How narcissists prepare just in case you WANT TO LEAVE them

How narcissists prepare if you want to leave them. They record, document and do all kinds of things in case you want to leave them. They hate to be left unprepared.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[sandymorris]

They fear abandonment, but they are the ones that treat you so horribly you have to leave. The longer you stay, the worst the treatment gets.

[sandymorris]

They fear abandonment, but they are the ones that treat you so horribly you have to leave

[takemakers]

All Lies will be exposed in 2024. -Katt Williams

This is the line that comes to mind when I interact with my narc lol

[Kylierylieee]

He said " why do you keep coming back to me if it was so bad?" When all I wanted was answers which he refused to give me after he lied to me. He's just an awful human being. the truth comes out Needless to say he's definitely a narcissist and he proved my point which I'll definitely write about my book I just wish it was a happier ending but there is no happy ending with a narcissist

[MB-Music]

Please do a video on why some have a warped view of friendship as tho it’s transactional. I don’t talk to some friends for weeks or months and there’s never a question about the friendship. These things are normal as we adult and have kids and careers. He doesn’t ever see things the same way-he becomes offended that people
have lives and so never trusts any friends and puts us all thru it to “prove” our loyalty and his self fulfilling motto that he is “unloved”, “nobody loves me”, it’s crap. Nobody will coddle you and give you their nipples to suck on. Resolve your mother issues. I was told he could not take steps to fix himSELF UNTIL/UNLESS he first feels loved. So no responsibility whatsoever to learn to self love and soothe. His mother is dead now. She can’t change her errors, so it gets projected onto the rest of us. I’m not your mother punching bag nor your nipple to suck on. He puts us all thru hoops, leaps and bounds to prove we are not loyal. His definition of loyalty is special when he only cares for himself and has no loyalty to anyone but himself

[DanceChickaDee]

5:23 wow……..
That was the revelation I needed to hear today….
Thank you…..
There is no payout 😣

[TiegraHansen]

Why does he push his grade a supply away

[lolxd]

Sounds like a self fulfilling prophecy! That's retarted. Thank you Lee. 🙏😎

[MichellePringle-td]

After only 3 years of marriage, he kicked me out twice. Said he didn't want me there anymore, so I filed for divorce. So who left who? Who did the final discard? I was still in love with him, idk ?

[TiegraHansen]

I put out a big imprint on him every time he pushes me away

[Angieandfriendspodcasts]

You haven’t told one lie. My ex feared me leaving him over and over again and he was doing everything unimaginable for me to stay. I finally got him to leave me because it was hard for me to leave him because of the love and history we had. I told him I didn’t think I loved him anymore and that I didn’t want to marry him. He lost it. He blocked me and I’m certain started messing with some else in just 1 week of me saying that to him. It was painful but it was needed. I wanted off the emotional roller coaster. He unblocked me and then I blocked him and it’s now been 7 months of no contact. I watch your videos to remind me why I can never talk to him again.

[britniberry]

Great video Lee. We need a video on the narcissist controlling the iphones and texting like they are the partner to friends and family. Its literally insane.

[dainese_]

Thanks for your videos Lee.H it's very helpful for me to understand my x bfr behaviors towards me ...lots of love from UK 🇬🇧 ❤❤❤

[aaliamazing]

18 years of marriage ending and I'm terrified of what he is going to try to do to me in court. He did this not me. I can't fix him anymore he is sick and won't get help. And the police arrested him not because I pressed charges the state did for criminal battery and he blames me for calling the police in the first place. I have no idea what's gonna happen but it won't be good which is why I'm really tapping into the services here to help me get through this. Thank you for your videos. My husband hates that I watch these videos.

[motowngirl]

Girls and women think that if their life are horrible that they will go to heaven,
“SHE IS A SAINT”

[TiegraHansen]

Yet I never left he did lol he’s backwards. I’m just here not going a yet lol. He’s going anywhere and everywhere but me/

[boonefdky]

2 of my narcissist male friends made it a point to tell me they had made a new friend prior to discard. It was so weird. Being neither had many friends I congratulated them. Sounds like something you would tell a female to make them jealous but why tell that to a male. Wondering if they were in that closet or something.

[natlee]

How does one have a fear of abandonment and is always the one leaving the people that love you.

[nicholecornes]

Ohh hell yes were leaving to save our dam life

[jsteele]

Can you make a video on euphoric recall?