Do narcissists ever THINK about you when it's over?

Do Narcissists ever think about you or miss you when it's over? What goes on inside the mind of a narcissist when the relationship is over and you go no contact with them? In this video i go into detail on the mindset of a narcissist when you end it with them.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[Chroniclesofasinglemom]

Before even watching this... Yes! Yes they do!! They may have a new supply but I SWEAR on my ancestors they will keep their eyes on you, sometimes spill the beans to their friends about how they miss/love you. They might've left you or you left them but you're on their mind! I promise you. I'm a living witness!!!!

[margaretgreason]

So, what you're saying, is even though they think about you, it doesn't mean they care about you! It is them missing WHAT THEY GOT FROM YOU!

[MTimmWes]

And we don’t care if they do or not. We have to get to the point where we are indifferent

[heiders]

You know what's amazing? I don't even care if he is.

[TheRoxlight]

Knowing they think about us is ultimately an ineffectual temporary sense of aplomb to soften the blow of just how expendable we were to them.

[OutspokenOkie]

The narcissist I dated for 5 months dumped me harshly for the new chick he met. I even considered her an upgrade from me. I haven't even tried to contact him for a month now. He blocked me on Facebook so I just assumed he also blocked my number. I would swear up and down I've caught him driving by my house twice now. But it was dark and I couldn't get a good look at the car. As far as I'm concerned he held no loyalty whatsoever to our relationship and I can't roll that way. My heart is broke but I also like my dignity.

[OmniTarget]

They will likely think about you again, when it’s over with their new supply.

[debbysmith]

It's over a year of No Contact. I'm not going back he's over and done.Thank you Lee.

[ajdeb]

When he had his new supply i did'nt hear anything from him. Now he talks about me everytime he sees the only friend we have in common. He talks about how i was so comforting, so relax, so well spoken... I think his new supply hast entered the devaluation stage...

[nancyICUnurse]

Thank u sooo much for ur disclaimer! It’s been a very long time since I split from my narcissist, I even moved to another state, but honestly, I’m still hung up on him. U were speaking to me when u told me not to take this video as a sign, so thank you!!! I love ur videos, and those cheek bones! Xo

[SAN_E]

I realize my ex kept in contact with his exes because he liked knowing they were not doing well. He liked knowing that they still “needed” him for money. He thought he would still be able to keep tabs on me through his sister. Everybody, including his momma (love her), got deleted and blocked.

[lokena]

My husband told me we need to our separate ways. Said I could have what I what and he would sell the rest. I looked him dead in his eyes and said, "Bet, sounds like a plan." I'm in the process of getting my own apartment and he's in the streets telling people he should have thought about it before he told me to leave. He's on my insurance and I'm the one who has the care. Telling people, I'm leaving him while he's down, but it was my insurance that kept him alive, I was there in the hospital everyday visiting him and working OT making myself sick to keep a roof over our heads. Whatever. Boy, Bye!

[chrisgriffis]

Pro tip! If you’re having to “fight for the relationship” or fight for this. That’s a red flag. Love isn’t supposed to be a battle.

[DeniseDepass-ev]

I did the no contact for 30 days, and he came to my house and put papers in my door about texts I sent him 2 or 3 years ago, WOW.

[domolincoln]

If they can Hoover you while they are still with the new supply then yes they think about you.

[CountYourAssets]

I've been married to my narc for 7 years now, his ex left him 2 years prior to that, so technically 9 years theyve been seperated. Now, they do have kids together, but they're grown up now. I know for a fact he still thinks about her and will use the "kids" (whom he can contact) as an excuse just to get in touch with her. Now. She doesn't help herself though, she knows she has him wrapped around her finger (shes a narc too) and will communicate with him whenevr she needs a "favour" and he jumps to the occasion, because he just loves being the "hero".
It used to really bother me before (as shed call him whenever she wanted anything or need him to look after the kids for her, when they wwre bit younger), but now, i do not give a shit.
He definitely thinks about her and to him, i think shes the "one who got away". As for me, dont even know why he married me, because everything i do is wrong, i can never please him, nor is my outer appearance to his "liking".
Living with him is a nightmare, always on edge, difficult to get away really... he'll be nice for 1 or 2 days, and usually thats when theres something he needs me to do something for him. Once its done, his mask falls off again, then were back to the nightmare.

[truthreigns]

They think about how to keep you miserable, the thing they hate the most is a smile

[judith]

Absolutely!! 2 years after divorce he is asking me out to the theatre!!

[ItsSoarTime]

I DO NOT
i still think about him, but i'll get over it one day!
if i wanted to see him, he lives in the building and i would acknowledge him when he presses my buzzer (because i KNOW that's him).
if i wanted to speak to him, i have his number or i would respond when he presses the buzzer.
SO, I REALLY DO NOT CARE IF HE THINKS ABOUT
I'M THINKING ABOUT moving, living, being successful, looking great, feeling great ... WITHOUT

[moneymasteryher]

The Lord did not send this video. The algorithm did. 😂😂😂. Facts