Why And HOW The Narcissist Will Bait You

Gain a deeper understanding of why and how narcissists use baiting as a manipulative tactic in this informative video. We'll explore the intricacies of toxic relationships and the psychological abuse that often occurs. Learn about red flags, self-esteem, and boundaries, and discover strategies for healing from narcissistic abuse. Whether dealing with a covert narcissist, navigating through love bombing and devaluation, or facing baiting tactics after discard, this video provides valuable insights to help you protect yourself and regain control.

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*In this video, I share the tips, techniques and insights that have worked for me in my own journey of healing after narcissistic abuse along with expert tips and tools I've learned through years of coaching narcissistic abuse survivors. I am not a therapist and this video is not meant to provide therapy of any form. #narcissist #covertnarcissist

[iraidushka]

Narcissists existence is truly exhausting. And frankly what a waste of life, theirs and their supplies. I will never understand the disorder. To live your life solely for destroying it and never experience happiness, deep emotional connection with anyone. Horror!

[carolb]

Once you’ve got their number, it’s best to avoid them altogether.
Not b/c they’re so scary, but rather they’re toxic.
I choose those who are drama-free every time 💙

[nancyparker]

They are pot stirrers, they enjoy any chaos they can start!

[Nicole-Faith]

During an argument my narc family member was being very vile and insulting me calling me a loser and a bunch of expletives that I didn't achieve anything etc.

He also claimed I was really jealous of him and his life because "he could just tell". It took everything within me to walk away rather than getting into an argument. At that point he said "oh yeah yeah you don't have an answer because it's all true and by walking away you are proving everything I say right" he followed it up with
"It's not my fault you're jealous of my life"...
At the time I was so hurt because of the nastiness and utter vile rubbish he was spewing.
These days I laugh at that stupid interaction for what it was. Utterly pathetic.😆
One thing for sure is narcs don't like it when they can't get into a nasty fight that they are gunning for.

[williamthurman]

So ....true it's
control thats what they love ❤️

[hischild]

Until I learned what was really going on and took control back, he could bring bring out of me someone I wasn't. I remember saying, rather yelling, "I don't do drama! This is not me!"

[EdfromCanada]

Wow 100% true. I did not bite on the reactive baiting - at this point I realized what she was about and ghosted her from that point on. It was the best move I could ever have done. Not reacting is so important.

[thefreshprince-tm]

When you don’t react, they appear to just turn it up, for example, they just turn up out of nowhere and just stare at you holding a glare at you for at least five seconds, like they are desperately drawing from a straw trying to get the last bit of water from an empty cup, bloody weird I say.

[MrLeonightis]

My narcissist father tells me the most fantastical lies that are so easily disseminated, then he will change the story only a short time later to another narrative completely, it's so exhausting . As many have said before the best thing to do is to go no contact .

[karenkennedy]

I do not trust my narcissistic husband at all, his abuse gets more subtle and more subtle, tries many ways to get my “ goat” and get me upset! He uses everything against me. I am not perfect, but learning not to react is helping. What he uses is fake, fake compliments, fake flattery, I do not buy it anymore! He knows my buttons, and is learning new ones!

[garycordle]

They will use everything that they know about you to bait you, and as soon as they know everything about you, game on 👍 Christina thanks for the video and BTW it's good to hear from you 🙏🦋

[johanolij]

All the tricks in the book even the ones I didn’t know

[melindamcclain]

I had to go no contact with my 82 year old narc mom. Iam 60 and since she moved down the street 3 years ago I have been having multiple health issues. I haven't talked to her in 5 months now. She put her house up for sale, gave away all the things I gave her through the years and moved away without telling me where she went. She has baited me via my brother and sister in law and she left me a strange letter before she left. It makes me feel sad but iam also very relieved she is gone!

[Acrobattler]

Your contribution in personal sanity check of narc victims is uncountable.
Thank you.

[cathyhuffman]

This was done by my daughter in front of a judge. She had estranged me, all I could was leave the courtroom and scream. It just blew me away why my daughter did what she did.

[jl]

My husband with narcissistic traits had not had any great narcissistic supply from me in months. So he baited me with an old bad habit of his that he’d actually broken, because he knew in a second it would cause me that same anxiety and I would flare up, explode and he just literally sat there and watched. I apologized later, I told him I meant every single word I said and still do, but I should not have lost my cool and yelled it at you. That’s what his supply is- when he can get people to lose their cool, etc. I’d been “ ego fluffing “ him all year. I wasn’t apologizing for what I had said to him, I apologized for yelling and stated I should have talked quietly and calmly, therefore letting him know it worked for a minute but I knew what he was trying to do.

[guntertorfs]

Over time i learned to deliver my thoughts about her ( the narcissistic creature i once was involved with ) in a precise, acerbic way and only when no one else was around ( although she tried to make me react with an audience around time and time again ) and then just walk away and leave her alone with her immrnense frustration. I was really good at it ( don't mess with an angry empath when his empathy is almost turned off ) Drove her crazy. She deserved it.

[taraarrington]

Yes my mother was trying to do this last night she was trying to start an argument with me saying that my other daughter's know that I favor my youngest daughter and in my head I was thinking you're projecting onto me and confusing me with yourself and how you favor your youngest daughter but of course I didn't take the bait and I just ignored her baiting.

[alcudiababe]

When I listen to things like this it just reminds me that we have to always rise above, keep our cool, see the game for what it is all the while deciding they are actually very nasty and horrible people in our lives and that's fine, but what about if you're having an off day? A day where you're hormonal, or catching a cold or days where you know you're just plain in a mood because yes, we do hear all the ways and techniques and ways to try and get on the top of our game (sometimes I do believe that it causes Shame in us) because we believe it's always on us to rise above, be the relatable authentic person who others can relate to but when we are the ones that are at our wits end and we need to blow up, it's only healthy because we are taking a lot of abuse because sometimes you may be on a short fuse, on a shorter temper that usual and I think we just have to allow ourselves to be somewhat imperfect and after not beat ourselves up on it and actually deciding that whatever you said the other person actually deserved it because you might have been sensitive that day because you wouldn't have thought to mind your form.

[CedrickBagley]

The last time I talked to my ex, I asked her to tell me when my stepson is about to graduate. Her response "... yeah he needs someone to take him camping and fishing." Basically saying that he needed a better Dad. I ended up hate texting her for 30mins. I felt terrible, I called to apologize a few days later and she told me that she had sex with someone else.