Narcissists dont think you will ever leave them. They expect you to stay through all the bad times.

Narcissists dont think you will ever leave them. They expect you to stay through all the bad times and put up with all the terrible things they do. They dont think you will be strong enough to leave

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

You can find me on -

Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you so much and lets HEAL together

[Seashell]

They always over play their hand - karma

[shays]

My Narcissist ex husband used to tell me all the time “I’m the best that you do” He said that for 10 years,
all the way up to…
THE DAY I WALKED OUT THE DOOR!
Because single is still better than being emotionally abused.
Ladies don’t waste the best years of your life with a man that doesn’t value you. 🤦🏻‍♀️ it will never get better.

[JJ-zvvc]

"Don't blame yourself for their actions."

[joannasanteliz]

Exactly!!! My ex narc was rich but there is no amount of money that would make me stay with him. I discarded him and I am sure all his "friends" and flying monkeys think that I am stupid for leaving him but my mental health is more important than any money!!!

[heatherschow]

This one made me laugh because I dated the wealthy narcissist. YOU still do get your heart broke and it’s no better if your in Paris 😂 I know. You can be given everything by them but be broke down mentally, discarded, and love bombed back and forth. It’s an exhausting cycle, that I am so glad I understand now! 3 months NO CONTACT! He never thought I’d leave because of his lifestyle. If I didn’t watch your videos I’d probably still be going back in the cycle! Thank you!!!

I PROMISE it gets BETTER 💕
BE your OWN upgrade, When you take the control away YOU
KEEP WINNING!!!

[monikamroczek]

Tomorrow hes moving out from my house can't wait to start new chapter of my life. Im wiser and mentally stronger now thanx to you.thanx

[mommasgirl]

This hurts my heart SO much. I get it’s a mental disorder but the lack of humanity for someone to hurt you over and over and over again. I’m definitely an empathetic person so it’s just painful to recount this experience.

[sabinagore]

My Narcissist of 12 years looked at me wide eyed shocked and in disbelief and said, "Nobody has ever left me, I am always the one to leave first." He truly didn't think I was strong enough to end our relationship. I am now 3 months short of 2 years without him it has taken this long with therapy, but I am healing nicely and finding my true self again. I was very lost from all the gaslighting. Thank you Lee! You have helped me so much by hearing your perspective, it has validated what I have been through with him. I just want to add that once I saw who he truly was I couldn't UNSEE it! I knew what I had to do to save myself!

[triplejmom]

Never tell a narc you’re Mine was a perfect gentleman until I went to break up with him. He abused me so bad that I was traumatized. Never ever tell a narc you’re leaving; I don’t care how nice they are!!! If you’re with a narc you quietly leave!!! Don’t think you can control them!!

[vexedvixen]

Two months of no contact, getting stronger and feeling “lighter” every day.😊 I was on the Narc horror-coaster for 16 years. I tapped out. Thank you Lee for another great vid! You’re on point!
Oh, and your daughter is an absolute punkin’, too cute for words! God Bless you all.😇♥️

[shannon]

I walked out, moved, changed email and phone number and haven’t talked to him in 2 years. Don’t kill yourself trying to save them. Save yourself. They leave you no choice but to go or die.

[razbearymoon]

How are they afraid of abandonment, but don't think you'll leave ???

See... crazy! 😂 Smh

[princessmandy]

I didn't have the strength, but Jesus gave it to me. By his strength I can do anything.

[adammerchant]

You really have to dig deep to break the trauma bond. One of the the hardest things I’ve ever done. I work hard every day to not put on the rose colored glasses and remember the good things. After a failed reverse discard, lying, cheating, and then disrespectfully, maliciously, and intentionally discarding me... it makes it easier knowing all that is on her and not my fault. After her rage and disregard for my feelings; I’m grateful she finally showed her true self. I’m grateful to have been set free. I’m proud to take my self respect and walk away. Walking away and never looking back.

[bettyboop]

You are absolutely right. When my soul was on life support and not going to make it I left. It took me 22years. It's taken almost 5 yrs to start to come out of the negative self talk but I am getting better. I now have some very good positive influences in my life. I shall overcome!!! Excuse me but he can eat the dust I am kicken up walking down the road. Bye felicia!!!

[OhSoLovely]

He told me that I would never leave him....I said WATCH MY SMOKE..!!!! 🚬 . NARC FREE FOR ME. Thank you Lee for your voice of awareness and healing. Cute Daughter so precious! 🥰

[melim]

You’re so right! I left my narc 3 times and they never change. They change long enough to get you sucked back in then back to their same ways. This time I am running and never looking back

[Libran-usqp]

Welp, it took me a long long time to leave but shockingly to his utter surprise I finally did leave at the age of 59!! I think the fact that I filed for divorce after 30 years, while living under the very same roof, really stunned him. He didn't see it coming because he actually told me this in the most humble attitude that I have ever seen him display. It didn't move me one bit as I was done done done. Finished! By the way your baby is adorable! 🥰

[sallyrose]

Waaaaoooo m Commenting this even before I fin watching, my wealthy narc made me believe that I'll never find any1 who loved me like he did, mind u I lost my job so he paid my rent for 3 years, everyone thought I was crazy, coz I mean he did everything for me, he used to pay me every month and put me in a comfort zone where I dint think outside the box . I wish I stayed in ghetto than be treated the way I did coz he treated me like shit beating sometimes brings women to his house and throws me out but I couldn't say anything to any1 coz they believed I was the bad one . When I left he used to ask me, " after everything I've done for u, you wanna leave me, your so ungrateful. Then ild beg him and go back to him . .. I left few weeks ago still healing but I know ill get there, I don't know where to start but it's better than staying and wondering what will happen next everyday

[toniwilliams]

He thought I would never leave until I did...