What To Do If Your Ex Says There's NO CHANCE!

What should you do if your ex says that’s absolutely NO CHANCE of getting back together with him or her?

How’s it going, guys… it’s Brad Browning here with another breakup video. And in this YouTube video, I’m going to respond to a question that a LOT of you guys seem to have. And that’s what to do when your ex says that you have absolutely NO chance of getting back together.

Now, if you’re watching this video right now, then I’m going to assume that you have every intention of getting back together with your ex. And I know how difficult it is to hear when your ex says this to you. But if you do NOT want to make that situation any worse, then you have to listen to every word in this video.

And I say this because I know you probably aren’t going to like it.

When your ex says that there’s no chance of getting back together… your best strategy is to BELIEVE THEM 100%. Even if you DO want to get back together with him or her, the best strategy moving forward is to move on with your life, date other people, and do everything in your power to make sure that you’re working on yourself.

Now before you close this video and discount everything I just said, keep in mind that there’s always a chance you could conceivably get your ex back – but I must say, if your ex has said that there’s no chance, then the chances of you getting back together with him or her is relatively slim. In fact, in MOST situations like this, I almost always recommend that you should be moving on with your life anyways. It just isn’t worth the effort to try and win your ex over again when they’re in such a stubborn position.

Here are some quick fire tips that you can do right now to sort of expedite this process…

1.) Go to the gym and focus on your fitness. Looking good will not only re-attract your ex, but other singles as well.
2.) Eat well. There’s no better time than now to focus on your health. You’ll look and feel better for it.
3.) Hang out with friends and family. Now’s a great time to reconnect with people you’ve spent little time with since your last relationship. Building social connections is incredibly important right now.
4.) Meet new friends. Make sure you’re putting an effort to join clubs, sports teams, or fun classes. Meeting new people is one of the best distractions.
5.) Focus on your career or school. Sure, it’s easy to mope around and feel sorry for yourself… but nothing productive will become of it. Focussing on things like work and school will have your future self thanking you… and your ex might even notice as well.
6.) Download Tinder and start dating. Don’t be too picky with who you date. Just go out, make friends, and have some fun.
7.) It’s okay to indulge in a little bit of alcohol if that’s your thing, but going down this road is unproductive and unhealthy. Instead, use your social life as a distraction instead.
8.) Pick up a new hobby. If you’ve always wanted to take up painting, now’s your chance to pick up that easel at the art store! Who knows, you might even meet someone there.
9.) Finally, and most importantly, do NOT under any circumstance contact your ex. No exceptions. If they’re willing to say something as extreme as “there’s no chance between us”, then you can bet that they probably don’t want to be talking to you right now. So leave it as that.

Of course this isn’t an exhaustive list of things to do in a situation like this. So if you feel like your situation is unique… or you really think that your ex didn’t mean what they said, then your best bet is to hire me as your breakup coach.

Anyways, that’s all for today! See you later, YouTube and thanks for watching!

*** More from Brad Browning:

[fivebooks]

My wife cheated on me. I’ve been telling her for 7 months that there’s no way possible she can ever be my wife again. I’ve held to it this whole time. Truth is I know I still love her and I know there is a chance. I’m so hurt and upset that I just don’t know right now. If your ex is telling you there’s no chance I can honestly say that’s not always the case. I’m saying that right now yet in my heart I know I love her and miss her.

[andresc.]

I can confirm that no matter how dead serious they are about there being no chance, truth is it isn't always the case. Although, it is a tough pill to swallow.

[hAze_the_shrimp]

Wow, perfect timing. She just said that yesterday last night.

[Marlenne]

She legit just told me there isn’t a chance anymore 😩 took it like a champ. Slow and steady wins the race. I’m going to work on myself and hope for the best 😂😩

[zoepicot]

I love this. Thank you. Already doing the first 3. Letting go of the connection we has been hard but will get there.

[rafachrzaszcz]

Well, I don't agree with Tinder. People using it (in my case - women) are so empty, that being rejected could be harmful for self confidence.

[MasokaJiko]

My boyfriend broke up with me for no reason and told me there was no chance for us to get back together but now I’m working on myself

[MOTwaccoe]

Hi Brad. I have recently split from the wife of 23 years. I had depression and ignored her for 18 months. When she said we needed to talk i knew what was coming. I walked out expecting a phone call to come back and it didn't happen. We have 4 kids 2 still at home. We lived in NZ and we built a massive bond for the 7 years we were there. I love her dearly and miss her everyday. I am hanging on the possibility she will realise it was a mistake and ring me to come back. I begged for the first 5 weeks. Went into nc which lasted a week the I crumbled when we were speaking and begged again. I just need her back. We were a good couple all my friends and family say it came as a shock bit she won't budge. Help

[Omnitrix]

I love the way, this coach gives you the hard honest truth!

