everyone else he is a Perfect guy. 🧐 To live through this destroyed me inside because nobody sees and feels what I see. Thank you for this video

[greentray]

First video I see that gets straight to the point and hits many key points. Thank you for this!

[americanassociationagainst]

I love your description of these master manipulators. I was married to a criminal narcissist for 33 years and I had to fight for almost 5 years to get my divorce that he filed for. I just got it last week. A minister told me to divorce him before he got out of prison many years ago and now I know why. The guy is very evil and should be in prison.

[lynnb]

This is my dad to the "T" 💯%.
He loves to get revenge when he is wronged. Don't dare cross him or you'll pay the price.

[lyndaputz]

THANK YOU, Dr. Clarke, for opening my eyes and helping me to see!

[Rene]

I did not know there was a name for this but wow..it opened my eyes to know that I’m not crazy

[aLightShines]

why is it ALWAYS that they are the biggest victim always in every arguement

[christian-ze]

Does the covert narcissist lie to themselves first? Do they believe their own lies?

[TresaSchroeder-lsei]

Oh, I just searched covert narcissist...I'm watching this with my chin on the ground.The depth of his destruction is endless.The cruelty escalated to the police report describing our situation regarding domestic violenc/abuse like this"If there's one more incident involving domestic violence/abuse IT WILL LIKELY END IN HOMICIDE" ITs even more ironic is my gut feeling was screaminr..RUN!!!