To Anyone Going Through A Breakup (for boys only)

if you're not a guy, keep scrolling (jk you can stay)
Breakups may end relationships, but they also create new ones.

Let’s talk about it.

0:00 Intro
0:56 Men vs Breakup
2:19 Let me explain
3:06 Let's talk breakups
5:15 The sad fact
6:00 My final advice to men

[trajan]

I met her in my darkest place, we both grew so much together, and now it’s over. It’s hard to think the woman who saved me is gone

[randomrsifO_O]

“It's sad when someone you know becomes someone you knew.”

[ianfranco]

That hug part damn! Yeah i really need that so bad. To all us men going through these phases sending y'all hugs bros! We fucking got this!

[SpyOnDeck]

7 years ended last week. I've been through heartbreak before, but this one hurts more than any of them combined.
Trusting in God for brighter days ahead. Praying for all my boys feeling the same hurt. We got this Kings. Stay strong 👊

[cocoa_ar]

Why did I tear up after he said "When was the last time you felt a hug?"?

[joeykidney]

boys, as cheesy as it seems - you are not alone.

[mdcmdc]

And they think men don't care...it's really difficult to be with someone and then suddenly it's gone. You can have friends, parents or whatever, but its your partner you build a life with. The emptiness is real.

[lordstone]

I’m in college and my girlfriend of 10 months who is still back home just broke up with me. I’ve had horrible relationships in the past, but she was the first one to ever really love me and show me that she loved me. She wrote me handwritten notes every day and I’d write her letters, she took the time to text me and remind me to have some food in between classes and she would call me every night and would rant about work and then eventually we would fall asleep on the phone together. I honestly saw the rest of my life with her. She took me out of such a horrible place and was the first person I was able to cry in front of in years. She honestly was the first person who made me feel safe enough to cry at all. She’s back home though and long distance is hard. We both love eachother but can’t say it. I truly believe she is my soulmate and the one I’m meant to be with, and I’m not planning on looking around at other girls anytime soon. I hate the idea of “dating just to date”, I only date if I genuinely see a long term/possible future with someone. I’ve only been in 3 relationships and those were because I saw a future with each of them, the first two were honestly middle school and then high school relationships and I would hardly call them relationships looking back at them, tbh I never kissed either of them because I didn’t feel comfortable with doing so and I wanted my first kiss to be special; this girl that just left me was my first, and was the first person I truly felt I was meant to be with. I wanted to make every memory by her side. I saw us starting a family someday and growing old together. She told me to stop texting her because I was asking about why we were breaking up, so I wrote her a letter and mailed it telling her one last time that I do love and care about her and that I’d be here for her whether it’s 10 months or 10 years that we don’t talk with one another. I finished it off with “And hopefully, if fate wills it, I will See You Again<3”, a reference to the song that made us first connect with one another and a way of saying “I wish you the best, I care about you and hope you know that I’ll be here for you forever. I’ll always love you”. I don’t know if I will ever get over her, my first two relationships I knew were only surface level at best at the time, because we were kids, its not like we were going out on dates and everything. But my gosh, I would take this girl everywhere though, we would explore and we would travel and go places just for the fun of it, and we would make plans every day for summer vacation where we could spend time the most amount of time together. It was perfect. I don’t know what happened. Maybe I wasn’t doing enough. Maybe it’s right person wrong time. I just wish her the best. Thank you for making me feel heard in this video, I don’t open up about emotions often because that tends to make things worse in my experience, but this video made me be able to take the first full breath in a long time, so thank you.

[aidanlund]

Just gotten broken up with by my girlfriend of a year and 4 months. I was too attached to her and she needed some space and independence. After losing her a few days ago, I have felt so empty. I have no motivation to do anything and I’m constantly wanting to text her back and fix everything, even though I know she wants to move on. I hate this feeling so much

Edit: Thank you guys for all of the support. While it is sad to know other people are experiencing what I’m feeling, it does help me to understand that I’m not alone. This feeling still sucks, but time does heal. We got this boys. Sending love to all of you❤️

[issa_adventures]

I’m crying watching this video, it hurts so much. But thank you for making it. It was something I needed to see.

[Nancy-gi]

Great video, I'm still having trouble letting go of my seven-year romance. I can't seem to get over the concept of my ex-significant other, who I truly believed to be the love of my life, leaving me a month ago. Nothing has worked to get him back into my life, and I'm feeling helpless and frustrated. My heart still aches for him, and even though I've made an effort to move on, I can't envision myself with anyone else. Sorry to post this here, but I simply can't seem to get over missing him.

[Valhalla]

My girlfriend left me on my birthday, right after I got home from the Walter reed military hospital, because my dad was in a helicopter crash. I've been so depressed from that and to the things I saw in the hospital. I'm struggling man, I've been needing something like this. Especially when we live in a society where Men can't show their feelings. Where men just need to go suck it up and keep working. I'm just, struggling. Struggling with my faith, Struggling with depression, struggling with the will to live. I needed this. Thank you.

[ptvpoint]

If I didn't find this video sooner, people would have found my body, dead, floating on some random river. Your warm soft voice, with understanding confidant and advice, bring me back. Thank you!

[elliotvandeleene]

It is tough, I am in a dark spot. But I am working on myself everyday to bounce back. Hopefully everything will be fine. Stay strong Guys !

[Tattooed_goldenretriever]

This is really sweet more men need to know it’s okay be emotional and express themselves. You’re a great example of a man to look up to. Thank you for everything joey. You’ve changed my life and I’m in a much better and healthier spot

[Somusicais]

I suffered severe depression several years ago. I could remember several years ago after divorce with my wife which brought me into my disastrous journey on Alcohol and cigarettes. I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Got diagnosed with cptsd.
Not until a friend recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Much respect to mother nature the great magic shrooms.

[MAGNATEOfficial]

6 years ended 2 weeks ago. The worst part is I’m not sure I fully understand her reasons for wanting to break up, which makes it worse, harder to process or to accept that it was a good thing when there doesn’t seem to be a good reason to break up. But there isn’t much I can do. First week was fine, felt normal but I ran into her 1 week ago and she spoke to me for the first time like a stranger, like we were fully truly done and I think it was then that it properly hit me, have been feeling really shit lately and have lost some ‘friends’ who no longer seem to reach out anymore. I feel lonely to be honest, and I want someone to talk with but I don’t feel like I have anybody that cares. Its tough man.

[noahseip]

Thank you. The hardest part is letting go of the meaning you attached to them, and the vision you had for you guys and for the future. Looking back at pictures, from when things were great, looking back at a letter she wrote you telling how much she loved you. Now all of a sudden she is moved on and does not have feelings for you anymore. The pain of her moving on, and wanting to see other people the pain of all the memories, and the pain that she is excited to be moving forewared without you is a pain like nothing else.

[matrixdude]

Man I felt this, more than words could describe, I could try but it would never be enough, you all get it. Stay safe guys, together.🙏

[bryanruppel]

41 male here. I've been with my partner going on 15 years. We've been married for 7. This year she told me she loves me but no longer in love with me. She won't go to marriage counseling or work on us in anyway. She told me I did everything right, and nothing wrong(I've always dated my wife), I feel in love with her now as much as I did when I married her. But there is nothing I can do if she won't try. This is by far the hardest thing I have ever gone through. I don't just lose her, I lose all her family(I have no family, all passed away). This video did help a lot, but I started crying when you said the hug part. I have no one to reach out to. I go day by day, try not to get overwhelmed. Thank you for talking about this, it needs more talking about. I hope everyone out there going through a hard time knows the same, you are not alone, just like Joey said.