10 Bad Habits That Destroy Your Confidence

Here are some everyday bad habits that destroy your confidence! Don't you wish you could just skip the tedious part of building confidence and get access to that secret trick that will make it all happen? Well, here's the thing: there is no shortcut. But here's a secret: if you want to build self-confidence, you need to stop engaging in habits that are actually destroying it. It’s a significant part of self improvement and self development.

That said, bad habits can be hard to kick, especially when you don't even realize you have them! But this motivational video will help you identify those bad habits that are destroying your confidence and self esteem so that you can get rid of them and start developing good habits that will make it easier for you to build confidence.

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[deah]

I've been surrounded by toxic, negative and self entitled people my entire life. They go out of their way and take every opportunity to belittle, pick on and humiliate me. It has completely destroyed my self-esteem and self confidence to the point where I have completely shut down and isolated myself from everything and everyone. About a month ago, I became very angry and determined not to take it anymore. I am doing things that I never would have done before because the fear in me was so great that I just assumed I was too stupid and pathetic to do anything for myself. To my surprise I have discovered that I definitely CAN do all the things I should have been doing all along. My confidence has increased immensely and I realized that I'm not as incompetent as I was led to believe. I have eliminated the people who took years and years to keep me down. I have a long way to go but I feel better and better with each passing day and my solution was not alcohol or drugs to do it. I just got angry and fed up. Now I'm on a personal mission to better myself and my life.

[PositiveWomenTV]

Positive mindset. Your mind believes the information you feed it. Always talk to yourself as you do your best friend.

[Salmankhan-zrke]

I think 'Neglecting ur aperance' is most important point here in respect to self confidence

[khthmfg]

I compliment myself
I respect myself
I valued myself
But other people think I don't valuing myself, other people did not believe that I am happy alone without bitterness

[angelolivares]

Great list. I have another one: showing little or no compassion at all for yourself and your mistakes. It's funny how some of us can be very compassionate for others but not for ourselves. This happens a lot because sometimes we have the wrong idea that your are weak for showing compassion for you but you are a good person for showing compassion for others and you can live years thinking that's anything wrong with your behavior. This is one of the reasons why I kind of hit bottom with depression in the last years but now I'm feeling better and progressing to improve my mental health

[lilkowska]

This entire speech is all about being you but always open to self improvement.

[AsimaGuruBahasa]

Having listening to this.. I've been necglecting myself for prioritizing others. Now my mind and eyes are open. Thank you so much I listen to this over and over. You improve my life.

[danalarose]

I'm glad that you discovered the truth about yourself and that you're just as important as anyone else. I'm going through this right now, some family members and coworkers. The nicer I am, the worse it gets.

[Perilys]

Confidence is amazing once you get it, you just don't care what anyone thinks, it starts with a positive mindset, don't let negative thoughts bother you, or control you in that moment, say goodbye to it & continue what you're doing.

[sleepyzombie]

I always say sorry without realising when I bump into someone and keep obsessing over minor flaws and hold the guilt for a long time and keep having negative thoughts all over my mind. From today on I'm going to try my best to avoid doing these things thank U for this video

[samuelmuroma]

Yeah, being angry and fed up for my situation to learning self confidence, that's the key!

[aparajitabasuroy]

All of these are true and easy to say. What matters is when you are the prisoner of your own mind, and can't fight any more, because it doesn't seem worth it!

[Groundwater]

Well done you!!! You should be proud of yourself for taking back control. I too, have done the same thing and whilst being respectful, I will not hesitate to call anyone out on the spot if they have crossed the line. In front of other people if need be. Don’t let ANYONE cross your boundaries, ever.

[retard_activated]

Good Afternoon, B.D.! My favorite voice on YT! 💖

More than I'd like to admit, I feel a little called out on some of these bad habits.... Thanks for articulating them and making it easy to understand how it affects ourselves and others. 💖💖💖

[Gyle.]

No toxic relationship is worth it.
It's evil

[ROCKNROLLFAN]

It's been HARDER on me cuz my absent dad wasn't in my life when I was coming up and now, I have to trust God and the Holy Spirit to help me pull myself up by my own boot scraps.

[carlosestrada]

I 100% agree about the fact that comparing yourself to others is normal and yes, a lot of people, almost everyone (I feel) does it. But I believe that no matter what, we should NEVER give up or lose hope. I used to think that life was so easy for those who are dating or happily married while some of us are struggling with love or along with the following that’s mentioned, that life was so easy for those people, but then someone told me that’s not true at all and said, “You never know what could be going on in those people’s lives behind their smiles.” And I’ve been many times they just don’t want to disclose or share it with anyone.

[adadesuzzy]

God bless you because i always cry in my room because i don't have self confidence 😭😭😭, am going to follow these steps.

[pittymama]

Not all of us have had the privilege of having those around us give positive feedback to thrive when it comes to the confidence. I can tell you one hundred percent that I can depend on no one around me to compliment me ever so any confidence is squeezed out of what I see in myself and that doesn't go very far. In order to surround yourself by more positive people you have to go out and socialize and in order to go out and socialize you've got to feel a little bit okay about yourself to get up and do something with yourself and get out of the house. That's a whole nother problem in itself. Way too easy to get stuck in this roller coaster of thinking and much harder to pull yourself out of it because at the end of the day it doesn't matter how you got that way you have to fix it all by yourself. And all I can say is I'm working on it.

[debance]

Ouch, number 7! I have a bad habit of not trusting my own judgment so I let others make my decisions. And yes it is eroding my self-esteem and I'm trying to own my decisions.