8 Traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

While we may call someone a narcissist to describe someone who acts self-absorbed, narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is a serious condition that can affect how you see yourself and how you relate to others. If you know where to look, there are some telling traits of NPD that stand out. This video shares 8 traits that are common in people with narcissistic personality disorder.

Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:20 A sense of over-importance
0:58 A need for excessive admiration
1:32 A sense of entitlement
2:01 Superficial relationships
2:35 Takes advantage of others to achieve their goals
3:00 A lack of empathy
3:18 Resistant to change
3:43 Hyper-focused on fantasies
4:11 What causes NPD?
4:45 Conclusion

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The information in this video was accurate as of 2.3.2023 and is for information purposes only. Consult your local medical authority or your healthcare practitioner for advice.

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[Kevinmsr]

I survived a vicious couple of years being with a narcissist. My heart was destroyed and it made me wonder if there is someone who can truly love and have empathy

[AngieRodriguez-kgny]

I feel sorry for them. You can't just not mind them, you must stay away from them. Pray for them.

[jeebies]

I just realized im a narcissist. Thats why i've been feeling lonely. I've been trying to hide it, for example trying not to make conversations abt me, tho secretly it gives me lots of joy when ppl ask abt me. And my issue with control really shows up whenever i feel like things are getting out of hand, like i'd literally go "damage control mode" and just start to hate everyone whos getting in my way regardless of who they are bc am feeling stressed and that will be all that i would care abt at the moment.

[olly]

Took me learning WHAT a Narcissist IS- to realize my oldest sister IS ONE. At 70yrs old, I found out I didn't owe her 'respect' just for being the eldest child, that 'respect' is EARNED...NOT A TITLE!! I then learned about BOUNDRIES and have become an expert at ENFORCING them. Saved my self worth and I stopped living to meet her expectations😁👍🏼
"I" say when we talk or IF we even talk at all. Just learning to say "No" to her has been Life changing ❤ for me, especially. Her daughter was the one who got me to see how I had been used & manipulated ALL MY LIFE by my sister.
Hallelujah!!! I'm MUCH healthier now. And guilt-free of meeting Her beck and call. Better late than never 🎉🎈🌈

[alexhendricks]

While I’m not a narcissist I will say having spent 18 years of my life caring about others needs more than my own 24/7 and constantly getting used or stabbed in the back, I finally reached a breaking point. I realized I have to prioritize myself more than others (except my family of course) especially those who do not reciprocate the same care.

[natalieussery]

I was married to two men who were narcissistic. I had no idea what narcissism was or what it meant. However, I read a book about the topic and wept for hours! These men I chose to love nearly destroyed me and their children. It’s not harmless….it’s not a pill away from recovery…. it’s not okay the damage they’ve done to my life. Thankfully, I no longer have had to endure those relationships and I am FREE!!! I believe there was something else going on in my second marriage, but he was better at manipulation and keeping secrets. I thank God for helping me to finally let go of them because I did LOVE them with everything I had to give. Honestly, I look back and it was a nightmare! Both times!!! Now I focus on my adult children and my grandchildren and help them…..trying to teach them all about the ways of God. That they can make better choices for themselves and they have.
Please keep your heart, mind, and body safe. You don’t deserve to be treated the way you can be treated by the narcissist. You fall in love with the person you “THINK” he or she is. It’s ALL

[carlmullerlane]

I have a Behavioural Science (Psychology) degree & have been doing a deep-dive into narcissism (among other psychological topics) for around 35 years now. I was also raised by someone who I believe has undiagnosed moderate grandiose narcissistic traits with comorbid OCPD who married a HSP codependent enabler with a fawning trauma response.

And I must say, that I think that this is 1 of the best concise descriptions of narcissism (NPD specifically) that I have seen in some time. There are far too many "lightly-informed enthusiasts" out there, imo, who are dramatically oversimplifying an incredibly complex topic which can have a great deal of expression variability & specific individual nuances. Well done to whoever put this together.

[happycat]

Problem with those with NPD is once the individual with NPD reaches adulthood they cannot be forced to go under a psychological assessment unless they become a danger to themselves or the people around them.

Since this is the law here in Canada it is best to limit the interaction with the person who has NPD as one's own mental health may be also at risk and ones own mental health should always be the prime priority.

[dawnlleharrell-mccarver]

My narcissist husband I’m divorcing ! And I can’t wait until it’s finalized!!!!

[cygehhf]

YOU HAVE THAT RIGHT THEY NEED TO BE ON THEIR OWN PLANET

[trbrm]

My boss sadly has all these traits and thats why finally after 2 long years I've applied for transfer for the sake of my own mental and emotional health, you are sooo definitely entitled to leave for greener pastures for the sake of your own mental and emotional well- being

[cleojade]

After my ex of 7 years left me 5 months ago, I learned over time that he does have possible NPD. When I watched this it freaking resonated. The main factor is he did not have any regard for my hurt feelings when he just kicked me to the curb and he had no regard for any of my friends. The funny thing about him is he does attend therapy but he does not go regularly. He only goes whenever he feels pissed off that someone did him wrong. Guess people with NPD that attend therapy do refuse to get themselves treated

[kalelsuperman]

i think those people are better off living alone

[bootatoboo]

this is so true that i hate to admit it

[annmarierubbo]

I've been having problems with my next door neighbor and she displays many of these behaviors. I'd love to send her this but anonymously😅

[xophaser]

lots of these traits in some profession, like business/ sales. pain to work with too. A kiss asser when you don't work with them, then they dont listen. One guy even called himself a pm when he was an entry-level. Had ADHD and a slow learner compared to others, lack of due diligence and understanding. He brown-nosed the boss and clients. Yes we tried to help him, but he just wont acept accountabilities and change. A client even took him off a job. The office eventually took responsibilities away from him, since he would go rogue and make decision without consultants other senior members, plus lack of knowledge, carelessness. He was layoff when thing got slow. if he stayed in his entry level position and not try to undermind the real PMs, he could learn. But a guy with a few years experiences knows more than a 30 yr PM. Unbelievable behavior.

[Akash_S..]

I'm suffering from NPD and I do have all these signs
I don't know how to come out of it
But my narcissism has destroyed my life
I can't handle my relationships with my family and friends and that's why I see huge problems in my life😭
Wanna come out of it

[alexanderkurek]

I still live with one unfortunately they refuse to get help and push everyone away

[JunaidTshop]

i have an exam and this video help me alot

[PoisonelleMisty]

There are many different reasons why people may behave this way. One possible reason is that they themselves are insecure or insecure and try to control or manipulate others to feel powerful or better about themselves. They may not have the ability to empathize with others' feelings or respect their boundaries.

Another possible reason is that they have a lack of understanding of the concept of consent and don't really understand the importance of respecting other people's choices and boundaries. They may think it's okay to force someone to do something they want, without understanding the consequences or the harm they can cause.

It is important to set boundaries and not allow yourself to be manipulated by such people. It is also important to communicate clearly and respectfully to try to explain to them why their behavior is not acceptable. Sometimes it may be necessary to take additional steps, such as talking to a supervisor or other authority figure for help in dealing with the situation.