How to WIN The Breakup (Men’s Edition)

[ignitedbone]

when sadness over a break up turns into motivation, self love, happiness. you know you've won

[coreybeats]

Do not chase 2.don’t replace, heal and work on yourself 3.silence is power 4.level up, boss up and your energy will speak for itself. This is for men and women! Stay blessed

[verysadgrill]

I wasn't expecting this beautiful insight: "It's immoral of you to take your broken spirit and infect someone else with it." Goes for both sexes!

[briar]

Leave, break all communications, and never look back. Never place your happiness in someone that only lives by feelings, emotions, and hormones.

[travmustdie]

Walk away. Don’t look back. Forget them. They are lying, selfish, manipulative and are not the person you thought they were. Emphasis on they aren’t the person they said to be. They broke your trust? That’s EVEN MORE reason, to walk away. Screw all the her having respect for you talk. Just that point alone, that they did that, is enough for you to walk away. If they break your trust, make a mental note, that that is what they are about. idk who’s reading this, but I say this out of love for you stranger, you don’t need them. And that example of what they did to you, is an example of what never to let yourself be like or allow ever again. You can heal just get through the emotions, and then hang out with your badass self. reconnect with yourself, work on what your bad habits are so that the next time you’re ready to open your heart again, you are more equipped and leveled up/better/upgraded for that better person that comes along. But you need to level up first. you can do this ❤

[avzeolla]

Guys - i’m a well-respected man and was in a marriage for 22 yrs with the reincarnation of satan and SHE bashed me to the public I never ever bashed her. Women who do this especially when they have 2 beautiful children, are mentally I’ll and/or have unresolved childhood issues with men.

[John-xzio]

You end it with class because that is what kind of man you are, Thanks for the memories.

[WhatAHorribleNight]

A college GF broke up with me. I liked her and didn't see it coming, so it was hard. But I just said "I understand", didn't call or text her, made sure to stay away, etc. I still had a box of her stuff. A month or so later, she texts me for the box and says we should meet up for coffee and I can give it to her. I replied "No, I'll mail it to you." Again, she suggests we meet up and I give her the box. Again: "Thanks for the offer but no, I will mail it to you." And I did. She texted to confirm she got it and that was the last time we ever spoke. The point? It felt GREAT to nicely turn down the request to meet up. I did not want to see her. I knew it would hurt. It felt good to take control of my own needs and mail it to her instead. And that was the moment that the pain of the breakup started fading away.

[sykotikathirteen]

An ex is an ex for a reason, never go back, don’t allow them to create drama and BS, and don’t create drama and BS.
Don’t bother with them unless it’s something important like a death or money owed.

[Worrick]

I have never, not once, contacted my Ex’s after we broke up. I didn’t want anything to do with them and that was it.

[aquaevitae]

Don't revenge, don't try to get even. Just leave, and go forward in your life...

[rltobing]

So true, a rebound relationship is not healthy... Public bashing also makes you look weak.... Stay strong and Proud.. Walk away, thank you

[YouDntSay]

This is good advice, I did all those four things after having my heart broken at age 26.
But you also need to leave, cut her out of your life, so she has absolutely no more power over you. It helps clear your thoughts.
Legend has it that she tried to reconnect over 5 years later.
By going these 4 things, I found my wife, together 32 years in 2024. But I had my own reasons why I did it, and they have nothing to do with how women like to see it.

[TheUltimateBreakupCoach]

The thing that keeps us stuck in this gut wrenching heartbreak for so long is not accepting the break up.

We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤

[rcr-ztof]

I don’t want to “win” anything. I just want to move to on. This is toxic behavior.

[georgetait]

Facts. I broke up with my first love after 18 months in 2022, got back together this year after a year of me finding temporary connections and I never got the chance to heal properly so wanted her back. Got back together for a while and ended things again recently. Doing it properly this time. Next 6 months I’m GHOST to everyone but the library, the gym and uni

[futueplays]

needed to hear this... she gave me some cop out about being able to get back in together in the future if its meant to be, and she still wants to be friends. it doesn't work like that, you don't share intimacies with someone and forget that ever happened not for men at least.

[luciag]

My grandpa divorced my grandma and only had nice things to say about her afterwards.

[tbjoyrider]

A well respected man doesn't have to squeal on his ex. His friends will usually have picked up on her behavior long time ago, but out of respect they've kept their mouth shut.
When the relationship is over, it's a totally different matter, and the friends will be sure to let the world know she was a manipulative bi**h

[annonymouslibertairian]

And if you are a little the best way to be petty is actually the healthiest thing you can do.

Move on completely, do not respond or contact, and treat them with indifference. Don't be mean, don't be anything. Just let be known that it's done, and dissappear from thier world.