Why the Relationship with Your NT Partner Sucks: Tips for Men with ASD

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[GwenArlene]

I know an older divorced Aspie Male who has had MANY failed short-term relationships in his life, and so he now would rather stay relationship-free and just do whatever he wants, when and HOW he wants, than to put up with trying to please another partner/wife. He finds life to be much simpler that way. He says that he has zero interest to have to WORK on relationships--they should just come naturally, but in his experience, none of them have. Then so be it for him.

[alyzimm]

I love this holistic approach! Thank you for sharing.

[pres]

Wow! Starts w what you eat...makes SO much sense! Thanks for highlighting this fact Basics first.

[fiona]

I know my partner loves me very much, even though it's difficult for him to express. Why then can he not help himself when he meets a woman he is attracted to? It's like one his special interests for a while and each time it really upsets me because he can show that but is unable to show me the same interest. He tries to hide his enthusiasm too so he must acknowledge that it hurts me on some level. Is this what you mean when you say emotionally immaturity in comparison to chronological years?

[jeffrielly]

I myself at this point no longer care about dating and relationships, I'm almost in my 40s and I still have yet to find a girl who will even give me a chance.

[markhutten]

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[kellyrussell]

My husband has turned alcoholic. He is also afraid his cancer has come back even though he refuses to go to a doctor, so he really has no clue what is going on.

[charliemintz]

I have already seen Dr Berg's videos about cutting carbs, keto and intermittent fasting and they work for me. It seems to me I am better when I add extra D3K2 and B vitamin supplements to my diet.

[JaninesPlace]

Yes! I’m a functional medicine practitioner and my ASP won’t listen to me about this and eats like garbage!

[ganpeiling]

What about women with Asperger's and NT husband? I don't see such video.

[parlaverita]

I am Aspie woman who loves a man who is also an Asperger's.
In this case, I am making a big effort for him, reading as much as I can to understand how you, Asperger men, work. I don't agree with you, sorry, that the problem is nutrition.... All the relationship lies on women's hands, if it is going to be successful or not.
NT women has no patience and no idea that an Aspie man will have difficulty on showing feelings, so, the woman gets tired on waiting and ends the relationship. That's it.

Being an Asperger myself, I will do my best for who I love: tolerance, patience and a good conversation to expose our thoughts.

Good luck to all of you.

[divinemercyisforall]

thank you so much.. i am NT and i need this

[lifeseries]

Sadly, the AS guy would not watch this video but only his wife/girlfriend/partner. More sadly for me, my AS husband is a super picky eater. More more more sadly for me, he is influencing my sons and making them like him too.

[joe-hanhairy]

i think it's a mixed bag (aka, double-edged sword), because NTs can be extremely immature [at times/in certain situations]

[fruitypopwhickle]

I hate him now. I poured everything into him. Selfish. Self serving. Immature. A manipulative gaslighter. I wasted 6 years. If I had known..

[robertjohnburton]

Frankly, I think too many mature-aged people expect too much in their relationships. Affection changes through the years. Smoking doesn't help, drinking doesn't help, or getting angry won't help. I see your point; however, how about everyone just accepting that everything will never be the same forever?