14 Red Flags in Men You Should NEVER Ignore.

I’m back with some dating advice: here are the red flags in men you should never ignore! I hope these dating tips and pieces of relationship advice help you find the high-quality, masculine energy man you deserve! 🥰

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 Red Flags in Men You Should Never Ignore
0:53 Red Flag #1
1:42 Red Flag #2
3:06 Red Flag #3
3:47 Red Flag #4
5:11 Red Flag #5
6:21 Red Flag #6
6:57 Red Flag #7
8:05 Red Flag #8
8:42 Red Flag #9
9:33 Red Flag #10
9:55 Red Flag #11
10:54 Red Flag #12
11:39 Red Flag #13
12:45 Red Flag #14

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[Zoya]

1. The “ I don’t know man “.
2. He says all of his exs are “ crazy “.
3. He can’t apologise or take fault for anything.
4. His anger is immature and disrespectful.
5. Friends with an ex.
6. Actions don’t align with words.
7. He wants you to pay on the first date.
8. Never asks you any questions about you.
9. Never makes real plans to see you.
10. Takes way to long to return calls or messages.
11. Can’t take care of his things.
12. Makes condescending or sarcastic jokes at your expense.
13. Never posts any photos of you.
14. If your gut feels off.

[sharonqui]

Red flag if he just thinks on himself in intimacy or in general in relationship, it’s always me, me,me

[jeriwilliams]

"You attract what you think you deserve" You better speak that truth!!! I love this so much, and thank you a million for this video!

[vermiliongardens]

The reverse of the photo thing can be a red flag too. If he’s posting tons of pictures of you all the time or acting crazy in love REALLY early then he could be seeing you as a trophy rather than as a whole person.

Great list! Thank you, Jillz!

[TK-czgv]

I think an important thing to keep in mind is that nobody is perfect and if you dismiss any person that has a red flag you will spend your life dismissing people.. if i'm being honest with myself, when i met my bf i had many of those red flags myself but he gave me so much love, even when i was hard to love, that it helped me change and mature.

I guess what i want to say is to remember to also look in the mirror, accept that you too are not perfect and that is fine and be ready to accept someone who will not be perfect either as long as they are truthful, loving, honest and they align with your lifestyle.

[lauraknysak]

this is so spot on. I do think another important red flag is wanting to keep hooking up and not want to commit. It might seem obvious but I made up so many excuses for this in the past. If I had just kept sex out of dating it would have saved me so much time and heartache, they were all losers. Love your channel!

[rubyrodriguez]

I think red flag #13 is not really a red flag because there’s people like me who wants to wait until their engaged with their partner to post about the relationship. I come from a Hispanic household who loves to gossip 😒 so I keep my relationship private because it’s none of their business what I do and go with my partner. Even when I get engaged or married, I will barely post of my partner because I believe relationships are a private and personal thing that doesn’t NEED to be displayed for everyone.

[sainajubayer]

Just walked out on a man who's first response to a problem I brought up was that I'm "stupid, acting like a teen and I should get my brain checked ".
I kept my cool and tried to express why I felt what I felt, didn't accuse, just brought it to his attention. And if this is the way he's gonna communicate then bye baby.
😂

[LaJota-lbxg]

🚩 if he jokes about rape or has mysogynistic comments in general that he likes to pass off as "jokes".
🚩 If he knows he's hurting you or making you mad but still acts like that even after you confront him about it.
🚩 If he treats his mother/sister/closest woman or women in his life like shit.
🚩 If he criticizes ideas or personality traits about others that you clearly have, his dislike for them won't go away if you're together and he will show it very clearly the second he gets mad at you.
🚩 If he is still friends with his male friends who very openly treat women like shit, who sexually abuse or beat women or who have treated you in particular like shit.

[daniwanicki]

As a guy I agree to all of these points, this was helpful for learning proper etiquette in dating. Like sometimes if a guy hears a girl say she wants to pay half for dinner, he's like "that's very nice of her". But in her mind she's thinking "this loser has no chance". Now I know their reason for offering and I will pay for every meal anyway 😅

[heyitsme-kekn]

This is so accurate. I dated this guy on and off for a little over 2 years (due to long distance). I thought he was perfect while ignoring the last 2 red flags. 1 - he is VERY active on social media, has 1k+ followers on IG, has posted 500+ pics, and not ONCE did he ever put up a single story or post with as little as my finger or a strand of my hair in it & 2 - even though i couldn't verbalize it, i just knew in my gut that something was off. That maybe he doesn't love me the way he says he does... And sure enough, he ends things with me (on the last day of our vacation which i traveled across states for) and 20 days later i start seeing the same girl in all his stories. Hes even tagging her in stories which she's not in. I want to say I was blindsided, but was I really? So to everyone out there, red flags - if you see them, don't ignore them!

[Katrica]

"Trust his actions Not his words!" Yes!

[acd]

A guy I dated said all women are crazy. But he actually was the crazy one. So now when a man says, my ex is crazy, I am GONE!

[NoctLightCloud]

I feel like you should first become friends before dating. It feels more natural and you don't have to deal with the mind games and decyphering if he enjoys your company.

[umbra]

My bf and I had a very toxic relationship in the beginning. And one of the major red flags or probably the only one was he would explode during arguments and he needed to talk so much about himself because he needed comfort that in the beginning it was all about himself. I talked to him openly and calmly how that made me feel. We ended up breaking up a lot. But in the end.. he actually listened. He made an effort to become a better person every single time. He still has problems expressing his anger because he wasn't taught how to express it, and when that hurts me he will apologise almost immediately.
If they do want to make an effort to change, and you really see that effort and like that person, help them. Not every person is perfect. All it needs is effort from both parts. Now our relationship is very stable. We do argue but is something very calm and logic.

[thunderqueen]

Here are some red flags ladies in case you need em-:
⛳You don't feel safe with him
⛳He passes uncomfortable comments then pass it on as a joke
⛳Acts too overbearing and pressurizes you
⛳ Only calls or texts you at night
⛳Forces you to do uncomfortable things
⛳ Gets panick attack lr freaks out if you touch his phone or tablet or laptop very sneaky

[pavilova]

“You don’t want to be an afterthought“ CHILLS

[mattd]

As a man, I want to say that I really like this video. The red flags listed here are very well picked. If you use them as guidance, you get rid of the loosers without sorting out the high value men.

[amygreen]

I always feel a good judge is how the guy treats his mom/motherly figure. I had a relationship where I ignored that he would become nasty to his mom when annoyed. It turns out that eventually they will begin to treat you the same, and it did, he turned on me in the end. Thank you for this vid

[TP-nxuf]

My insecure ass is guilty of the point 13. I never posted any photos with my exes because I thought it would be too embarassing/distresing to deal with it if we broke up. It took me years to realize I had disorganized attachment style and needed therapy.