How to Make an Emotionally Unavailable Man Fall in Love // 6 Surprising Traits

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How to Make an Emotionally Unavailable man Fall in Love / 6 SURPRISING TRAITS! // If you’re reading this, you’re probably wondering how to deal with an emotionally unavailable partner, and especially wanting to know, Can an emotionally unavailable man fall in love with me? I am happy to report, yes! Emotionally unavailable men can fall in love. But the challenge in learning how to get an emotionally unavailable guy to love you involves learning more about what does “emotional unavailability” mean, and the 6 traits of a good woman. Adopting these traits also happens to be how to have a great relationship, and will let you know what to do if he is emotionally unavailable.

Plus, when it comes to assessing their potential as a partner, it will illustrate how to know if a guy is emotionally available, in the future, enough to meet your emotional needs.

For many women with anxious attachment, falling in love with an emotionally unavailable man and/or dating a dismissive avoidant partner can be confusing, frustrating, and difficult (In this video, first, you will learn more about emotionally unavailable partners, who are struggling with avoidant attachment style; sometimes called “dismissive avoidant attachment style” or “fearful avoidant attachment style.”).

But once you learn the 6 traits that inspire love for an emotionally unavailable guy, (an avoidant partner), loving an emotionally unavailable man becomes a lot easier, because you will know how to elicit the emotional response you want, without manipulative mind games, or changing yourself to fit their mold.

This will take you from confused to clear, over how much longer you might be willing to wait it out, and invest your heart.

Here are the timestamps:

00:00 Intro
00:40 A Case Study
03:20 Defining emotional unavailability and avoidant attachment style
04:08 Trait #1
04:45 Trait #2
06:57 Trait #3
07:58 Trait #4
08:40 Trait #5
09:29 Trait #6
11:04 Final Thoughts
12:01 A Final Warning
13:16 Video Recommendation: When to Leave a Toxic Relationship
13:29 Video Recommendation: 3 Reasons Avoidant Partners Come Back

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Thank you for watching! Let me know in the comments below, how do you feel about these six surprising traits? What do you find attractive in a partner? And if you like this content, be sure to let me know, and we can make more like this!

brianamacwilliam.attachment
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Good lord, why would I ever want to make an emotionally unavailable man fall in love? I have absolutely no desire to spend one more minute of my life in relationships where I don't get my needs met, and someone else's insecure attachment issues are their problem to resolve, not mine. I'm done being part of peoples' healing process. Come to me with your shit together or not at all.

Revolution-tlwo
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In a nutshell:

1. Consistency
Show consistency in your choices and decisions.
2. Self possession
Knowing your value and not seeking self validation from others.
3. Boundaries
Clearly communicate that you’re not a doormat.
4. Passionate
Have your hobbies and pursuits. Engaged in your creative energy. Bring new perspectives to relationships.
5. Non-judgemental
Being accepting and not leaning into negative and fearful assumptions. Accept them for who they are and not their potential.
6. Discerning
Ability to say no when they need to. Make them feel like they are being chosen and they’re not simply an available option.

LiterateAphrodisiac
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So mainly honoring your own needs, boundaries and passions.

itsrnst
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How about leave his ass aline and find someone else who can meet your emotional needs.

blacklightfreakout
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Thank you for your integrity. I feel like other videos on the subject fail to really capture what DA feels and needs. they make people think it's possible to change a DA. DA will only change for you if they don't feel like you are trying to change them. I really believe that if you want to be with a DA you have to be able to love yourself enough to love them unconditionally/unchanged before they will start to change. The work is never how do I make them change... but how do I grow and live well and authentically on my own

happysinger
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Run! The best way to make a man follow up with you is to find a man that is capable. Don’t chase on the healthy people. Believe me I know

joei
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12:40 watch and re-watch this until 12:58 at least 5X, think about it, then re-watch again and again as needed.

genericwatcher
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Thank you Brianna.. I fought with my fiance and it ended up canceling our wedding. I fought because he wanted something that was against a boundary of mine. It's not the first time that he tried to break this boundary of mine and get what he wants so I didn't feel loved because of that. When I made this known to everyone he left in anger. I was struggling with the decision of my actions.. but because of you I now know that I made the best decision for the both of us. I stuck to my boundary for the first time in our relationship and didn't let it go. For the first time, it felt like I really was myself and that I loved myself more than the horrible thing he wanted to do to me.

TGRULeZ
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number 1: consistency is better described as authenticity

williamdavies
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I just know, but hell no! You will suffer from being in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant. Don’t walk away,

laurabeigh
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I like that you made this. I just wish they would also work on themselves. It's not entirely on me to make things work

emilycolbert
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TL;DR: have strong boundaries and don't be needy. This is general dating advice that are even more true to avoidant people. It's not really special to avoidant people.

guillaumebersac
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Sorry to not post a positive comment but this video seems to be 90% about how the anxious partner should change their behaviour in order to understand the avoidant. It would have been more helpful to hear what both parties have to do in order to get out of the trap.

mikedk
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As a DA, I can attest to this. I'm always looking for a woman who has her own life outside of me. So many women I dated started out that way only to change into a "homebody" six months later (on average). 🤦🏿 "If they don't have a life outside of you, their life will BECOME you."

sifublack
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Have heard over 10 psychiatrists and you are the best so far in regards to this topic about avoidant partners, thank you so so very much 😇🤗

nehashetty
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I love that you combine psychology and spirituality!❤🎉 this is soo for me.

zirquera
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I feel like no matter what I do my avoidant partner will never really commit to me

elizabethvazquez
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Iam a Spice of Lifer and I am impressed how you nailed it all down Briana. Thank you. You made me cry. I always wondered what was wrong with me.

I have an important characteristic to suggest under the disorganized attachment, one that is not mentioned. Spice of Lifers feel the urge to fall in love again and again. Its like a love thrill addiction. This is another main reason they withdraw from a relationship once the thrill is gone. There must be a scientific explanation behind this I bet.

Thank you for this video. I desperately needed this wisdom for years now!

stellaachilleos
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You're videos have been helpful in understanding my current boyfriend. Thank you.

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