What The Narcissist Gets Up To When You Go No Contact

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What the Narcissist gets up to when you go No Contact
00:00 Welcome and Shout Outs
00:29 Introduction
02:11 Why Narcissists Hate No Contact
02:40 Who the Narcissist targets while you are away
04:05 The different things the Narcissist does when you go No Contact
07:30 Conclusion

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Published: 17/10/2021

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[mariposa]

If anyone changes their attitude towards you over what a narcissist has said behind your back, they weren’t someone you needed in the first place.

[pmprei]

The narcissist may not be done with me but I am done with them.

[shawnadeyo]

You might be completely alone by the time you’re done with going no contact with everyone. But that is completely ok with me. All it does is let you know exactly who was fake and who was real. There are definitely a LOT of fake people in this world. I would MUCH rather spend all my time alone than to spend it with the narcissist and their flying monkeys.

[rollotomassi]

Seven years ago I told my Narc ex wife that if I could kiss her new boyfriend ( eventually husband, they were cheating for a while ) on the lips, “ I would…to thank him for taking her out of my life “…..she was furious….when my daughter came home from school, she called me and asked “ what did you say to mom “….I told her, and she laughed hysterically…!!!! Haven’t spoken to the ex since, and I laugh about it every day !!!!

[tauruswinds]

THEY NEVER MOVE ON .... THEY NEVER FORGET THEIR TWISTED VERSION OF EVENTS .... INSTEAD THEY JUST BECOME MORE BITTER AND TWISTED AS TIME GOES BY.

[joerickman]

Hell-bent on destroying you is a good way to describe narcissist's when you go no contact. They slander you to everyone around you as well. It's a very strange sickness. They are extremely obsessed.

[debramarshall]

Just ignore them because they care about no one. If they act like they care about you it's all an act to get back into your life and try to control you and cause you more grief and pain. It really hurts them to not know what is going on in your life.

[melissahoffman]

It’s so sad losing other family members when you cut the narc off but the peace is worth it.

[finallyforme]

They don’t just want others to look at you sideways they want you to look at yourself that way. Don’t buy into their illusions. You are worthy, you matter, you deserve so much more then they are capable of.

[blakelywarfield]

Its incredibly frustrating how they control the narrative behind your back. It has been very difficult to ignore the smear campaign, or try to correct the damage done. Let people think what they want to, if they really know you, they will see the deceit. Try to stay positive. The best retaliation you can get is to live your life without them and be at peace. That's what really grinds their gears.

[skeelo]

I went no contact instinctively, I'm glad this confirms I was right. I learned not to override the alarm (instinct) but to listen to it. Most of us knew something was wrong very early on in these entanglements

[surfshack]

My ex narcissist's death was the only thing that broke the soul tie (at least on a physical level). But i think that i would've maintained no contact even if she was alive. But then again you never know, life is a long journey. One thing though....If you maintain no contact long enough and have really made progress in healing, you most likely will not want to ever experience a narcissistic relationship again.

[mickyj]

So true “ Lurking in the background while they monitor our moves”. . After going no contact I was invited out to a milestone group dinner and of course the Narc had become bestie with the person because I was closer to the person prior.. this was to make me feel further alienated from the group. But I’ve been drawing closer to God and He has me covered!! One with God is majority over those against me.. 😔

[uppitybee]

I think when they feign concern for our mental well being is the most annoying thing since they gaslight you to the point where you question yourself. Not missing them one bit. Revenge is a dish best served cold. Do well and succeed and if you do run into them pretend like you don’t remember them.

[alexxander]

The part that hurts the most is that it took me 30 years to figure out what was going on. Which of course makes me feel pretty stupid.

[Cassie]

Ignore anyways. Eventually they will get bored and move on. It could take days, weeks, months, and unfortunately even years. But they will. Ignoring them and their flying monkeys will benefit you regardless. They don't care about anyone but themselves. I am always super happy, bubbly, and outgoing. Nobody will ever take that away because I'm a strong, confident, and independent woman.

[iamyoutoo]

A simple cease and desist letter worked wonders for me. I haven't heard a peep in years. Narcs are coward's at heart after all.

[TaDarling]

For me, going no contact means that "I" no longer care what the narcissist says about me or who they say it to.

[Turtleback]

None of my friends known to my narcissistic ex girlfriend _(whom I’ve discarded)_ know where I stay, nor where my family lives. I mean none of them! And I’ve cut contact with every single one of them. And me having changed my contacts and staying in a gated complex manned by strict security makes it more difficult for the narcissist to contact me. I’m now focused on my healing.

[kirabarsmith]

I was constantly devalued all my life, and when I went no contact with narcs, I suddenly became the most popular I've ever been, they're desperate to get at me any way they can. What a crazy world we live in...