Going through a BREAKUP? 5 Tips to help recover

Going through the end of a relationship can be one of the most painful types of grief that we can go through. In many ways, it's similar to the kind of loss of losing a loved one. So here are 5 tips for getting through a breakup.

0:00 Introduction
0:41 Don't Force Healing
2:24 Find A New Normal
4:09 Focus On Gratitude
5:12 Find People Who Understand
6:08 Know That God Is Teaching You

[miakel]

Tip: If you KNOW somebody who is going through a breakup, be quick to listen, and slow to speak. Pray for them, or pray WITH them. Psalm 147:3 states: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and heals the brokenhearted.” God bless ❤️‍🔥✝️

[TazzerPlays]

I feel like God has allowed the woman I genuinely thought I’d marry one day to leave because I have a habit of setting relationships and the idea of marriage up as idols in my heart, without even knowing it. Christ alone is sufficient, and I think He is trying to show me that through this suffering. I’m trying to be grateful for it but it is rather difficult at times. I hope He will make a way for us down the line, looking back I can’t think of a single reason why we shouldn’t be together. I truly felt I had God’s blessing. Then again, He knows better than I do. So whatever happens, however it happens, I will try to trust in Him alone.

[thenelsonbruhs]

The way I see it, if my happiness depends solely on someone else

I need to improve myself and get closer with God

[wy]

Not going through a breakup but trying to get over someone never actually dated-
just wanted to encourage anyone here that even though it is painful, continue to trust that God works all things for His good purpose, that though it’s hard, we can learn something from it
when we cry out to Him, He cares

[hihi]

I took me a little over 3 years to get over my ex. During that time, I prayed to God daily that he would bring her back to me. She never came back. Looking back, I can see that it was not God's will for me since she was not a believer and she had many toxic issues that would not have made her a good partner. I learned from this experience that I need to be more discerning in who I choose to date and get close to. Thank you for the video.

[zhaomengling]

I was broken up with 3 months ago, and you're right, it's one of the hardest thing I've ever experienced. Even just seeing places we've been to literally pains my heart physically, and I don't know when I can think about this person without feeling grief and pain, but I believe that God will heal me. Thank-you for this video!

[dealvarez]

I really did need to hear this. I recently got broken up with and it was tough because he went to the same church as me. I cried and prayed to God as to why this had to happen. However, I learned that God is letting me go through this because He's trying to teach me. I worked on some hobbies i always wanted to do and i've also been studying the bible more. For those going through the same thing do not lose hope in life, for God will never let you feel lonely and fill you with love, peace and joy!!🥰💕💕🙌🙌

[miakel]

Psalm 34:17-18
“The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Going through a breakup is tough. I can try my absolute best to understand. I know that this seems impossible, but stay in faith! If we remain faithful through these trials, we can know that God has something even better in store for us. Keep praying, keep reading, and keep enduring! YOU CAN DO THIS! God bless ❤️‍🔥✝️

[birjarualin]

When God takes something from you, He does it to give you something better. The only thing you have to learn is patience. God won’t give it to you as soon as He took it from you. And those breakups are sings that He has someone better prepared for you. You will meet the right person when God believes you are ready. Until then, learn as much as you can and prepare yourself for what God has to offer! God bless all of you!🙏🏽

[GospelandGames]

Going through one now. Sorry for anyone feeling this type of pain. Life is already hard enough. Glad you created this video to help ease pain and show other people are going through the same type of pain.

[liamreinhardt]

going through a breakup right now and this video is so encouraging. My ex gf got a new bf after 2 weeks and I just feel used and thrown away. I was not perfect, I made so many mistakes, but I thought I was a good boyfriend. Prayers would be appreciated, God bless and Merry Christmas

[angelh]

This… I needed to hear this, losing a spouse because of abuse and he came out as homosexual, I’m devastated. I’m just holding onto Jesus though, building on our relationship because it’s true, He hasn’t abandoned me. He loves us and watches over us and now I’m working on growing our relationship so that I may serve Him! ❤

[TheJohnny]

i found out a long time ago it's
ok to be alone 👍
WE are never alone🙂
Thanks be to GOD 🕊❤

[clementejaramillo]

Man I’ve broken up with my ex gf 2 yrs ago now and at first it wasn’t easy but I knew God was calling me to serve Him, He healed me from all the pain and soul tie I had with her. Now I’m serving him faithfully and with nothing to hold me back, what a blessing!! If you have Jesus, you have it all, He’ll teach that all you need is Him and Him only ❤🥰

[Chibbi]

hey everyone, I recently got broken up with by my bf of 4 years I thought I’d marry. 4 months later I found out he is dating a new girl from church & may have been talking to her before we broke up and I’m hurting. Praying I can trust people again and God has a bigger plan for me. Any prayers are appreciated, thank you!🙏🏼

[madelineshaw]

I just recently had to breakup w my then boyfriend for religious reasons. We were on the very opposite spectrums of religion, so i knew it wouldnt have lasted long anyways. And also i felt our relationship was holding me back from my relationship from the Lord, he was very understanding and told me that he supported me through anything i do. We also werent in a Christ like relationship so i felt very convicted, but in a way im glad it happened because i wouldnt be where i am now with Christ 💕 For anyone else who is going through a breakup, it will be ok and God has bigger and better things planned for you 🙏🏼

Edit: how do i send this to him, without sending this to him 😭

[LanaMcloughlin]

I really needed to hear this. I just went through a really hard breakup this morning that was kinda out of the blue and a friend sent this to me. It’s going to be quite a journey considering that this was my longest relationship and I was really in love with this man. The thing that sucks the most is that he was never a bad person and that’s making this even harder. I also realize that God’s got me in His hands and would never do something that wasn’t beneficial for me

[hemlighet]

Here are the timestamps:

Tip 1: Don't Force Healing 0:41

Tip 2: Find A New Normal 2:24

Tip 3: Focus On Gratitude 4:09

Tip 4: Find People Who Understand 5:12

Tip 5: Know That God Is Teaching You 6:08

[michellesanchez]

I believe this was put on my news feed because i feel that Ive put my breakup off for 4 years, this relationship I had before the lord and I know it doesn't honor him... I idolized my relationship and turned to drugs. However I came back to God 4 years ago and pretended that everything is fine I won't think about this person anymore but past memories try to still come up I believe it can be Satan but also God showing me this painful part of my life that I've been ignoring for so long and has been keeping me in the mentality of "I will never be with anyone opposite sex of me in my future" out of my hurt and not a healthy desire to look at marriage purely, and looking at men negatively including not having a healthy pure motive to be single. I thought I was over it but I feel God still bringing this up for a reason. Can you all please pray that I will move on ? 🙏

[Browneyes]

I just wanna feel normal again. I loved him so much and did all I could to love him and make him happy, but I guess it wasn’t enough. He cheated. I don’t want him back but I cant see myself with anyone else.