My Ex Said We Will Never Get Back Together

My Ex Said We Will Never Get Back Together

The overwhelming majority of the people that I work with in private coaching sessions tell me in some way shape or form “my ex said we will never get back together”. This may seem normal to some of you, as I am breakup coach but to others it may not.

A breakup entails a separation and a former partner often feels compelled to utter the words we will never get back together to make sure that you take them seriously. This person you love feels that you simply don’t get it and they need to make sure that you understand that this is the end (in their eyes) of the relationship.

I will explain what is going on through their head in this video, and tell you how you should react. Does it really always mean that you have no chance to be together ever again?
Of course not!

And I will tell you why here…

As always don’t hesitate to leave us your thoughts and comments in the comment section of this video.

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[nathanescala]

Coach is right ! doesn't mean forever, just because they told you some false hope sentences cuz that's how your ex feels right now .

[bartschultz]

Rejection Sucks even After 3 months No contact. No chance, No Words

[harukakiritani]

Grateful for your videos. My ex gf and I’ve broken up 100x in 7 years. She walked away each time. I was the best relationship that she ever had than any of her prior abusive ones. I gave my all and supported her despite her past. It’s hard each and every time she left because I was not her past. I will continue to support her and love her even though she’s not around while manifesting reconciliation. Keep hope!

[tracygrant]

My ex says the said the same thing and right now i am feeling so hurt but trying to heal myself. I do appreciate all the advise here and taking all the necessary steps to making me a better person

[roseable]

Me and my ex were together for a year .2 months ago he broke up with me. Then 2weeks after he broke up with me wishing me a happy birthday and wanted us to catch up. A month later we’re hanging out . He told me That I did nothing wrong .but doesn’t wanna relationship right now. I asked him do you see us getting back together later on he said Idk. I cried in front of him and told him how I felt . And he could say is I’m sorry. So I told him that I’m going to moveOn . I don’t wanna get my feelings hurt. I wish you the best. He told me to come down and gave me a kiss and I walked out crying. So I decided I’m not gonna talk to him no more as much as I want to I know I can’t. I miss him 💔

[himenoclan]

thank you for all the tips! the guy that broke up with me was very strange we've been together for almost 2 years we were happy nothing out of the ordinary in fact a couple of days before the breakup he begged me to see him at work and was super happy to see me and was very affectionate. then he came at school and broke up with me he said he doesnt love me anymore, it doesnt feel right anymore, he said he still loves me but it doesn't feel like true love anymore. he said he didnt want to change me and didnt want me to change and that i was perfect. he didnt ever talk to me about it. it never looked like anything was wrong. after he broke up with me he kept hugging me tight and kissing my forehead and cuddled with me waiting for his ride. the next day i texted him again he said theres a slim chance of us getting back together. i kept texting him after 2 weeks and he replied and talked a little then stopped replying. then a week later i said happy thanksgiving and he didnt reply i finally stopped talking with him for a month.although we have been broken up for 8 weeks and ever since the breakup hes been looking at everything i post on snap chat and Instagram as well as wearing the stuff i bought him. his birthday was yesterday and i didnt say happy birthday. im still on radio silents and posting the best version of myself as possible. please help

[kimpossible]

As always what a great video Coach Adrian..my ex keeps telling me that he is done with me and that he no longer wants to be with me but then every time I tells him I am pulling away he always calling me a big baby..I want to show him that I could change yet he always saying that I wouldn’t and that makes me lose hope but you’re right, it’s possible, I can win him back but I have to change my unpleasant behaviour when I’m with him and makes sure no conflicts and that I am capable to make him happy.My only problem is that, when I get jealous or my insecurity occurs, my negative emotions always overpower me and it affects the way I should be communicating with him in an adult manner.I will give this another shot

[TheRealNickiRacks]

This is sooo true !!! My son dad said to me it’s like we mean nothing to each other now ... We aren’t even close friends.. then he went on to say as the conversation went on he’s happy we are no longer together anymore ... We been broken up for over a year now .. I move on .. I’m in a new relationship with someone else . ... So now he see I’m more happy with out him and there’s no chance on getting back together .. Mind you he’s always trying to make small talk and secretly ask if I’m still with my man .so now he’s trying to play mind games and manipulate me into feeing bad about myself .. Soo I can seek him for validation .. sooo pathetic

[keahililia]

