When a narcissist hoover is unsuccessful

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Tune in to hear the perspective of a self aware narcissist. That’s me - Ben Taylor a narcissist in recovery trying to promote awareness, healing, growth and change. I do that by these videos on here, TikTok, Instagram and Facebook.

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#hoover #narcissism #narcissist #npd

[cherrybacon]

When a hoover is unsuccessful, you've won. 🍒

[elderjonathanwhite]

It’s was never about love, always about controlling you

[LoveEndures]

Hardest fight of my life, fighting for my soul.. but it is the most beautiful healing journey, and to also discover the strength inside of yourself ❤

[hindwidad]

My narcs hoover failed. He used a crisis hoover and got no response from me because I was just done.

[jmyy]

If they come back don't open the door .

[Peacealways]

Many have sacrificed our time, love and care for these horrible people.

[mollieespy]

It sounds awfully lonely being a narcissist.

[susanleonard]

I just read a quote that says, once you carry your own water, you learn the value of every drop. Living with a narcissist, you sometimes forget about you. When we become aware that we matter and focus on ourselves, we have succeeded.

[sleeperno]

Update. After three years of the silent treatment, my inlaws suddenly started speaking to me as if nothing happened. They literally expected me to just pick up with the relationship as if nothing happened. I refused to speak to them and walked away. F-ck them.

[eboneep]

My husband wants a legal separation instead of a divorce 🙃 So he can hoover and be able to say I'm his wife...Controlling

[enoshore]

Pay close attention to everything and respond to what you see, not what you thought or wanted to be true. This works with everything in life including narcissists.

[Turin_Turumba]

I rejected my ex's Hoover, but I still miss and love the masked version I fell for, it's been 5 months and its still hard to reconcile

[tracy]

Whether you discard them or they discard you [You win] Many aren't able to have closure in situations like this. When you go in for the truth to be able to see through their lies. A Hoover is not a compliment, so if you're out of it and you're fortunate to have closure? LEAVE THE DOORS SHUT DON'T LEAVE ONE CRACK. No contact, save your energy. These people not only cause a severe energy drain with mental and emotiinal pain not to mention physical. They never change and will remain in their own movie and if you go back to their playbook you'll be the star in their movie plot [a mere prop] Stand firm on the no contact Because things begin to get better. You have nothing with them🎯They only have a fake image with rep to maintain. Depart from me for I never knew your name✉You lose nothing losing one is a gain🧺I see them for what they are, nothing.

[BR-wl]

He keeps ringing my phone which he's blocked on and creates fake Facebook accounts. It's so creepy like he's just letting me know he's still around. The more he does this the more I get turned off this clown. I just wish he'd go away.

[laurakelly]

I clearly remember him turning to me and he said "I can't read you anymore".... YES! my reply? "what are you taking about?" he said... nothing and walked away. my first big step in gaining my freedom.

[Cellia]

They want something for themselves, but that’s not the case here. Most them just Hoover you for a booty call most of time. Once they hit it, they quit it too. Then they leave and rip out your heart, when they leave too. It’s better to block them everywhere and put up walls to protect yourself and your heart from them.

[peterlearner]

This is rather good. "They are no longer important, you are more important"

[thenorthface]

When I left my husband after he cheated on me and abused me, I felt an immense amount of guilt. That’s starting to go away and I got focused on myself, my career, healing and my happiness.

[pepe_da_prawn]

I think the other issue is that the victims loyalty which is an admirable asset in a person is also used against them.

[sarahcook]

Oh man he already had someone else ready.