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3 Mistakes That Butcher First Impressions

You might be butchering your first impressions without even realizing it. Not cause you’re a self-absorbed jerk, but because a lot of the most well-intentioned advice you’ve received is incomplete. And if you don’t understand the fine points of when that advice applies and when it doesn’t you might miss out on hitting it off with your next close friend, business partner, or even boyfriend or girlfriend.

So I want to shed some light on 3 common first impressions mistakes I see that all stem from good advice gone wrong.

1) Thinking that harmony “getting along” and not causing waves is the most important thing
2) Avoiding disagreements and focusing only on commonalities
3) Thinking "fake it til you make it" applies beyond non-verbal communication

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[copbabycombo]

I hate socializing, but this makes me want to socialize.

[Taipans]

So glad this guy doesn't use jump cuts, very impressive.

[SeaDog]

A girl thought I was confident. I disagree and corrected her. Way to make a first good impression

[varun]

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[Predestinated]

he starts every story with "A good friend of mine"

[sybastianchao]

Me: "Don't ever do that again." Him: "Oh yeah? What are you gonna do about it?" Me:

[TheChillOpinion]

I said the same thing to my boss.
Is there anyone who can find a job for a 24 year old programmer?

[jasmineconnolly]

When I was in seventh grade, I switched schools in the middle of the year. My first week in, students were playing badminton during gym class, myself included. At some point, the principal came in to talk to one of the coaches. It was around this time that I hit the principal in the head with a birdie.

10/10 first impressions

[abbyx]

why does his voice really suit him, like it *really* suits him-

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Hold up.

You just *walked up* to a *girl* and started *talking to her!?*

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[slim_DEE]

1) Be Respected.
2) Be Real.
3) Be Honest.

[noiseydakota]

Recently I've noticed that my speaking skills are not always the greatest when meeting new people, watching this video has made me realize that it's mainly because I'm trying to be something I am not and try my best to match interests and agree with people on everything when that isn't really necessary. Thank you for the advice! :)

[tmac]

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[icicleicicle]

i struggle a LOT with setting boundaries verbally. I have no problem cutting someone out of my life for being a jerk, but other than going "no contact", I can't verbalize boundaries....do you have any videos on how to feel more comfortable setting and confidently announcing your boundaries?

[tmicwndr]

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[lovemecom]

Most of us have an impression on the people, and we judge them right away without knowing them. That’s the biggest mistake we do all the time.

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