10 Ways Narcissists Make YOU Look Like The Problem

Uncover the truth about narcissists in this video, '10 Ways Narcissists Make YOU Look Like The Problem,' including how they employ smear campaigns and even provoke reactive abuse to manipulate situations. Explore the cunning tactics they use to shift blame and responsibility onto others. Whether you've encountered a narcissist in a relationship, workplace, or elsewhere, this video offers invaluable insights into their strategies. Join us for a deep dive into the ways narcissists try to make you the scapegoat and learn how to protect yourself from their manipulation.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[qvnwdqf]

Narcisists enter relationships in order to break the other person’s spirit and gain total control over that individual. Evil at work.

[angelf]

My ex would say "I don't live in the past, dear" whenever I might try to bring up issues that weren't solved. But he had no issues bringing anything up that I did!

[PsLove]

I suffered from social anxiety for more than 14 years because of a narcissist and his flying monkeys. Never trusted people again after that.

[Sheisme]

I’ve dealt with multiple people like this. They would treat me like I was cognitively impaired, and I thought I was the problem until I learned about gaslighting.

[hopeinhumanity.]

I’ve started questioning if it’s brain damage. Better to think that way than to believe people could be this damaging intentionally . 😳

[Gridironwarplans]

I’m having so many “aha” moments watching these. The past 5 years are beginning to make so much sense. No doubt I’m being called all sorts of names right now to the new guy, just like she told me about the guy before me. I bet he wasn’t that bad either

[AnnaMishel]

I am SO done with narcissists.
If I never have have another friend, it’s worth it, to not be manipulated, gaslighted and abused.

[PaulaCunada]

Covert narcissists are truly terrifying. Gaslighting, playing victim, selective amnesia, and blame shifting really do a number on your sanity. I had started planning my wedding when 2 aunts passed away in the same week. I had told my narc these things and when I had an anxiety attack about everything happening, I snapped at them for invalidating my feelings and minimizing the situation. Although it wasn't cool, I knew she was just "trying to help." So I went to apologize to her the next day but have a conversation on why I snapped at her. (At this point we had 3 convos about how disrespectful she's been with no changed behavior) I got blindsided by tearful accusations of living in fear, dreading to come home, and not being able to use the common room because she's an empath and my drama was too much for her. So I asked what she needed in order to fix the problem. With fully knowing my situation and that I had multiple deaths in the family, she made a boundary that if I had intense negative emotions I had to remove myself from the common room so she could feel safe using it.

So essentially while I was grieving I was not allowed to use our home if she was there. It was shocking and confusing, and at the end of it I felt so bad I did exactly what she wanted. I got out of there eventually and I know now that wasn't a boundary but manipulation and control. It really sucks when insanity is your reality.

[danapassarelli]

I feel so validated right now. My experience is real. I’m not crazy. Thank you so much for this!

[albertshinskiy]

well constructed video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[izawaniek]

It is hard to believe how calculating and manipulative narcisists are. It is just mind-bending. Those people are damaged beyond repair. Only God can help them.

[David-nukw]

After the abuse she tells me "I'm not responsible for how you feel"

[Snowfoxie]

The intimacy demand while sick, oh my stars! My ex got so mad when I didn’t want to be intimate with him after an extremely painful root canal. He was so upset that he made horrible rhymes-with-grape jokes about me. Then when I got upset, he told me that he felt like he couldn’t express himself and somehow I ended up apologizing to him. I’m so glad I’m no longer with him.

[furryelvis]

I was pushed and pushed, and lost my temper. Suddenly I was accused of abuse. I find myself taking on the role as an abuser in my mind. Something I just dont understand as she was never abused by me

[stephenlandry]

I'm in the hardest stage of dealing with a covert narcissist. I have been married to one for 37 years. I was blind to it but after catching her lying about several affairs over 20 years. I did think it was me that was wrong but now I'm I'm powered now. Her back is to the wall. I busted her on everything. Now I'm in control it probably will end my marriage but I'm a loyal, loving, romantic man. I'm not looking at it like I wasted my life instead I've never felt more free. I'm gonna be great as for her sorry I don't except crocodile tears. If she was going to change in 37 years it would have happened already.
So thanks for these videos they have woke me up and empowered me. Much love to you you saved my life.

[virtualmorality]

Took care of wife and family as sole provider for 19 years. Found out she had been cheating for 5 years. After i found out, i became labeled as a psychological and emotional abuser. I didn't realize someone could be that damn evil. She introduced her cheating partner to my 14 year old son while we were still married, while i took care of my Mom with advanced alzheimers one week. The same night slept with the man in our bed. My son was and still is traumatized. Then blamed me for turning our son against her. I loved her so very much and i struggle every day to wrap my head around it. So many lives destroyed and forever changed.

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She blamed me for her lies. Every time I caught her lying it was my fault

[kimmccaleb]

Never argue perspectives with them and when they start arguing it with you, find a reason to end the conversation

[ImreadyforJesus]

I am going thru this...and im definitely reactive. I wish i could respond and not react but when u know whats happening and noone believes you, just makes me even more angry. God help me

[joelynngonzalez]

Hello, you just described my whole relationship for 5 years with my fiance who is a Covert N. He would tell his family she broke up with me again and I was always accusing him of cheating (when he was I would catch him, my bad for taking him back so many times) so his family hated me and accused me of making him drink and I was mentally abusing him and he was nervous to look at women in front of me. I didn't find this out till we were on a camping trip with his family. They yelled at me and said I was insecure, jealous, and ruining his life. Now I know why I always felt uncomfortable around his family. He had been telling them this for years. He was actually talking with at least 10 other women every day/saying the good morning beautiful thing. I found a bra in his bed etc. I saw his phone and took it out of his hand. Honestly, I was blown away when I saw how many there were. Also, a woman called me and said she had been seeing him for 7 years. He also had a staring problem he would stare at a woman until they would notice and would turn around and look at him. This was madding and so disrespectful. Well, he baited me on this at our camping trip. I asked him to stop staring at a woman and he yelled "Im not staring at anyone!" Then his flying monkeys acted like a bunch of banchies pulled my hair and kicked me out of our campsite. What the hell!! I felt he did it on purpose and your video just confirmed it. Thank you so much. He wants to go to counseling LOL says he loves me. His family says he would never cheat! LOL Im selling my ring and putting new floors in my house!!