[vinnycent_]

Hi Brad! Its Day 5 of the “No Contact” rule since the breakup and my ex just messaged me right now asking if we can meet in the weekend to give her hoodies back. What do you advise?
Thanks! You’re amazing! 💙

[the_paper_cutter]

My ex told me that we are impossible and we both must move on with our own life. As his responsibilities as an individual has increased too much and he thinks that he wouldn't be able to settle down too easily and provide me a happy life. He said there's not even a chance. And yeah! I begged and pleaded for a month and got into NC for another month and got close to God. I ignored him upto 95%(exception: when he contacted me once and when we were facing a flood here I called him to check on him).
We had a very lil chit chat after NC and i used to ignore him if he sent any pointless text. We had an old friends meet up today and yeah! I was all happy and fun and even flirted with one of my batch mate infront of my ex as that boy remembered me while i don't even know his name. He was already following me on ig and had already sent me texts which I completely ignored. And once we were talking like this my ex really felt jealous but I also used this occasion to catch up on him aswell. I was the old me in our high school(almost 6years back) and I acted like we were never in a relationship at all. I even planned another meet up and he was not comfortable with the date while others were and I just told him like 'you can join if you want to'. later he tagged me in his story, he texted me, he called me and as I made him think that I'm unavailable now he called our best friend and talked too much about me. He said he was shocked to see how much I've changed since the breakup and now from what he says he's trying to make a chance for us to be together. He's trying to get placed in some good companies so that he could have a chance with me. I'm so happy ♥️

[davidcloud]

What to do when I’ve texted my ex a text of a good memory after 60 days of no contact? What to do now? It doesn’t look she wants to get back together..

[uppercutcross]

my ex is very stubborn and doesnt belive that people can change i did no contact for a week and i accidentaly messaged her today trying to remind her of a good memory she did not reply but posted hon her private instagram account a picture and a quote ”people dont change just cry or break something” i was the one who left her by the way when she wanted space from me all the time and avoided meeting with me

[jopaybetlog]

I have an relationship almost 4yrs of dating. Me and my ex girlfriend have a good communication and bonding. But one day we fighting and argue. June 16 she broke up with me. I think it's OK. But one day June 18 she has a new boyfriend already. My heart and my mind so down I want her back. I was begging and pleasing to make her back. June 28 ill go to their house. My ex and her new boyfriend have been their. I'll cry so much my ex cry too. She said she want me she said she can't live without me she choose me that day. But after many days she's cold she didn't txt me and her new boyfriend she always texting and calling. Then she said she doesn't love me anymore. I was please and begging again. But July 20 I talk to her closure and I said I will let go to you and I'll move on. She cry and said thank you for letting her go. And I'll accept the break up. Then I'll go no contact from July 20 till now. Aug 1 my ex girlfriend txt me hi, how are you and where are you. She called also but she not talking. I don't call her back and txt her back because I'll trust no contact rule. Now shes in another city. Now we have a long distance and she have a new boyfriend ithink no contact rule is effective for me? Or we've gone for good? I want her back but she's not contacting me anymore. Now she's in a relationship with her. New boyfriend in facebook
Please give me and advice thank u to ur videos

[lory]

He's basically saying to move on.

[taniapirvon]

When we broke up 5months ago, my ex was indirectly telling me that we won't get back together. Our breakup was good, no pleading, begging or stuffs like that. We didn't broke up because of something I've done or he's done. He was just not over his ex. A month ago we started talk again when he reached out to me. I was commenting on another vid this too and I hope it wouldn't mind you if I write it again. A week ago we've been talking about movies. I said I wanted to see lion king, and as we're living in a small city, I said I'll try to go to cinema like 3 days later, as I had some work in the city I should go. Then, as we talked, I remember I couldn't, as my time wouldn't let me to. He said he doesn't think he'll enjoy it as it's a kids movie. He's really passionate about his motorcycle too, he started "drive" it after we broke up. I don't have my driver license. One day before I should go to that city, he texted me "hey, I wanna go to...with my motorcycle. You wanna come? Search when the movie is starting" we ate before, but during the film we didn't have major contact, he didn't kissed or tried to kiss me, neither touch my hand. He just touched my waist from the back when we were attempting the movie.
How should I interpret this? Thank you Brad.

[Nathan-sqxv]

I’ve come to the realization that she’s toxic. It was never her fault when we’d argue and she’d play the victim all the time. I’m dumb for not realizing it but she blamed her ex (before me) for their breakup. Apparently it was all his fault (I should’ve noticed)

[simsluver]

You are definitely correct. Is this an advertisement for "tinder"?

[khayayson]

My ex told me that there's no way that we will be together again and everytime I beg him to come back, the more he pulls away ... so I stop texting him until he message me why I didn't greet him even a simple good morning that I used to do... I just told him that I am too much busy and have no time to message an ex ... then he started calling me everytime... more sweeter than before and trying to get my attention again... dont beg or pleading coz it kills the relationship, that's what I have learned from u and it works

[mayasharma]

Hi brad, firstly i wanna thank you.. Somewhere listening to your advice and going through life, i think my heart and my brain are in sync now. I dont want him back. Am focussed on better future. But everytime his thought crosses my mind, i feel like my body is burning in hate.
Am not looking for an apology, neither do i want to hurt him or him to realise it. Just tell me how to get over the hate.
My scars are not just emotional. I have lost a lot lot in the physical world because of him and it cannot be revived with money and success in future.