I've said this to my ex about a week ago from our 2 year long relationship.
It really fucking hurts saying that to her. Someone that I really cared and loved. But I meant it from my soul.
She was emotionally abusive at times, our conflicts will shift around and point the blame on me, bringing up small to big mistakes I've done a year ago that I have amended and apologized so many times. She'd threaten to break up over unnecessary reasons (not having contact with her over a day or 2 cause of work, or over simple jokes that she couldn't relax from). Me walking on egg shells with her. One word can erupt into an argument which really pisses me off. I can't comfortably talk about most things to her, which results on silence a lot. Plus the fact that she talks with her ex that she claims to be "abusive", or the fact that she claims she's "gay". Like all that just seems shady, and yet people expect that "man" to deal with it? But if the roles are reversed, the answers are always "he's unloyal, break up with him".
I get it, I understand she's still hurt from the past, but my god girl MOVE ON! QUIT BEING A FUCKING VICTIM! BE HAPPY AND PROUD! DEFEND YOURSELF AND OWN UP TO YOUR MISTAKES!
Despite she has good intentions, she needs to figure out a lot of shit. And I'm not gonna stay with someone that puts me down and belittles my overall self esteem and drag me along with confusion and insecurities. For once after the break up, I'm actually relieved and happier with myself now.

[gerrick]

2 years after the breakup(no contact) she sent me a text wanting to catchup. We talked, and she reminisced alot about the relationship. When I told her I'm interested in her, she said it's in the past. She still check's out my posts, but has gone cold.

[DJDavis]

Yea my ex said that same thing too. She's in a relationship with someone else. However, i am doing the best i can to be a better man for myself. She lives in Texas and i live in NYC. I don't know how she will see the change but i guess her seeing it isn't the important thing, right?

[ceoslickz]

My ex said "I don't wanna go back with you" I felt that and act liked my agreed with her

[nickygraham]

It's so difficult to change things whilst were on lockdown, I've been trying to win back my wifes trust and love back for the last few months, but because of lockdown and being a part it's the hardest thing to do with your own thoughts! Before lockdown i could hit the gym for a few hours a day, now I cant!

[deepikasuresh]

hi coach adrian.. Me and my guy broke up a year ago because of misunderstandings.. but still even after breakup we were in contact wid each other, & still he cared me a lot.. When he was there for me I took him for granted and took advantage of his love.. Now I realised all my mistakes and want him back but he's too stubborn and saying that he still cares me but doesn't want me back because I've hurted him enough. pls help me out 😭

[jomurfin]

My ex of a month ago said there's no hope for us getting back together..but still txts me and wants me to go see him a about once a week....so still obviously wants me in his life
I don't want to do alot of no contact as I was the one in the wrong

[thahdeepseadivuh]

What if a month after our breakup I decided to talk to her in person about it and tell her about all the steps I've been taking to change and she said that she knows I'll change but that she cant get back with me and she wants to focus on her future. Should I just give up? We were together for 2 years and I was a huge jerk at the end of it.

[oldstyledrinker]

Well I've heard that a few times already. I've been better not contacting her. And today we were able to talk without the emotional baggage attached. So it'd be nice to keep it that way and still keep some distance as I start blazing my own trail again as this has been a chore I am making effort.

[evandrogarcez]

I'm from Brazil and I can speak English but sometimes Spanish is better. These private coaching sessions could be in Spanish or only in English? Thanks.

[fuzzyOGchinchillas]

My ex said he was glad to have dated me the second time to know it could never work. He said he was happy about his decision this time around and was unhappy when he didn't know earlier. He told me to listen to my therapist on learning how to accept it for what it is and let go. He said we would never work, and he would never give me a chance. He was cold when he broke up with me and he was cold on the phone lsat night when we last spoke. He was irritated the more I spoke, and he said that it was easier this time to end it and to deal with this post breakup process because he's over me, unlike after the first breakup. He was just annoyed I was spoke when he agreed to talk on the phone for a bit and to hear about my therapy session regarding the breakup. Turns out he was doing it for pity. I believe his words, and actions, he said he didn't want to communicate further to create false hopes. He said it finally made sense as to why it would never work.

As much as I want to believe this video, and I am very capable of change - I changed after the first breakup immediately, but simply my insecurities from the last breakup was hanging over my head, . If i could change quick, I could do it again. I never ever want to go through knowing I made someone unhappy, but he was at fault too for not telling me of his feelings ahead of time.

He won't ever want to be with me because he will think of just the arguments. That's it. I am going to bet, that for me, this won't apply no matter what. That a few years from now, if I remember to check on this video, this comment, it will still be the same. That I would be with someone new by then and same with him. I can bet my life on it. I am sure this is how he feels for good and when he is with someone else, he's truly gone for good.

[originalnexus]

My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he says that I'm passive and that I don't take blame, but I try to say I understand and explain my point on how I see things so that he can see the whole picture. it just ends up a big fight and so one day i got these words and that i will find someone else