Ex Says No Chance of Getting Back Together

What do you do when your ex says there is no chance of the two of you getting back together?

Others ask, what does it mean when your ex says there is no chance of getting back together?

As Coach Lee explains in this video, your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend might say a lot of things when they are breaking up with you.

What they say in the moment is not important. After all, you already know that they are breaking up with you and that they don't want to be with you right now. So of course they could say that you two will never get back together.

That's something they can say in the moment to get you to leave them alone or to try to get you to accept the breakup. Just like they told you that they loved you or would marry you, things that are said in the moment don't always last.

If you apply the things that Coach Lee says to after a breakup, even if your ex said that you two will never get back together, you still have a good chance of getting them back.

It's best not to analyze or drive yourself crazy with what your ex has said. They could even say other things like, "We might get back together in the future," just to make the breakup easier in hopes that you will leave them alone and won't make it awkward.

[wadecahill]

you are the best coach Lee, u make so much sense

[djblack]

Don’t let your ex live rent free in your head!

[dianaathens]

My ex after 7 months of no contact he returned back with a wedding ring! No contact works miracles.

[aricarter]

Lesson learned. The moment someone breaks up with me I’m agreeing. I don’t want someone who doesn’t want me!

[mscisland]

Hey you!

Yes you

Guess what?.




I want you to know that what ever you’re facing right now, you will get through it. Keep your head up, keep pushing, continue to love yourself, continue to be that positive and respectful person because your blessings will soon come. Don’t be depressed, don’t feel alone. I’ve been through terrible, And scary times, but I’ve fought through The storm, kept myself control, my confidence, I believed in myself, and then I went after what I wanted out of life. If your ex loved you, they wouldn’t have left you. No matter what you might have done to make them angry with you, a person who told you that they love you, and made promises to stick by you wouldn’t dare to leave their lover. Think about it. I hope everyone has a blessed day, and keep your heads up, keep pushing yourselves, and do what you love. Stay positive, stay safe, and keep moving.

[nothysaint]

Relationship is a full time job, don’t apply for it if you are available part time.

[samboriboun]

I don't want someone who doesn't want me life is too short let them walk

[MrQuagmire]

Well, if the marriage/relationship ends. The best advice is to take it for what it is. It's over and it's time to back off, leave her/him alone and be realistic. As Kahlil Gibran said so nicely: If you love somebody, let them go. If they return, they were always yours. If not, they never were.

[carloslopez]

Yesterday I was going crazy thinking about texting my ex since its only been a couple days and the time seemed to never pass. But after multiple videos I get confidence to not do it. I try to stay busy but every couple hours when I wanna break down and do it, I come watch a couple videos and it keeps me right on track with the NCR. Thanks coach your videos do wonders!

[Nomad-ynpv]

My wife said we are NEVER getting back together and she's NEVER coming home. She spent the night last night 7 weeks after saying that. We didn't sleep together yet (our kids were here) but we talked all evening, she cried, we held each other, and I think we're going on a date tonight. All this happened because of no contact and following all of Coach Lee's videos and advice. I'm not out of the woods yet, but things have taken a drastic turn since we broke up. Thanks a million Coach Lee.

[coryhowarth]

This guy probably has the best advice I’ve witnessed. Unbelievable.

[drguthrie]

"Do you trust it?" Is probably one of the greatest points I have ever heard regarding trying to convince an ex back

[kcanter]

My ex dumped me right before Christmas, would not reply to my texts or phone calls. I understand what is going on now thanks to you Coach Lee. You truly have opened my eyes and I will never display such weak behavior again. Thank you!

[thesoundofthesuburbs]

My partner was so indecisive about EVERYTHING. Yet, they feigned decisiveness when dumping me on a whim.

[theprtillierypodcast]

So true. As men, we often make the mistake of trying to apply logic to an emotional situation. We cant understand why they fell out of love with us, and we try to debate them into seeing our way. If a woman lost that emotional connection to you, no amount of logic will change her mind.

Simply fall back and give them their space, and allow natural feelings to take over. Be your best self, and allow that natural attraction to take over. Be kind and courteous if she does make contact after no contact, and approach her as someone you just met. She will want a new you, and she will want to start fresh, like when you first met. Butterflies in her stomach, excitement when she thinks of you, mystery and intrigue. Trust and believe she will feel that with someone else sooner or later so its up to you if you want to step up and make that change to be the “new guy” in her eyes, heart, body and mind.

Remember what you had, and use that as energy to redouble your efforts to really make her happy if/when you do ever get a chance to get back with her. DONT EVER go back to the comfort zone of your previous time together. Remember the pain of the loss and cherish the fact you got a second chance with her.

Bottom line, never get complacent and take her for granted. Always seek to be that energetic vibrant person and keep that energy going forward. Always remember where YOU personally failed the first time and never let history repeat itself.

Start fresh and let go of all the past hangups, blame games, and victimhood. Humble yourself, admit your flaws, and start that new relationship with her as someone you just met.

[sandrasorci]

He speaks the gospel about how to get you ex back.

[betherealdeal]

Tbh this dude is teaching me stuff I knew nothing about.
The biggest lesson I have learned:
Relax / chill
Be the best version of you you can possibly be.
Become a high commodity: gold.
People dig for gold
People do anything to get gold
People will rob for gold
People will die to get gold
People will sacrifice their lives to get gold

[lorettakallen]

It's almost three weeks of break up, my world collapse, I can't even eat properly, sleepless nights. He said we are NEVER getting back together. I am suffering like hell but I am hoping one day we will get back together after watching this video. Thanks Coach lee.

[eulywade]

Had to watch this video twice because it’s so funny that you know EXACTLY what the majority of our ex’s say in a break up.

[andybrown]

Why does it all need to be a game?....why cant we just talk any issues out and try and fix them..put everything on the table, instead of months of games. Life is too short for it all. Folk should just talk..talkthe issues out, then if they cant be fixed just go your own way. It all seems much harder than it needs to be.