Why Does the Narcissist Hoover During the Holidays?

Saturday, November 27, 2021 11/27/21

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[treelover]

WHEN NARCS HOOVER ME DURING THE HOLIDAYS NOW I JUST LAUGH BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN NO CONTACT FOR 2 YEARS. MY LIFE IS STABLE AND PEACEFUL AND I INTEND TO KEEP IT THAT WAY. TREE LOVER- USA.

[juliecieslowski]

My narc hates me..he met his match and didn't like it. Never have to worry about a hoover.

[KB-jlnl]

They use the holiday thinking you may be receptive to them because of season and catch you off guard and vulnerable.
Fa la la la

[sunnydaye]

No one I don't like are in my circle. Simple.

[emilemerten]

I get it, they don’t know who they are, that is why they constantly tell you who they are, to compensate for them not knowing.

[lughlamhfada]

The more exploitative among these gollums are expecting YOU to be venerable around holidays.

[angelapellino]

Spot on!! Still two years after i see him passing and passing at my workpkace..
I hope i will be able to not let the past pain destroy my all life!!

[themonicameza]

I'm completely surprised by my narc. He could give a rat's ass about me that he doesn't hoover me at all, but moving on to different women. We were never even friends on Facebook.

[rorywright]

The Hoover Vacuum had it’s origins in Canton, Ohio! I don’t know if this would be a Hoover or not, but it’s the closest thing I could think of! He liked to use the silent treatment as a form of punishment. When he was ready to break the silent treatment, he would act as if all was well and nothing happened! I know when he was in the nursing facility he would call and accuse me of whatever he was actually doing, kind of a Hoover in reverse! This is the most of thought of him all day! My daughter and granddaughter cried about him today cuz they were looking through some of his belongings and I felt nothing, only sad they were crying! It may sound cold, but he just doesn’t matter anymore. I’m getting stronger. Thanks David! It’s really nice that you posted today!

[ArtandKitchen_]

My father just appeared in my house yesterday without notice.

[Ravid]

Hey David, David from Kanata (CAn-A-Ta) Canada. that was an amazing video, think it applies to more then just explaining the holiday hoover, but what drives them at a very base level. Specially the part about their inability to have a healthy relationship, explains their true lack of friends, and their lack of options. Thanks for such a great video, tied really well into the no contact video. Cheers mate.

[emilemerten]

Thank you David, I love watching your videos, thank you so much for making them.

[Willa]

Hi David. Thank you for taking the time to make this video. Very thoughtful of you.😊

[artisttargeted]

Thanks For The Hoover ' Pep Talk.
Your Advice And Wisdom Always Makes Sense And Totally Helps Me Put The Right Pieces Of The Puzzle into The Correct Places.
(( My Father Is The Biggest Narcissist in My Life.))🌿🌹🌿

[mariaavelez]

Hi David, Maria from Colombia. They are very competitive, so sometimes they hoover to check if your doing bad.. Meaning, if you miss them or feel lonely. They feel good if you're not doing great.

[dodgerstone]

Good to See You, David... Happy Holidays!

[elleonard]

Tasmania.
Tyvm David, for your uplifting And very helpful video.

So true And a great reminder, as those fleeting memories surfaces, And Christmas day approaches.

He had already hoovered me, with his lovebombing letter, back in March, of this year, in 2021.
Me: No response.
I am sure he found another object to use.

They burn so many bridges.
Sad way to be, really..

I will be hosting, sharing Christmas day with my beautiful family/pup And friends. .

🕊🦚🎉🎅🤶🎁 ☘ ❤🙏💜

[hzsqcbo]

Thank you for this video. Very helpful especially during the holidays.
You put things in a perspective that makes this stuff somewhat understandable.
Have had a few hoovers and each time it gets easier to notice and ignore. Each day you realize what a mess you escaped and how much peace you have now.
Its cold in Colorado but warm in my world even alone.
Happy Holidays to you.

[rorywright]

Hi David! Really snowy here in Toledo!!

[kenjohnson]

More good content David. Let's get you to 50K Subs. Happy Holidays.