Fearful Avoidant | End Your Fear of Commitment with THIS

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Have you ever had the experience of telling yourself that you're going to do something and then finding yourself struggling to get started or even sabotaging the entire thing? In this video, Thais Gibson shares 3 essential steps to break out of that same familiar cycle and finally overcome the fear of commitment. This video is particularly valuable for anyone with a fearful avoidant attachment style (disorganized attachment style).
Watch now to find out these 3 steps and how you can overcome your fear of commitment, as Thais provides useful tips and guidance.
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0:00:00 - Intro
00:02:43 - Step #1: Surface Out Toxic Stories
00:06:30 - Step #2: Learn To Communicate Your Needs
00:08:25 - 14-Day Free Trial: Emotional Mastery & Belief Reprogramming Course
00:08:45 - Step #3: Learn To Say No
00:09:46 - Conclusion

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[ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Fearful Avoidants! Let us know your experience with commitment and seeing things through!

[Pp]

1. What could happen instead of the terrible things I imagine?

2. Understand and communicate my needs as clearly as possible.

3. Learn to say no and respect my own boundaries in a healthy way.

[lah-jkch]

Y'all! 👏👏👏
Listen to the lady, & try to do these steps with an objective perspective!!
2 years ago, I went through something that caused me to identify my FA patterns, and found myself doing these steps, but NOT in this order... I started with "boundaries" from a place of fear/hurt (victim mentality) & from that lense there was a lot of friction in this process--I couldn't set healthy boundaries because I didn't understand what mine even were yet! Thus, I set superficial ones from a manipulative place, or tried to force ones that didn't fit who I truly am.
Every "failure" caused less trust in myself, & lowered my self-esteem even more.
Then I did step 1 & 2 like, really dug in there from an objective perspective and BAM!!
I feel SO liberated! Taking responsibility for how I 'volunteer' to be/stay in situations where others disappoint me (& reinforce those junk beliefs) FINALLY has me setting boundaries that I feel good about sticking to.
Everyone's journey is different, & maybe there's no right/fastest way...but DON'T GIVE UP!! Take the time you need to let heal, & let love!

[Starsworldofadventure]

Thank you so much for this information as someone who just got out of a relationship with another FA it really opened my eyes to see how so much of our issues are deeply rooted and we really have to put in effort in relationships to get to a healthy relationship where we can feel safe to communicate our emotions and needs. Until that is possible we’re going to constantly keep creating unhealthy patterns. Your work is helping me so much!

[Teresaformark]

I am fearful avoidant… but I’m worried how easy it is for me to just walk away even if I have extreme guilt…. I cannot connect with others very surface level… I feel as though my 4 children are the only true love I have felt in life ..

[albutron]

I loved this intro into subconscious blocks, very engaging 🙂

[JohnViguerie]

I'm DA with FA triggered by life stressors. My love interest ex-gf is DA. These resources have helped me understand the subconscious patterns and remodeling tools. 🙏 Maybe we have a chance.

[roshalllambert]

Loved the points described here especially about communicating needs!

[markcafebrown]

Excellent job Thais. You are very much appreciated

[Chirspycreme]

Hi, my ex said she was amicably seeing someone, sound like she wanted a reaction from me, I didn’t give one. She’s an avoidant, said the other guy didn’t wanna date because he’s moving in April etc, she didn’t want to date either. So Jan 1 2024 I went NC she texted me three days later wishing me happy birthday. After I said I’m done talking to her. I ignored her and then she reached out again couple weeks later I ignored her. Then her aunt died recently I was close with her aunt. And she called me crying telling me she died and “ said she had no one to talk to”? So I kind of comforted her and was there for her as a human. Checked in twice to see if she’s good. Then my family and I went over to the family house to pay our respects, she sat right beside me multiple times even when she got up. Kept talking cute to me. Gave me two body hugs. Also when i scratched her head she tilted her head back ( she liked it) but I know she’s still talking to this other guy? It’s been 7 months since breakup longest no contact was 43 days then called me about her aunt

[jacobmusonda]

Thanks i have learnt a lot.But what exactly should be done to condition/change my subconsious to positivity?How do i re-write the toxic stories?Please shed more light.

[Darima]

When I first learned of insecure attachment, and discovered your videos, I had already decided I was dismissive avoidant but then there were elements to that that didn't quite fit always. I felt more like a push and pull of wanting to be open and vulnerable but holding bavk, pulling away, running away, to protect myself. I think I may be fearful avoidant, is that the same as mixed or disorganized? attachement