3 Odd Things Only Narcissists Do #narcissist #narcissism #npd

[narcabusecoach]

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[GodsChildEver]

And when you treat them like they treat you. They can’t take it.

[NikiSchap]

He could talk forever without even stopping for a second to see if I was still listening.

[blessedstar]

His favorite line.... I don't hold on to anything....lie. they always hold grudges

[minim]

They steal things you've said or credit for it. For example a good way to spot it in a work setting: you happen to say something interesting to them at lunch. Then another colleague sits down with you both and the narcissist will say that thing word for word to that colleague right in front of you. Without giving you credit (so no 'mini m was just saying...'). Normal people don't steal your ideas and act like they are theirs with no shame.

[kirstenbz]

The one thing that makes me crazy is acting like everything was fine after a day of abuse. The next day nothing happened. Pure hell.

[Tyndalic]

My ex used to retell the same stories over and over, sometimes about me as if I didn’t know what really happened. Once he told me, “I made you too mean.” He used to say I was so sweet then he changed it to, “Your a wimp!” After hours of telling me what a horrible person I am. He’d act like nothing happened and want to have sex.

[kaycampbell]

So true especially #3 for me. After horrible tirades and verbal act as if it never happened. No apologies, no mention that anything ever happened. When I confronted the situation, she (my narc sister) always just glared at me then avoided me for a while. NEVER ACCEPTED RESPONSIBILITY FOR HER ACTIONS. Her whole life has been like this and has become much worse with age. NO CONTACT is the only solution, otherwise the stress will destroy you.

[keishawilliams]

The third one... He acted like nothing happened and said we don't need to apologize

[scc]

He made me feel guilty when I was on my period and didn’t want S3x. So if anyone is suffering from being with a narcissistic partner- I feel you and please don’t ever break no contact. You deserve better.

[karenkennedy]

I remember my husband coming home from work and without asking would just talk about his day, not even looking to see if I am was listening, it was boring, went on and on, and never asked me about my day, I told him anyway.

[wrektum]

My narcissist could spend hours talking about herself. As soon as I mentioned me she would glance over it and move on to more talk about herself. It was odd to say the least

[queenesther]

What I relate to, is them acting like nothing happened after they abuse you.

[Talisharoy]

Yeah I remember him saying I am the most beautiful person he met and then he broke up saying I was ugly n we didn’t look good together! Strange that I believed him that I didn’t. It was later that I discovered that it was he who was so shallow that he just threw people’s insecurity to their face because he can’t find a reason otherwise to belittle me. I remember those days I felt so low that I used to say “don’t settle for me, coz you deserve better”. I thought myself as someone who didn’t deserve him, as I saw him as someone God like! I ignored all the red flags and gave myself reasons for his bad behaviour. He never gave me a closure but it was later I found out that it was me, I should have walked away sooner but I decided to stay coz I was blindly in love, thinking that something in his past made him the way he is. Whatever be the reason, that never gives him the license to treat me like shit! I am glad I could look at where I went wrong and work on myself . Glad that I never gave him the satisfaction of me broken. Glad that I created boundaries just after we broke up and not let him use me as a sexual object. I love myself more now, not to give him another minute of my life. Hating him would give him space in my life, and after everything I can’t afford that .I am glad I have “nothing-ed” him. Thank God to save me from that. Staying single is far better that living with anxiety everyday, not knowing where you stand in someone’s life.


Giving hope to everyone. Life gets better. Way better than we could ever imagine. ❤❤❤

[mgomathy]

My husband talks very loudly and purposely to trigger me.

[classylady]

After abuse he did as if nothing happens ...

[bluebird]

Exactly what happened. In the beginning, he and his mother ( she was also a narc) buttered me up big time... gushy. Then after years and three children, I couldn’t do anything right if my life depended on it. Continual devaluation. He also went on and on and on about things like his job, not just to me, but family... one time brought a school book from a class he was taking on banking. So everyone’s there visiting, family get together, and he starts teaching them! 😳. Funny most of them went into medical or dental fields, doctors, dentists, nurse practitioners and nurses. He ALWAYS told me I thought I was perfect and made him feel bad about himself. He pushed me to fight constantly. When I’d break down, he’d take a deep breath and say, well, you finally got mad.” That was a light bulb moment because I finally understood that things would never get better, because all that mess made him feel good about himself (he had control to make me angry and fall apart). Demons.

[GlaphyrasRevenge]

All of these things resonate with my personal experience, but the thing that really hit home the most was when you said They Own You. He definitely feels like this to the point that I have been frozen in fear of leaving for years. I have made huge steps over the past month since throwing him out. I’m scared of how he will react to some of the things I have done when he finds out. Praying for safety for my family and all the sweet people who are in the same or similar situation.

[rebeccaosullivan]

Last conversation I had with a narcissist- it was eerie- she was screaming at me.... so, I took the bait and screamed back. She then got calm and smug, almost as if her ability to whip me up to her fever pitch level made her feel good. Calmed her right down like some magic spell or something🤣Never falling for that again!

[lonnettearline-hilton]

so that why he talks so much he loves his voice and yes he always acts chill after being abusive