This Romantic Gesture Is Actually a Major RED FLAG | Matthew Hussey

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In this video, you will see that the ability to differentiate between short-term excitement and long-term potential will save you a lot of grief and time. It will also give you tools to help you clearly see and navigate around any red flags that may appear on your path.
 
Your coach,

Matthew x
 
P.S. Have you ever come across this kind of red flag? Tell me in the comments.

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[Polyester_Avalanche]

RECIPROCATION. "Don't invest in someone based on how much you like them. Invest in them based on how much they invest in you." -Matthew Hussey.

[erineileen]

My biggest red flag that happened recently was I was the only one asking questions. If someone doesn’t want to get to know you on a deeper level…know they aren’t serious.

[stillpril]

Never go to the middle of nowhere with someone you don't know

[rachelreii]

Ignoring or dismissing red flags WILL cost you later

[patriciaviles]

It’s the difference between a person wanting to do something really cool with SOMEONE vs that person wanting to do a lot more ordinary things with YOU SPECIFICALLY.

[trudibarraclough]

I recently met a man who told me about his ex who "was the love of his life". I was proud of myself to see immediately that he was telling me he would never love me - and I ran for my life. In the past I have been hooked into accepting 2nd best place. Lol - growth is good!

[nicolesaunders]

Grand gestures are often a way to hide emotional unavailability. Definitely been there.

[yasinradee]

All this is simple.

"When they show you who they are the first time, believe them." Maya Angelou

[HTB.]

this totally makes sense. This explains why generations ago, a father would say, " what are your intentions?' He wasn't asking for a proposal, he was saying, My daughter isn't a toy for an experience. How committed are you to having a relationship where communication and responsible behaviors are in place. Proper boundaries are necessary for trust to develop

[kellyvandijk]

I had a cat that liked everybody until I came home with my boyfriend, she went for him and hurt him…. He was bad news and she felt it. She doesn’t live anymore but I’m still proud of her.😢😊

[head_in_the_clouds]

Always pay attention to your gut feeling if something feels off it is! I learned that the hard way

[JimBond]

My biggest RED FLAG, is when someone is happy to talk about themselves and be listened to, but when you want to talk they interrupt you with what they were thinking about while you were talking.

Sometimes you only get to say one word and they start talking again, even if they just asked how are you, lol 😂

[buttermuffin]

When he started talking about little betrayals to yourself, I almost started crying. So often I think as women we settle for something that falls short and try to accommodate ourselves and make that thing work. Instead of standing strong and not settling, pursuing something that is worth holding out for.

[KowgirlBebop]

This can also apply to friendships, some people do not value YOU They just need ANYONE there. Settling is truly a big time wasting mistake.

[terrifiorelli]

First off, never sleep with anyone until you have a commitment. Sex will override getting to actually know a person. No sex, no remorse if it doesn’t work out. Life isn’t all about feelings. Learn that and you will follow your truth.

[guillervz]

I, as a guy, have made these types of mistakes many times. Nobody (and I mean NOBODY) has ever told me in my entire life that what I was doing was wrong and why it was wrong. These videos are so incredibly helpful.

[marvanbee]

It takes practice and patience to recognize when a relationship is built on escapism. I see this a lot especially in online dating, people looking to escape their boredom with dates but not actually looking for authentic, long-lasting connections even though they might say that's what they're looking for. I think a lot of humans don't even know what escapism is in themselves or in other people.

[Taisha]

Every problem cannot be solved with a "grand gesture." It takes more than trips/vacations or exciting experiences to make a relationship work.

[stampandscrap]

What I love about my husband as he has never asked my messy ADHD self to change for him, and I haven't asked his Autistic anti social self to change. But its easy to sort of mesh together. We understand each other. We both can feel close, sitting saying nothing to each other.
Yes we do special things together, but just being together feels right.
We trust each other

[cloe]

Wow I’m immediately a fan. This guy really has emotional intelligence. He’s not teaching men to be the way “men think women like” but actually the way women like. He’s teaching women to understand men too. He’s teaching people about people. About themselves. It’s incredible. The perceptiveness of this guy