To Anyone Who Needs To Move On From A Breakup

You are not broken; even if they made you feel that way when they left you.

[joeykidney]

A gentle reminder that moving on is not a one day process. It takes time, but I promise that once you learn about yourself again, you will content and thankful <3

[dn]

A doctor once told me
*”Because you didn't want to lose them, you lost yourself in the process. Find yourself again and you will find happiness. Remember that if a relationship doesn’t help you become a better person, ending it does.”*

[mariamakiling]

Guys if you’re still hoping that they’ll comeback please stop, don’t manifest them or wish them to comeback. If they want to? from the start they shouldn’t leave you, that they shouldn’t hurt you so badly that you are now in the phase of questioning if your existence is worthy. Stop please! motivate yourself to be better, to love yourself, find your peace only you can do it. Do it for yourself, do it cause you need to, you need to put the pieces back, protect your heart at all cost. Don’t stop yourself from healing. When you manifest them to comeback it will hinder you to heal and it will continuously hurt. So please we can do this!

[TJ]

Found out my wife was cheating on me for the last year. I work 70 hours a fucking week boys. I am exhausted, I have no energy, but I put my work boots on every single day and get after it. I am not perfect, neither is she. But I loved her. And after I found out, she moved in with him. Literally a fucking week later. It’s been 6 months now and I share 50/50 custody with my daughter and I still work the same amount of hours. I’m tired. I’m so tired. But I have to keep going. This one hurts boys. This one really hurts.

[colin.]

They came into your life then left, to force you to grow. The hard part is they need to stay gone to allow you to continue.

[aice]

I've been crying non stop lately. But I realize that I need to move on because it's unhealthy for me to sob all day and not be motivated to do anything. I have to accept the fact that we're done. I have to put my damn self first. But my heart will always have a place for you, Tina. Thank you for everything.

[naman]

Leaving this comment here and hoping that whenever in future if I get to see this, I will think bout how bad this phase was and how strong I was.... literally at the rock bottom point of my self esteem rn.

[LeilynnLee]

He broke up with me after 2 years. I lts been 3 weeks since the breakup and everytime i feel like im doing better and getting happier.. i start feeling upset and jealous of how content he feels without me in his life and the girls hes hanging out with. I realized i was extremely codependent on him so i started doing my own thing and finding new interests. This set us apart, he said we became very different people after that.

Im leaving this comment so hopefully later on i can look back on this and see how much happier ive gotten since :)

[nayerodriguez]

“Put your damn self first”
1. Stop doing things for them to notice
2. Stop acting like you are better for them, you are enough
3. Stop living for them and it’s time to live for YOU
-Now it’s time for you to move on
-You have to put yourself back out there meaning that you need to do things that make yourself happy!
2:35 “You know when you’re sitting on the couch thinking oh I should do something, that’s the thought I’m talking about, GET UP!” “Go do it, it’s time to do it for you”
1.Accept the breakup
2. Understand they weren’t the one
3. Get closure
4. Learn to love yourself again

[jai]

this is agony. i know it will get better and everything like everyone says but god damn make the pain go away. i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

[littlemissyyy]

Few days ago I was constantly bawling my eyes off now I’m back to feeling numb. It’s hard to pick yourself together; I have to constantly watch videos like these to remind meyself to get my ass up and moving. My heart will always have a place for you, Shenq.

[Magnus]

The pain and grief in this comment section is so saddening. I'm going through the same horrible pain and i hope we all get through this come out of it as soon as possible. Stay strong my people, we can do this❤

[randomguy]

Dated her more than just a month, she was mistreated and broken when i met her. I healed her, i appreciated her loved her and what did she did? Left me for someone better....sucks to be me now

[clodu]

Wow, the timing of this is impeccable.

My first love, my girlfriend of a little over 2 years broke up with me on the 31st, just before we could celebrate getting into our 3rd year together. I feel so lost without her. Before she came into my life I didn't know who I was or what I wanted, and I held on to her so tight, she became my everything. And so when she broke up with me, I felt like my whole world crumbled. My mental health is not great as it is, but this felt like someone was taking my last breath from me.

And even since then, I feel like I have been slowly dying. I'm so scared and so lost, but I know (or rather I hope) that I'll be better.

[MBAInnovator]

My ex and I broke up 2 months ago from a 5 year relationship. I take full Accountability that I mistreated her many times throughout our relationship. I also found out I was codependent in our relationship. My world felt like it went upside down. My lifestyle has completely changed without her. The day of our argument I blew up and ended the relationship I just felt overloaded. I took my stuff to move out because I didn’t know how to handle it. Again I take responsibility of my actions. Now we haven’t spoken in 2 months. Even though I miss the hell out of her I don’t trust myself to be with her soon because behaviors don’t change overnight. It takes time and discipline just like working out when you want results. Even though I know this, I can’t help but face the reality she is gone forever from my life. With this in mind, I try my hardest to move on but I cry over this random times of the day. I guess I deserve it because I made her cry many times … the regret sets in very heavy. My hope has dramatically declined to rekindle. Again the thought of ever seeing her again is slim to none.

[dafo]

I only knew her for two months but they were the best two months of my life. I cant stop thinking of her. I dream about her, and when
I wake up and shes not beside me i feel so small. Its crazy how someone can have such an impact on you in such a small amount of time.

[sean.mac]

My break up happened about 2 months ago and she’s already moved on and I sadly still think about her everyday. I hate that it sets of my anxiety and always makes my heart hurt 😔

[ntnweb]

I'm a recent subscriber going through a fairly recent heartbreak. I cannot thank you enough for the content on your main channel and also the podcast, which definitely deserves wayy more views bc they are amazing, I listen to them on my daily walks. I can relate so much and take lots of advices and healing words from you so thank you Joey and keep making awesome content that really helps people!

[nicolasteel]

I am three months post-breakup and can feel myself getting better each day, but there is something holding me back from letting him go. I find myself at random points missing him immensely. I think I am doing good, but then a wave of love I have for them comes rushing back. This breakup really broke me, I fell in love with someone who nine months later decided that they never loved me. He still has a lot of care for me and says I am his best friend, but I recently cut off all contact with him, as I knew it was something I needed to for me. Your videos are helping me a lot and I'm glad you have created such a welcoming environment in this comment section because even though it's a bunch of strangers, it is somewhat comforting and helping me a little a day at a time x

[alek]

going through a break at this moment, the emptiness just feels like is growing everyday more and more, every thing we did it has an essence of her soul left over, this pain is something i’ve never went through. my absence is bringing her peace i need to let it go but i want to stay incase she comes back