The Surprising Traits Avoidant Partners Find Attractive

//The Surprising Traits Avoidant Partners Find Attractive//Dive deep into the world of avoidant attachment styles with our latest video! We begin with an introduction to the concept, followed by a detailed exploration of the signs of avoidant attachment. Discover what avoidant partners are attracted to and unravel the complexities of attraction in such relationships. The video delves into the shadow aspects of avoidant attraction, highlighting the often-overlooked anxious-avoidant trap. Learn why emotional intensity can be a transformative gift to your partner and gain valuable insights into achieving emotional honesty in communication.

The highlight of the video is our Courageous Communicator Program, offering practical tips and strategies to navigate these intricate dynamics.

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Perfect for those interested in understanding avoidant attachment styles, attracting dismissive or fearful avoidants, or re-attracting an avoidant ex, this video is an invaluable resource for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of relationship dynamics.

Join us for an enlightening journey into the heart of avoidant relationships.

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction
02:20 What are signs of avoidant attachment?
03:51 What are avoidant partners attracted to?
08:04 The Shadow aspects of avoidant attraction
08:12 The anxious-avoidant trap
10:56 Why emotional intensity is a gift to your partner
14:35 Tips for emotional honesty in communication
16:30 The Courageous Communicator Program

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[andreatolleson]

Great video. I’m avoidant and married an anxiously attached spouse. We have helped each other grow so much and are about to celebrate our 25th anniversary. Keep working on it with the ones you love folks!

[kingaberlakovich]

I communicated my needs but there was always a wishywashy answer. Avoidant partners make the other person insecure. That’s it. I was confident, and secure, he loved bombed me and when I was in love and showed my feelings he began to play hot and cold. And than he broke up because I told him what I needed. One argument and it’s over. Never again. So hurtful. This controlling and playing games.

[theartofcute]

THEY NEED TO HEAL. They need to want it for themselves and seek out healing. If you love someone who is avoidant that's great, they are not bad people at their core but they are not worth being with unless THEY want to do everything it takes to heal and change. It's not your job to help them, lead them, hear them, free therapist them, It's your job to help yourself! They dont want to change to save the relationship that they have with you, they dont even care about their disfunction they have with themselves. If they don't want to change, just say no to them. Dont get caught up in their "comfortable" game of cat and mouse. Also aim at being securely attached in yourself first.

[jazeenharal]

I feel like falling in love with an avoidant will make you an anxious no matter what...

[natasha.syberia]

1. Independence,
2. Confidence,
3. Self-sufficiency,
4. Directness,
5. Emotional strengh.

[lil-]

1. Independence
2. Confidence
3. Self-sufficiency
4. Directness (direct communication of needs)
5. Emotional strength

[mrmoe]

I'd much rather deal with an anxious partner. With avoidant partners even bringing up how you feel makes them run away

[minutecarnivore]

If you can’t be yourself in relationship and you feel unsafe or uneasy, leave that relationship. There’s someone else out there for you. It’s not even about your partner at this point in your relationship. It’s about you and why you don’t feel that there is a better person out there for you. Hope this helps. Love you.

[iimushroomii]

I ended up dating an avoidant and it was the worst thing I ever could have done to myself.

[edwardclarkson-phkl]

Interesting video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[julievillatoro]

Show this to anyone who feel they met their “twin flame” 😂
They’re not your twin flame, babe! You’re just attracted to each other’s attachment styles.

[marterra]

I was married to an avoidant who left me after 8 years of marriage because I was being too dramatic for wanting his attention and love. He ended up having an affair with his father’s hospice care worker….talk about being dramatic! They deserve each other! I’ve now learned about my attachment style and on the road to being a healthier person.

[emmadeofsteel]

Ironic no that the confidence they see as so appealing in a partner, is very quickly destroyed by them due to their inconsistency, lack of transparency and lack of self awareness about their own disfunction.

As soon as you're aware they're dismissive avoidant, give them what they want and leave them alone - the low key abuse will harm your brain, shatter your self esteem and make a mockery of the whole concept of a relationship 💀

[Greenwitch_Garden]

Love this. ❤
As an FA, I attract DAs and never knew why. I always thought they didn’t like me. Then I found Attachment theory and realized my trauma and their trauma resulted in the lacking relationship. Communication is key. It’s really hard to learn to communicate when my life was filled with traumatic and toxic situations.

Ugh but it is my responsibility to heal myself, first and foremost.

[marianacampos]

Marrying an avoidant...as an anxious attachment person myself....was the worst thing i could have ever done to tried and tried and tried and i always felt like it was never enough. I lost myself completely trying to make things work. Im finally free from that traumatic experience and i feel so much more at peace now.

[onnol]

They can be wonderful, beautiful and downright great people. You can see the pain of their history, the effort they put in and admire their survival instinct. Remember to always meet them where they are at and not where you want them to be. Don't try to save, show you care and they are welcome and if they take off let it go.

[CarolynVan]

I knew I was a gift to him, but had to do an honest assessment of what I was gifted with. There wasn't enough nourishment for me enough for me to stay. Was not reciprocal in value enough.

[brendacarey]

If you give emotional intensity to an avoidance they call you needy and look for someone else.

[bartholetbayana]

Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[dagnychildermas]

Furiously scribbling down everything so I never attract an avoidant man ever again. Shit is straight up traumatizing.