How to Increase Love in Your Relationship | Jonathan Ljungqvist | TEDxZagreb

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Thank you for these 3 tips:
1. Hug
2. Gratitude
3. Communicate from the heart

JWu-jtfz
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This is a wonderful topic and speech! Jonathan is the love of my life but like we can all agree on, love is complicated. Starting our oxytocin project was the best journey we have embarked upon together and I know we are happier for it! I am so grateful, not only for Jonathan, but because oxytocin is something we humans share and need. Cheers!

amandaarnold
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Jonathan is absolutely correct - I did not know it was called oxytocin... we just call it 'being in love' - after 33 years together (30 of them married) twice we've been on the brink of calling it quits but we worked on it and today we are like a couple of adolescents (we are both rapidly approaching 70) - we hug/ we cuddle / we kiss / we love each other and as Jonathan says - LOOK at each other, go for walks together. One thing Jonathan missed - LAUGH together - share jokes to start with but after a while it becomes easier to find amusement in every day things. Take care of each other - offer to help in a task and be confident to ask for help in a task. Plan little projects together - like clearing out the wardrobe - (a boring task but together it is done faster and it's more fun). However, I have a little advice for Jonathan and Amanda - I know it's fashionable but try and keep the mega expressions of your love more private - the turning up at work with flowers, in my mind, is not so cool - it smacks of possession and wanting to show others how good a partner you are - instead surprise her with the flowers at home. I won't even comment on the public proposal - mine was on top of a promontory - overlooking the Pacific Ocean - it was a blissful moment which still makes my skin tingle. It was our moment.

anaderol
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It’s easy to give up and say “it didn’t work”. Take time and analyze what can be done to fix it. Good talk.

venust.
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This is a tough subject for long-term partners. And I believe that everyone should watch this!

fststudy
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True love is love you give and you get, without asking, demanding or craving for. Respect, loyalty, honesty, touch, smell, laugh, look, protection, all good feelings making one- love for life. Communication is the key. When you communicate you have no problems. Congratulations to both of you. All the best.

summerjoy
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Why am I not surprised the moment he called her up i was like yep we're gonna see a proposal

Bion
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So glad I got to witness this in person!

TrevCircleStudios
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He's so excited to tell these so simple yet mind blowing techniques.

NISHUGARVU
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Don't give up and say it wouldn't work / try to find the problem, fix it and protect your relationship ❤

manelabachi
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Wow wasn’t expecting that at the end, I wish you guys both success and happiness.

jeffaholics
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Just woww.... I don't have a thing to tell you Jonathan. You are just imperfectly perfect. Such a raw and genuine person you are that shows on your face. Thank you for highlighting about Oxytocin. It brought goosebumps when you proposed Amanda. Wishing you loads of love and bliss with Amanda along with a bunch of wonderful kids. Keep smiling... Keep laughing... Keep inspiring Loads of love from India!

BeenaKK
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It takes so much patience, and calmness. When your partner is scared, to open up.

billpetersen
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Wow!! It's about time Jonathan!!Congratulations to both of you!

bessrivera
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I cried after watching the speech... Too much Oxytocin was produced at once!! Such a wonderful couple you are! Best wishes and regards.

miegy
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Thanks for talking about this lovely argument. Love is all I need. The love of my life? Nature. Being in nature and liberty.

valuabletipseasylife
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This one is my favorite ted talk, I'm always watching one all of them everyday as I'm about to learn english and then I came across to a such great message about love, so not only that's give me encouragement but it also give like big hope and I strongly wanna to restart my relationships by experiencing all these powerful oxitocyne advices...I almost had tears in my eyes by seeing both being in love...good luck for you and thank you so much..

mitiarajaonarison
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Awww this made me cry the happiest tears for you two!!

ariellll
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This is a really important message to everyone! In these covid times, we should be careful with all our relationships. Thank you for your thoughts Jonathan!

ssuperssara
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Watch until the end. Because I thought after he finished his speech, it was the end. So powerful !!! My only Ted talks show that makes me cry of happiness. I will do my oxytocin project too!

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