The drunk narcissist

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[slynskey]

A drunk narcissist was the worst experience in my life.

[sally]

Narcissism + substance abuse = nightmare. Every trip we went on was ruined by his drinking. Also it was like the taunting and bullying behavior was on steroids when he drank. And he didn’t even try to conceal his obsessive lust and staring at other women when he was drinking. Ugh. My heart goes out to anyone still in this type of situation! I can’t even say how validating this video is for me.

[purpleiguana]

I've said so many times... alcohol doesn't CHANGE who a person is. Alcohol REVEALS who a person is.

[donnawheeler]

No apologies are ever given. Always ruined holidays.

[alexismerrilldragonqueen]

"Alcohol becomes a magnifying glass for the worst qualities of the narcissistic person!" 💯

[cynthiameyers]

Watching my father rant and rave at the dinner every night is what convinced me to stay away from alcohol altogether. Friends would always talk about the sense of "high" and "relief" they got from drinking, but all I could see was the ugliness and pain it caused to everyone else.

[emmarae]

The worst. They say the most evil and vile things about you, but are really talking about themselves. It still hurts though.😢

[jadelee]

The ONLY good thing about my ex being a drunk narcissist is that they would pass out by 7:30, and I had peace!

[simplyme]

A drunk narcissist will cheat on you and then blame you and tell you “you got exactly what you deserved!” Mind blown

[TheWelchcat]

Narcissistic rage + alcohol = nightmare. I spent literal hours in my garage in these situations. Now the smell of beer makes me physically sick and the clinking of glass bottles, like beer bottles in the trash send me into panic attacks. Hours of hell.

[MeltedButterPrincess]

"I don't remember saying that, " "I don't remember that, " and "I don't know why I would say something like that" worked a few times, but I eventually realized all the things she said when she was drunk were true and all the things she said when she was sober were the lies.

[eveliinajalonen]

My father is a narcissist with alcoholism.
The amount of self pity and victimhood when he's drunk is astonishing, while he is at the same time assaulting his family both verbally and physically.
And he honestly believes that HE is the victim.

[jeannieburcham]

Exactly!!! A drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts... And with a narcissist, the alcohol reduces their ability to hold their mask on.
I LOVE your videos, you've helped me so much. Thank you for educating me on these predators so I won't continue to make the same mistakes I did in the past. I can see them so clearly now. ❤

[stevenhowe]

Alcohol makes the Narcissist bolder and less guarded and their mask/disguise often slips and the true child appears.

[rileytrovillion]

My ex boyfriend was a narcissist that drank heavily almost every day. He would say the worst things imaginable to me. He would take the things I'm most vulnerable about in the relationship and loved to use to it against me during many arguments. For example, my dad died and two weeks after his death he used my dad's words against me knowing that my dad and I ended on bad terms.. I'm just happy I'm out of that relationship. It broke me down emotionally, mentally, and physically. Karma always works wonders because he ended up getting a DUI in a different state and he's stuck there on probation. I wouldn't have had the strength to leave that relationship if it wasn't for doctor Ramani. I got into my college program, I'm making amazing grades despite my heavy work load, and I've met some amazing friends I can lean on. (:

[carolpeterson]

I was married to one for 34 years, knowing nothing about narcissism! 11 1/2 years out, I’m still not healed. Oh, the stories I could tell!

[triciaberg]

He got tired of drinking alone and started giving me night caps every night. Filling my cup when it looks empty. Every night. I am an alcoholic in rehab. He started this and I continued when I left. I get the last word as I am free and dry. That’s a massive win for me.

[alonzomosley]

It was like dealing with a Jekyll /Hyde character.This weird behaviour would start when the alcohol kicked in, belligerent aggressive and controlling.I would dread the evenings, the next morning was even worse in recovery mode, everybody had to be on hand to serve.

[horncow]

My narcissist was an alcoholic/addict. His behavior was like something out of a psychological horror movie, too bizarre to believe.

[khoango]

Ever hear someone talk so spiteful and malicious ? Talk to a suspected narsisist when they are drunk, they can't really hold back the evil