8 Signs An Avoidant Loves You

8 Signs An Avoidant Loves You//Curious about the signs an avoidant partner loves you? If you're wondering, "Does my avoidant partner love me?" or trying to decode the mysterious ways of avoidant attachment style, this video is for you! In "8 Signs an Avoidant Partner Loves You," we dive deep into the nuances of avoidant behavior and how to identify their unique ways of showing love. Understanding dismissive avoidant behaviors can be challenging, but with the right insights, you can navigate your relationship more confidently. Here's what you can expect in this video:

00:00 Introduction
02:27 Link: The Courageous Communicator program
03:34 What are signs of avoidant attachment?
04:23 How to love an avoidant partner?
05:46 What are the signs an avoidant loves you?
10:04 Video Recommendation: The Surprising Traits That Attract Avoidant Partners
11:04 How to communicate with an avoidant partner?
14:17 Link: The Courageous Communicator program
17:16 Final Thoughts

Discover how avoidant partners express their affection in subtle, often misunderstood ways. You'll learn about signs a dismissive avoidant misses you and explore if an emotionally unavailable man can fall in love with you. This video will also help you recognize the signs a dismissive avoidant likes you, giving you the clarity you need in your relationship.

Struggling to understand how to tell if your ex is into you or looking for signs your ex loves you? We'll cover that too! This video isn't just about current relationships; it offers insights into how to win an avoidant ex back by understanding their attachment style.

Don't miss out on the "Courageous Communicator" program, featured at 02:27 and 14:17, which is designed to help you improve your communication skills based on attachment styles. Whether you're dealing with a dismissive avoidant partner or just trying to understand avoidant attachment style better, this program can be a game-changer.

For those who want to dive deeper into the world of attachment styles and relationship dynamics, check out our recommended videos and free trainings below. And don't forget to take the Attachment Styles Quiz to get personalized insights into your relationship patterns.

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[philipramsden]

She doesn't tell me she loves me, but tells me she appreciates me, sends me heart and kissy face emojis, has a nickname for me, and says I'm the only person she feels she can open up to

[TheeCynic]

1. Start to initiate contact
2. Consistent time together
3. Opening up
4. Inclusion in their life (meet friends/invite over)
5. Thoughtful gestures
6. Respecting boundaries
7. Practical help over emotional support
8. Creating distance after intimacy

I think I might be the avoidant🫠

[stevencichy]

I had an old mentor once told me the definition of love. It’s not a feeling it’s an action word. It’s three words, acceptance, service and respect. I’ve never forgot this. A lot of the times I have a hard time finding people to connect with and also at the same time, I do have some avoidance Problems it is what it is. Oh well.

[tanyamarie]

He's doing all but letting me in his inner world of friends and family, but it's been a very long journey. Initially, he was all of these things the first 6 months, and then we fell apart. It was a very intense start. Through the years, we stayed in contact, but he moved into his avoidant side, and I moved into fearful avoidant tendencies. Two in a half years ago, we reconnected more lovingly as friends who openly admit we love each other. By this time, I had already started attachment work, and I always listened carefully to your videos, and with time, we started showing more secure behavior and the connection is so much more loving, safe, trusting, positive, and fun. We are not in a committed relationship, and he's leaning more towards having separate homes (we are both in our 50s). I would like to have more, but I do see the positive of having separate homes. I'm hoping that with our path towards more security, we will negotiate something closer, but I accept that this is where we are right now, and I do finally believe and SEE his love now.

[Morbass]

When in my “secure self” this makes perfect sense yet it isn’t the natural self. Breadcrumbs from my “someone” has a masters degree in “push pull”… this always makes me go back to the woodshed to work on myself.

[MindTheBusinessThatPaysYou]

Someone I just decided to leave was an avoidant. I didn’t recognize it at first, but now I see it rather clearly. I didn’t understand his behavior because he came across rather sporadic, but almost every sign in this video was in alignment with what happened in our relationship. He talks about me to his family all the time. He also has done a lot for me in terms of getting things for me that I need. I loved this person, but his attachment style was not one that I could really deal with. I still love him a lot, but he made me feel way too rejected at times to feel emotionally safe. I know it wasn’t his intention, but eventually I began not to trust him at all. Thank you for this though, it bought me a level of clarity I really needed ❤

[GodHelpMe]

I’m so sorry for your pain.
The emotional crisis life puts you through is horrendous.

As an avoidant myself, I can share this:
you learn to rely on yourself so much
that you just feel frustrated at yourself
for not being able to let go and just ask for help.
You just lie to yourself and everyone around you
about being okay,
but inside is this storm of negative-painful-harmful emotions
and self-hate.

