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Am I Not Good Enough To Be Hoovered? | Does The Narcissist Think I'm Not Good Enough?
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Have you left a narcissistic relationship and wondered why the narcissist didn’t hoover you? Do you ask yourself “Am I not good enough to be hoovered?” Hoovering from a narcissist is how the narcissist uses their control and manipulation tactics to bring you back into a relationship. While you may be happy to be finally rid of the narcissist and their narcissistic abuse, you still wonder when the narcissist hoovering will happen so you can prepare yourself. However, it can also be disappointing when the narcissist hoovering doesn’t happen. Why didnt the narcissist hoover me? Does the narcissist think I’m not good enough? You take it personally when the hoovering from the narcissist doesn’t happen. You remember how nothing I do is right with the narcissist or think about why am I never good enough for the narcissist. You try to think what are reasons the narcissist doesnt hoover so you can feel better about this happening. When the narcissist doesn’t hoover, it is just another reminder of how you aren’t good enough for the narcissist and nothing you did in the relationship was good enough. If you ask yourself “what are the reasons the narcissist doesn’t hoover” then you just need to think of the narcissist in the context of what narcissism is. The narcissist hoovers or doesn’t hoover based on what they need in that moment. It isn’t about you now just as it wasn’t about you in the relationship. Do narcissists always hoover? No. Does the narcissist think Im not good enough? No. The narcissist thinks only of themselves and you need to remove yourself from the reason a narcissist does or doesn’t do something. The narcissist does what they think will benefit them the most.
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