How To Prepare For The Narcissist’s Hoover

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[globalheart]

After 3 months, unbelievably, yep..he cane back around. The sight of such a liar and emotional thief absolutely disgusted me!! Fortunately I was with friends, who knew the whole he lost his peacock pomp, and slipped away!!!! WIN!!!! 😁. A tiger doesn't change his stripes, and if they've already proven themselves to be a dishonorable liar, that's all you need to know. Plz peeps, don't engage in conversation!

[staceystarling]

I left mine!! I'm at a hotel ❤️❤️❤️ I will stay strong. Christina I truly have you to thank for the help and the tips. Please keep up the amazing videos. All the love in the world!!

[guntertorfs]

The trauma bond is a tricky one : it's the thing that kept the narcissist in my life for way too long. Very well explained, as usual. You're very good at doing it in a detailed, relatable, real life way. Looking good. Like the ' señorita ' earrrings and the nails again. ( -> just couldn't help myself ! lol )

[danielchallenger]

Of all the things she has done that would make someone never want to talk to a person again, I will definitely write them down because I know I will have quite a list.

[roxymovie]

Do not fall for their hoover - it's just their tricky way to suck you back in into their ongoing cycle of abuse! (1. Love- bombing, 2. Devaluation, 3. Discard, 4. Hoover)
The first time I got hoovered was after 2 months of a silent-treatment. I was not aware at that time that he was a Covert Narcissist and I did not even recognized his discard. The 2nd discard I did recognize for it was very cruel. After 8 months of no contact, he tried to hoover me again but now I am luckily aware.

[LeahIsHereNow]

I’ve moved out and I know he’s going to Hoover, love bomb, future fake etc. when we talk. I’ll go no contact after I retrieve my belongings from his house. I have no love for him because he’s cruel, calculated and abusive. Adults do not get to scream at me. He’s a big man-baby who has exhausted his little mind games and tricks.

Don’t need closure, I need FREEDOM.

[jasongrice]

@1.00. tip of cats tail behind curtain.😁💜🇦🇺🦘🙏

[vorbis]

I want all the detail I can on hoovering. It's very timely for a situation I'm close to and it could save someone so much. Thank you for this whole playlist!

[amysandstrum]

I think the 6 month cycle is generally because that's how long it takes to lovebomb and discard another person.

[fbbgokdvrvt]

Thank you for your great help in this heavy time! I broke up second time with the narcissist and I now I should be ready to this fight thank you!

[dianamoore]

I could write a book on my experience with an NPD. But after she accused me of something really bad, & then her Grandson killed himself, I began to read all I could about the NPD . Now I know she is probably who did what she accused me of doing.

[myportal]

There's nothing anyone is going to say or hoover with to change what's already happened. That bond shattered along with the mask. I threw it in the 🗑️.

[jennypappa]

Just what i needed right now! Thank you!

[nicoledburns]

Narc sister went MIA from all family gatherings and didn't even show up to our brothers wedding last year. Grandma is in hospice and suddenly narc sister showed up, telling family I am the reason she has been away for so long and started texting our brother how much she loves him and wants a relationship with him.

[garycordle]

Thanks for the video Christina, this is so true make a goals or just enjoy your time being narcissist free 🙏🦋🎭

[rjlacroix]

Thank you so very much . Truly outstanding . Your work is very important . 💪🙏, Portsmouth, NH .USA

[tinygold]

Just had a text after 3 years! It was a link to help for a health condition I have and a comment about my profile photo - I can’t believe it and so pissed off im back on YouTube looking for help when I had forgotten about him! 🤬

[pinkrainbow]

1:49 "This relationship is not the right relationship for you RIGHT NOW". I strongly believe that anyone who is hooked in a narcissistic relationship will take that sentence to mean that the Narc might be right for you at a LATER TIME, & gives them false hope that this relationship might be right for them "LATER". I know every friend I have is filled with false hope That the narc will change & I think this promotes that false hope. I don't think that's what you meant to say?

[skyali]

Mine was every week, then every month then 6 months, 8month & you 1 year at the end once he realised that I am never coming back. Now he took me to court for child arrangements

[rhondagemas]

It’s only going to happen when my mother screws up bc of her gambling addiction and nobody else is going to fall for her crap anymore either and/ or she’s abused by her son then she will play the victim card. There is no closure other than me saying no thank you, I have boundaries.