🚩10 RED FLAGS IN EARLY DATING YOU SHOULD NEVER IGNORE! Dating Advice for Women l LUCY BENSON

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🚩10 RED FLAGS IN EARLY DATING YOU SHOULD NEVER IGNORE! Dating Advice for Women l LUCY BENSON

Hey My Loves, In Todays video i gave 19 Red Flags to look out for in Early Dating/Relationship. I hope you enjoy💕

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Can I add something? People who are victims in any and every situations they tell you. You asked why they broke up with their exes and they never did nothing wrong it’s always the others who are to blame. The ex was the problem, the friends are the problem, family is the problem, life is the problem. That’s a huge red flag, that lack of accountability and victim mentality is dangerous. They gonna drain you and your energy

analea
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Other Red Flags 🚩 too friendly with other females ( keeping options open); secretive about you or relationship status ; apologise with no change

beepink
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"Overlooking things means preparing yourself to enter a toxic relationship or even worse". Wow, true. Thank you

leilasilva
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10 Red Flags In Dating

1. Too much too soon ( "i love you" too soon, "I want to marry you" too soon, spending too much time together to soon)

2. He wants to "go with the flow" (when they don't know what they want, RUN)

3. When someone is over 30 and has only ever been in "situationships" and have never been in love (they are probably emotionally unavailable, there are exceptions, but most of the times you should just RUN)

4. When their words don't match their actions (It doesn't matter how small and simple it is. If he doesn't call at 6 when he told you he would.... unless he has a real excuse and apologizes, it's a no. If he does that consistently, why have you not started packing already?)

5. You meet them and they talk too much about themselves (there is no intention of trying to know you, everything is about themselves)

6. If they treat other people badly (watch how they treat their friends, the waiters...)

7. If he takes every decision that has to do with the both of you without ever asking for your opinion (he doesn't ask you what you want, he just plans and expects you to follow)

8. Hot and cold ( need i say more? They keep you interested enough to get you to stay through their bullshit... Ok she didn't say that, I said that)

9. When someone feels entitled to your time ( when they get angry, feel offended when you say no to them or take time away from them)

frenchgirl
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That narcissist part was on point! Please look for the red flags it could save your life!

HideousCrimesUnsolved
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God bless you, I ended my relationship because of his off an on behavior, emotionally unavailable, I had to removed my sim fix a new one since he keeps going off an on, I don't want to do anymore, I'm tired of complaining, he knows i don't like it I'm always upset with it yet he keeps doing it, I can't pretend that I'm happy..

brightkingsley
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Relationship stufff you should flee from
Lucyyyy❤
1:love bumping too much too soon
2:stepping with no clear intentions ( going with the flow)Ashawo people 😂
3:old person(30 and above) who never had a relationship
But some are sha good
4:not man of their words
5:talking about themselves too much
6:how they treat people around them(disrespectful people)
7:he takes charge (narcissist)
8:emotionally manipulative people
9:entitlements
Please fleeee🏃🏃🏃🏃

osajitovia
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I just love how you take every point serious and don't joke with you Lucy. Keep it up😌

I_amodurowaa
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Girl you literally just described the man I just started talking to smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ 😭 I’m glad to have heard it out loud though because as I was listening I was thinking on our interactions thus far and said “he does do this very often” or “yup I had to talk to him about that” You’re like an internet big sis! Thank you for breaking it down 💕💕💕💕

highestintheroompodcast
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It's always the humour blended with the serious talk for me. Points always hit home. Thank you Lucy for always sharing, keep going, keep being you, me and the many other inspired ladies are here for it all♥

faithkanobe
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I feel you girl I agree with everything you said.. these guys nowadays have at least one or more of these issues and it’s a headache after all 😅 love shouldn’t be so complicated ❤

cecesopretty
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I just started watching the video, but oh my god, YOU ARE SO PRETTY😳

Klenovyj
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The Nigerian accent gets me all the time😂❤

ClaribelYoutube
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It’s the run and ah for me 😂😂😂 so accurate, Lucy sharing gems, so much truth here

SindyAkpolo
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omg im the everything about me gf. I have to stop 😭!!! thank you for making this video. Ik this video is about man but it helps me realize what not to be to not be toxic 😅

theprincess.
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Thanks Lucy for all your video, it has really helped me especially emotionally, some times I even feel that i am possess and something is wrong with me because i things just to be in a relationship, ur videos has also helped me even in my personal life, Jesus so many people are depressed and don't know what to do blaming them for nothing, u are a life changer with ur experience and u coming out boldly to share it with us is another grace it self, So much love for u dear!

aginahtreasure
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Heey!..
I have a small diary where I write all your lessons down, to keep me in check..
I love all your vlogs wholesomely 💯.
You've inspired me Lucy, and you still do.❤️

barinyaga
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Thank you yes 05:30 they talk about themselves 80% AND if they ask questions it's like an interrogation or like they just want information gathering (data mining)

lalelale
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I can relate with these points and slowly learning from past mistakes.

AudAkos
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Sometimes narcissists end up together where both parties are sick but nobody ready for that topic .

Life_withkee