How To Handle A Breakup? Gaur Gopal Das

Going through a heartbreak can cause intense anguish and emotional pain. Gaur Gopal Das offers 3 steps to deal with a troubled relationship.

About Gaur Gopal Das

Gaur Gopal Das is an Electrical Engineer, having studied at the College Of Engineering, Pune. He has been speaking at various prestigious academic institutions and corporate firms in India and abroad for over 2 decades and has even spoken at the United Nations & British Parliament. He has spoken at many charity events to raise funds for social initiatives in the field of education and rural development. His motivational videos are viral having reached around 1 Billion views. With over 13 million followers across all social media platforms, he is known as the urban, online monk.

He has been the recipient of several awards including the most prestigious Dadasaheb Phalke International Film Festival award, Lokmat’s most stylish international life coach award,  an Honorary Doctorate by KIIT university and many more in recognition of the work he has been doing. Based on the timeless wisdom coming down from ages, his talks make the audience think deeper and find simple solutions to difficult problems.

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[sahilagrawal]

Its not about breakups we have gone thru, Its about the memory which we have spent together hurts more & more

[arya-durj]

Nothing hurts more than seeing your loved one is lossing interest in you🥀

[atktgamer]

"Today's Breakup is Much Better then future Divorce or Chait "

[Bangali_Babuu]

Bhagwat Geeta says : Nothing is permanent 😊✨
Keep Patience 🙏
Radhe Radhe 🌸

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.”
― Mark Twain

[azdafdafaz]

It took me precious 5 years to overcome the truma and depression due to breakup, that years were most worst and life threatening...may Allah save every one from these situations....

[akashnishad]

4 year of serious relationship gave my 110% and now suddenly everything is gone...she said that a guy she met online 10 days before our breakup..he treated her well better than me.... I was so broken that I gave all my trust and everything in last 4 year and now a random guy come and she got bored with message to every single out there...don't date a person for fun don't play with someone feeling....for me it's very hard to even breath...but it's life lets focus on career

[duhakhan]

I felt im the only one going through the trauma of break up. But when I came here, I figured out there are myriads of people going through the same disaster. Im not alone in the journey. We are all in this together. But it is so difficult to heal.

[Rohannarang_]

Had a breakup from 8.5 years of relationship 🙌 Still fighting with all the emotions from past 6 months. I know it will take time indeed it will make me stronger one day or other . ✨

[nishaaa]

There was a time when my best frnd was dealing with this breakup issues. I was that one person whom he come up and ask for support in order to come out of all these as said in this video. I supported him as much as I could then he said that he loves me and want me for the rest of his life. I was so emotionally attached with that person so I couldn't live without talking to him that's why I decided to go with what he want. As we were best frnds according to me I thought he is the one whom I can live with rest of my life...
And then guess what he cheated on me and now I'm dealing with this issue for which I supported him. And most importantly he had me for dealing with it but I have no one.
But it's ok. I think that time I did Wht I thought was ryt. I supported him. Now I'll support me.. I'll become strong.. I'll come back soon with a better version of me...
I think I'll become much better after that and also get someone much better who deserves me 🙂

Edit : Hey!! Hope you all r doing great. Many of you have asked me how I'm now.. so I'm here to tell u all that I'm good now and I think much more than the older me bcz I started loving myself.. Till 1.5 years back I was looking for someone to love me but now I realized how much it is needed to love myself..
And to the ones who find my story relatable, I'm here to suggest u that it might happen that the same person who hurts u come back to u after he realized what he loose.. but dear plz don't give urself same pain again even if ur heart wants to go back to him/her just don't go u r strong.. you have survived till yet u will survive afterwards also..but plz don't let yourself break again..
In my case also he came and not only one time he keeps on coming and i think he will try in future also.. He wants me to come back and if not then he wants to destroy my peace he don't want me to leave happily..he don't want someone to come in my life nd he told it by his own mouth..
But I know my worth now..also I know that I deserve the best.. just think if we can love wrong person that much how will we love when a ryt person will come in our life..
Much Love to all of uhh..❤

[ganeshjagtap]

One of the best break up advices I have ever heard is from Jim Sarbh when he was asked about how he deals with heart breaks and he said that “we suffer, is as simple as that”
So all you wonderful men out there, accept that we have to suffer and accept that it’s more difficult and time taking for us. I am still recovering and relapsing from a 4.5 years of relationship, it will be almost a year now. Don’t blame yourself, don’t go back to things that you have not done right or your mind now says you could have done differently. Jo hota hai ache k liye hota hai. You will be fine, you don’t know what you are capable of.

[untanglingmind]

Breakups are difficult to deal with. It takes time to heal moving on from someone you were so close to. It's okay to give yourself the time to heal and time to process. If life can remove someone you never thought of losing, it can replace someone you never dreamt of having🙂

[vidishnamusic]

"Move on! You're not a tree" :)

[aparajitapandey]

So true, I have tears right now, because now I know, I am on the right path

[ganeshraj]

Saying to my self
I've come alone into this world.... And I will leave the same. Everything in between stays in between. It's ok to be betrayed, it's ok to be cheated upon, it's ok to feel the pain, it's ok to cry, it's ok to feel alone. All that matters is ME. I am my saviour, I am my medicine, and there's nothing more important than my self respect and me being my self. Kudos to everyone who have had the hard time of staying away from your dearest one's, who have been living with still some breath and confidence inside you. You are all soldier's. A soldier's life is worth Living💜💜

[ayushpandey]

Had a breakup from almost 9 years of relationship just after that I lost my brother . One thing I have realised lately that it's okay to feel down and go through all the pain, don't fight with your emotions, just let them go, the more you fight the more you are distracting yourself of what's next . Trust me healing is a process and it is extremely important to not loose yourself just to make something out of your life, because you are your biggest project.

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Be the reason someone smiles. Be the reason someone feels loved and believes in the goodness in people.”
― Roy T. Bennett

[QuestionEverythingButWHY]

“Anger, resentment and jealousy doesn't change the heart of others-- it only changes yours.”
― Shannon Alder

[lillybiswas]

Worst part of a breakup is feeling equally alone dejected and miserable.. some people gets easily out from this and some people take lots of time to move on and in this positive energy is lost!!

[pranshukumar]

Move on, You are not a tree ..This line 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