Avoidants are people-pleasers,
their words mean nothing,
and that's why their words don't match their actions;
hours of conversation and then the next day they are a completely different person.
They only think about themselves.
Healthy relationship
becomes impossible.

Please, journal your emotions and thoughts, take long walks, watch these videos,
and remember it was never about you.

Choose Peace.

Forgive and release.

Maybe even be grateful.

He helped activate emotions that your soul no longer wants to carry.
He activated them. That's the gift.
It's your opportunity to release them. That's the magic.

Sometimes,
the poison IS the medicine (homeopathy).

He helped you to purify you.

Life is just a play out of our emotions, and really, a gift...

For purification,

for release,

for ascension.

[theadventureparent]

I've got one of those. And we're older so we've been through a lot with relationships in the past. We're just friends now because we know enough to know each other's value and how we wouldn't want to just toy with each other. So we've just decided to be there for each other as friends and it's working. In my 20s I wouldn't have been able to handle that but now, eh. Whatever life brings it brings. He shows up in better ways as a friend than the man I married and divorced ever did. He's a wonderful, sensitive soul and I just have to respect where he is and be glad I have a good friend. I'm probably an avoidant now too, probably always was, but patience, respect, and keeping focus on your own life, and not taking things personally, is the best advice I could offer when dealing with avoidants. They probably became an avoidant for a darn good reason.

[naiyalexic]

Not understanding an avoidant person, while being in a relationship with them, is pure hell. I wish I had known a lot of this, when I first met my very present, amazing, but long-term avoidant partner.

[phoenixrisin]

Well you have to know how to handle them. It’s a push pull in and out with them. Stay detached and willing to move on. They have to know you have many other options.

[MikeGainsM]

I’m involved with an avoidant and she’s shown all of these signs at one point. Once things became more serious, she pulled back. I also didn’t know much about attachment styles and communicated in ways that contributed to that too. She’s been reaching out more consistently now and I’ve been trying to contribute my part as well. So far things have been getting better with each week and I’m very appreciative of this video🙂

[teresavalencia]

I lost my person. I didn't have a clue about attachment styles until I was ghosted and started doing some research. I found myself to have anxious attachment, and they have dismissive avoidant attachment. My heart is completely broken, and I have been in no contact since the end of May. I asked one question, and they took that question and twisted it into something I never even verbalized. They never answered the question and told me I had them completely f#@$ked up the next day. Then told me that I was never going to change and they were never going to change, and I was ghosted. I did everything to show them that I was there for them in every way possible and got sh#tied on. I don't ever want to experience this kind of coldness or heartache ever again. The whole thing didn't make any sense to me. I am working on my anxious attachment, so hopefully, next time, I can have a healthy relationship with someone, but that will be a long ways down the road, because it's going to take me a good while to heal from this. I have never felt pain like this ever before in my life with any of my other relationship's. At this point, if I ever run across this type of attachment style, I am going to run...it's too much, and the coldness is indescribable. I really trusted this person, and getting ghosted was the outcome. Ghosting to me is very immature and childish.

[alexfrancisco]

This is the best video on this subject that I have seen. Thank you

[Jana-tdru]

I dont like how everyone in the comment section in every video about bonding types is always picking on the avoidants. It is a bonding type after all. You cant help it right away, you need to learn and understand about your way to react to closeness and everyone that has ever worked on a personal issue knows it is hard and long work. I understand it might be very hurtful for the people around, I dont want to belittle that. But please give eachother time to work on issues rather then just go full rant mode.

[lauraadkins]

You have been a true blessing! Everything you teach on avoidants has resonated with my partner….he does all of these things to express his love. Thank you for giving me peace!

[mastersway]

BRILLIANT!!
You just saved a marriage♡

[ladaguilar]

I ghosted my avoidant partner 2 weeks ago. The emotional roller coaster was just to much for both of us. I went insane about how hurt I felt & he said I’m to exhausted for the back & forth & literally left me hanging. But he loves me. That’s the most confusing part. He has to learn to love me the way I feel it though. It isn’t fair & very one sided. I have a lot to learn for sure for love is patient and kind & long suffering.

After I went crazy he texted me the next day repeating he doesn’t want to fight & I didn’t respond & the day after asking me how things are with me & I didn’t respond to that either. I miss him a lot ❤ but I can’t bring myself to continue doing the same things over & over

[Stevem]

Out of the 8 signs she loved me, I got 4.5 which was what I felt in my heart.
She was always half in, half out.

[Sesgua]

Wow! I didn't really believe it until now! I have never felt so incredibly loved. Thank you so much! This explains so much about my wonderful partner.

[firstsecond]

All these 8 signs are signs of acquittance like cat on the walk . Very High risk with very low benefit situation