Exposing a Covert Narcissist

In this video, Ross Rosenberg, M.Ed., LCPC, CADC, discusses covert narcissism and narcissistic injuries.

ROSS ROSENBERG BIOGRAPHY

Ross Rosenberg M.Ed., LCPC, CADC is a psychotherapist, educator, expert witness, and celebrated author. He is also a global thought leader and clinical expert in codependency, trauma, pathological narcissism, narcissistic abuse, and addictions.

Ross's pioneering codependency contributions are responsible for the sweeping theoretical and practical updates and developing a treatment program that permanently resolves it.

Ross has been featured on national TV and radio and is a regular radio and podcast guest. In addition, he has traveled the world, giving his one-of-a-kind keynote presentations and educational workshops.

His global impact is best illustrated by his 23 million viewed/240,000 subscribed YouTube channel and the sale of 150,000 Human Magnet Syndrome books published in 12 languages.

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[marypelton]

My covert narcissist shot me in the head on his way out the door. The children and I survived but he finally drank himself to death. If you are still with one get out while you still can.

[jill]

I never saw such hate, evil, a meanness till I pissed him off. You see, you can't break up with them. Till they're ready. He loves you, you can't leave him. Till he's found your replacement. Then he could care less.

[Ricardo-kvtk]

She made my life a living hell everything was about her image and how she looked to others but inside her was rotten but with time her mask fell off and more and more people saw her true colours, that’s what I love about covert narcissists they expose themselves with time and you don’t need to do a single thing, your outer looks can only last so long till the mask comes off. Stay strong and remember the truth is inevitable these people will get their day!

[anng.]

If they like you, you can do no wrong. If you are a person they want to impress, they will shower you with gifts and attention. If they hate you, your very existence "offends" them.

[mcawesomest]

It is one of the scariest experiences of your life. It’s like they are possessed and the person you thought you knew- will completely vanish.

It’s the only times I’ve physically feared for my life. You will not be speaking or dealing with a rational person and they will do whatever it takes to SHUT YOU Up.

[emmaharper]

I survived 3 years, they are dangerous individuals physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritual.

[Karen-jpns]

I escaped after serving 20. My ex covert narcissist married a covert narcissist, and she's made his life a living hell.

[markmeadows]

I exposed one and new what was coming. They kept pushing my boundaries I set. I pushed back and they flew in to a rage. Everyone at work seen it and nobody likes this person. Being that way will get you isolated. Narcissist want all the power and control. They want all that attention. When they get cut off because of behavior and backed in to a corner, and nobody wants to interact with them. They turn in to a baby. It will show you how weak they really are.

[amandaserle]

Pathological liars, serial cheaters, cowards bully's all because they have zero self worth. They project their pain and shame on to their unfortunate victim behind closed doors to make them feel better. They can't deal with their trauma or shame that's why they do it, how sick twisted and evil are they?

[marianatequiero]

Absolutely.. when the covert knows your on to them, you will never forget it

[TeteMKawa]

I've spent 17 years of my life with a covert narcissist
(21-38 my entire youth) I'm getting him out of my life this year
I just wish I knew what I know now.
Information is power.

[jacquelinefroehle]

Once their Fake Nice side....knows it has you hooked....They take off their mask to destroy/use you. Coverts have 2 personalities....Fake Nice and then Bam...Abuse begins.

[janebraun]

They often discard you as they have to because you are on to them in some way. I refuse to have hate or lose it, I just am able to recognize their every move, and this drives them crazier than they are.

[formattmusic]

I made the mistake of straight up accusing her of being a covert narcissist. The whirlwind of anger, hate, and smearing my name that came after made me realize that I was dealing with a real covert narcissist. She was more interested in maintaining her false image than she was in maintaining the relationships. And when the mask finally came off, not only did she cease communication with me. She dragged my name through the dirt to anyone who would listen and I lost atleast one friend to her lies about my abuse towards her when in reality, it was her abuse towards me. They lie, project and blame shift and if you do what I did and expose them directly, then they'll completely flip on you. Changing into an evil person you dont recognize. I still think these people can change if they seek help. But, I agree that its pretty rare that it happens. These people have to value growth more than ego, and in many cases. Its simply not feasible. I reacted negatively to one of your videos, because someone I love is probably a narcissist and being told that they can't change and will stay this way, well it breaks my heart. So, I apologize if one of my other comments came off as rude. I am trying to protect someone who wouldn't think twice about throwing me away.

[kathyjenkins]

Very true! They are highly dangerous! I was almost strangulated to death from the psychopath narcissist!

[freespirit]

If you calmly state your truth, you will see the devil flee. The Narcissist will physically back away . It’s like you just deflated a balloon. This can only be done if you know who you are, which is soul in human form. We are true selves. Love. Authentic .

[SunflowerHeather]

Covert narcs can NOT be a good friend or partner. Walked away

[bryanutility]

According to Rosenberg the victims of bad relationships have their own problems who led them there. I’m so thankful for parents who loved me. That’s really all you need.

[fionam]

They will do anything to keep that image and mask on!

[tintina]

Hmm so true, I wish I knew be4 exposing them. Now the smear campaign to destroy my reputation and isolate me is like nothing I’ve imagined a human being can do to another psychologically.😢it’s hurts so bad and I’m scrambling to exit with my kids 😢