How To Heal From Narcissistic Parents?

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[scorpiolove]

Narcissist parents cannot change, you must protect yourself from them always.

[KP-mbjx]

After 48 years I finally gave up. 14 years on, I occasionally think about what should have been, but realise that it was either give up on them, or give up on me.

[clayfinity]

I hope all who need this advice find this video. Because it is so true.

The moment I realized my mother would never be a loving parent, that she'd always try to emotionally manipulate me and rally the family against me whenever I 'displeased' her, I made the decision to cut ties with her and the 3 men in my family constantly manipulated by her. It's been over 5 years, and my life has never been more beautiful. Because of her I never had a family, so I'd become independent, and now that all 4 are out of my life, not only do I not need them, but there is no difference except for tremendous peace.

[NATALIEKING]

My mother is a malignant grandiose narcissist and my father is a covert narcissist. My sister is the “golden child” and I use to be the scapegoat. Now I’m in charge and none of them are in my life!!

[beyooka]

When I created strong boundaries, they no longer had access to bully every choice I made in life. Sometimes loving and hoping them the best from a distance is the healthiest choice to make.

[lori-annefay]

I gave up on my farther at 30 and my mother at 53. Tragically I combined their traits into a composite and married Mr. Charming, wife beater overt narc. I escaped after 4 years....healing takes a life time. The tire tread marks from being thrown under the bus for so many years may never fade...

[EhHold]

Yep. That’s why I’ve left the entire family behind unfortunately. After being sober 11 years I can see right through the dysfunction and bullshit dynamics. My narc/borderline mother never showed up as a parent and hates my boundaries. I’ve been no contact and it will continue that way. Painful? Sure, but necessary. Thanks for these videos!

[penniboo]

First stage is learning to recognise and let go of any narcissist in your life.. especially if your parents are
Learning to love yourself when your parents were narcissistic is really hard. For a start you don't know what love is. How could you?
Narcissists isolate you and tell you that your family is the perfect family.. they tell you everyone else is below you.. but then go onto devalue you too within your family dynamic. Sadly I now realise I was the scapegoat child.
I always felt isolated and lonely.
When I had my own children I swore I'd do better but being unawakened I unwittingly repeated some (not all) of the toxicity.
Took me years to realise I had this problem.
Was only when my children rejected me and stopped talking to me I realised... it totally and utterly broke my heart
I've spent my whole awakened life after that happened working on myself.

Co dependency ruled me. I'd been well trained.
I'd had a string of narsesitic relationships as I was a magnet for them. It was all I knew.. it felt crazily comfortable. I realise now why.
I found it difficult to bond with normal people and to relate emotionally long term.
I was continuously in fear mode and in fawning mode too without even knowing it.
Being aware is the first stage
I wish anyone good luck who's parents were narcissistic
You not only need to cut ties but also realise you probably have work to do on yourself too
💗💫🙏

[kingbee]

A scapegoat's nervous system can only take so much, and then there is the physical ailments that are caused by narcissistic abuse. The peace away from their nonsense is such a relief.

[kvdme]

My dad is 92. It's harder for them to hide them real selves. They both were horrible parents. I take care of him right now. If I get with a sibling he will tell me he doesn't like being ignored. My mom died in Sept. He wanted nothing to do with that process, just the fake tears etc. Hard to see who they really are. Most of my siblings have narc tendencies.

[MegaLadylove]

I think part of the reasons we attract narcissist partners is bc one of our parents or both we’re most likely a narc. This explains are receptiveness to be treated poorly by narcs. Hence, our magneticism to this form of abuse. Healing tht relationship tht never existed between you and those parental figure can be a great eye opener towards your own liberation bc you released the denial tht your parents may have had a severe personality disorder. The acceptance is the beginning for any true healing process

[annabelleblack]

This is the sad truth. Hope and disappointment cycle. This is one of the hardest things to break. They will never EVER parent you the way a normal person would.

One of the best things to do is be the best parent you can be to your own children and break the cycle. That and parent yourself.

Be kind to yourself so you can correct the damage they did. Build your own self-esteem and realize too that self care IS NOT being selfish like them. Give yourself permission to be self loving.

It takes time and effort, but it can be done.

Richard is definitely the most relatable person in the world. His success is based on his ability to break down psychology into little tasty morsels. Thank you, Richard 😍

[Tomara]

True.. They just don't know how to love and care. They just become a burden.

[pickle]

I keep a little black and white picture on a shelf..of my mother as a little girl…. To remind my self that she is also just a hurt and traumatized little girl inside who did the best she knew how at the time, with what education and experience she had.
I have not felt real anger or resentment towards her for thirty years now because of it. Now I like to try to find the humour in all my childhood and generational toxicity.
My father not knowing I even exist, and her “not remembering his name”… has been a hard one for me to swallow, and walk off this past couple years though.
I feel like I SHOULD be mad at her FOR HIM! Not just me. She robbed him of ALL of his rights too.

[angryherbalgerbil]

It cuts deep. Even now I struggle to form healthy relationships after all the psychological head games.

We made some progress in more recent years, but eventually it's now zero contact.

Heavy being alone in the world, but far less stressful and destructive to the soul.

[AryonaSamoto]

Thank you. I've accepted this but I'm losing my siblings too because I've distanced myself, even after explaining everything to them. It's hard to realize how alone I am. I'm sorry for anyone going through something similar. I'm glad to hear it does get better.

[linnflame]

Yes thank you!!! People are scared of giving up but it's the most liberating thing to do. Even though it is not easy.

[lillien]

Parenting myself has been challenging but a blessing in disguise! Rise royals! ❤

[Lc-julx]

Very good advice. You have to let it go as hard as it is. Move on and don’t look back it’s the only resolution. Hard but true!

[debrawalters]

My hope is that you found or will find peace along the journey, like I have. Both of my parents died within the last 14 months. Mom, one month ago today. Both were narcissistic, both dealing with horrific PTSD from their childhood’s. That were a great deal worse than mine. Still, I had to deal with their narcissism to the bitter end. Prior to the sadness lifting slowly I have begun to feel real peace for the first time in my life. Do better than me, find peace along your journey before they die ❤️