Say Exactly THIS When Your Ex Says Let's Be Friends

When Your Ex Says Let's Be Friends

Have you been trying to get back together with your ex and they told you that you can just be friends? In this episode, expert Clay Andrews talks about what to do when your ex wants to be friends and gives some sound relationship advice on how you can get your ex back when the situation becomes that.


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"My ex dumped me and wants to be friends" sounds like a really terrible experience. You try so hard to get your ex back but the whole feeling of "my ex wants to be friends" kinda ruins the vibe.

"why would an ex want to be friends?," it's probably because you two had such a wonderful connection with each other and they don't want to risk losing you completely. Clay talks about the whole process of gauging your emotional connection, working on how to make it better and how to stand your ground if your ex still not sure about everything.

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[chupalia]

Men and women cannot be just friends after a relationship. When a partner "friends" you, they are just putting you on a backup option. Move on and never take them back.

[alfe]

Bad idea. Do not disrespect yourself by letting them use you. Move on forever.

[charliebucket]

If they try and demote you to the friend zone just tell them to EAD and enjoy the freedom they're giving you. Never waste love on someone that doesn't love you back.

[MB-xver]

It’s a horrible idea. I never got over mine, and having him just be so cordial with me is becoming more and more of a trigger and it upsets me heavily. He’s said so many times that he doesn’t want to be together and it really hurts me a lot. Being friends with an ex leads to terrible things if you still care deeply for them

[dwocelot]

Staying 'friends' is ok, so long as you're ok with your ex telling you that she's with some other guy. Because that's almost inevitable.

[hurricane_laura]

I have never nor will I ever be friends with an ex. Many have tried, all have failed. After everything with the process is done (moving out, giving back things, etc.), they are officially a stranger and I go 100% no contact. I saw mine at a bar like 8 months after. I pretended not to see him while cheerfully suggesting to my friend that we find another bar. Always move forward, never look back.

[mindythorn]

Being friends with an ex is the absolute worst advice anyone could give. This brings only pain. Rarely works. Go off radar and let them know what they lost. Never let anyone use you as a security blanket or anything else. Don't listen to this dude.

[benhartart]

She Risked letting it all go when she dumped me, I’m living my life 🤙🏻😅 I have an Abundance mindset and am currently dating 🙌🏻🙈

[tompeterson]

This should be called "how to be a simp". Because a man would only want to remain friends for the hope of sleeping with them again in the future.

[sifugurusensei]

My ex wanted us to be friends. I read between the lines and exposed her true intention. Her thought was: I feel guily beyond words and oh I feel sorry for this man. Let me stop feeling guilty first of all and make him my bitch.
It's just pity talk. And why would I go back to be in the pit of the hell hole called the friendzone. I refuse to be demoted.

[yishihara]

Clay...sometimes they just dump you because they want to and don't care about you at all. They want to keep some sort of connection to enjoy the pain that you experience when they start telling you about their new person. There are sociopaths and narcissists out there that people MUST avoid. This is why it's smart to go through a long monitoring period.

[josezerpa]

I understand your point, but I totally disagree with it.
Every time I agreed to be friendzoned I ended up paying a higher price than if I had just walked away with my dignity intact.
It costed me my precious time, sanity, self-esteem, and my self trust. Because guess what, women had another dude lined up.. and there I was playing that sad little part because I didnt have the balls to stand up for myself.
In all honesty, worst advice ever in my opinion. But if works for anyone else, then I'm glad for them.

[BookofNote]

My ex tried that and it gave me the freedom to finally say - "I agree that we need to let go and start seeing other people and moving on". Eleven years later, I finally met another man who has become my husband and father of my children. ^_^

[jopisano]

If you still want this person back, I don't agree with being friends because it still puts her or him in the driver's seat and it will make this person you were with disconnect with you with less pain over time. You will be left with an empty bag eventually. My beliefs is to totally go off radar for some time. That would make this person miss you again and perhaps realize they made a mistake. It's that cold turkey that does the trick. Just my opinion

[thereisnopandemic]

Had that happen to me, she asked to stay friends, I just replied: no and literally just walked away. A friend is not disloyal, breaking up is disloyalty. And I’m lived on and was fine after a couple months. That was in my 20’s, then at 33 I met a hotter much younger woman (19 year old), we ended up getting married and still together 11 years later. Don’t waste your time with those who are willing to be disloyal

[diegogallegos]

The simple decision I made was to block her 🙂.

[pyxl]

If my ex contacts me at this point and wants to be friends, after absolutely crushing me in multiple ways, she best be prepared for a "go fuck yourself" as a response.

[johnnysand]

I would say I have enough friends, bye

[brendadean]

Creates a problem being friends if your ex is moving on and getting into a relationship
with another woman.

[gtwxrld]

is it crazy that i already knew what he was going to say just by looking at him