6 Things Women Say That Are Red Flags (Every Guy Needs To Watch This)

If she says any of these things, consider it a warning sign.

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[daryllights]

"When she holds you to incredibly high standards but holds herself to low standards" 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[marcoantoniovargascornejo]

1. Princess/Petulant behaviour
2. Negative about relationships (talks bad about ppl that surrounds her)
3. Mind reader talk (expects you to do something without asking for it)
4. She calls herself "crazy" (when she is proud of doing certain obsessive or possessive behaviours)
5. Talking over you or interrupting you
6. "All men are trash" "I hate men" kind fo statements

I do recommend you guys watch the video for more understanding of each point!

[Lilmonke_]

#7 A woman that can never admit
she’s wrong/apologize. 🚩🚩🚩

My ex didn’t even apologize when I found out she was cheating for 1.5 years.

[DMartins-mndt]

This is why I've always said, regarding fathers with young daughters; DO NOT TREAT THEM LIKE A LITTLE "PRINCESS"! That s**t will NEVER get out of their head and you'll just be setting them up for a very long dysfunctional, unfulfilling, unhappy, lonely, angry, cat-filled, adult life.

[justenfinch]

I went on a date a few weeks ago. This woman made horrible assumptions about me and then followed it up with 'I have a really great sixth sense of these things'. I told her she was gaslighting herself so she could believe anything she wanted to.

I eventually had to block her. This was after one date. Talk about dodging a bullet.

[zyswanson]

Don't forget when she says "it's either me or your hobbies/friends/career" That ended my last relationship and is a red flag for me.

[alexrowe]

When first date is a job interview, constant questions about finances.
When she hides her mobile, and her whereabouts, along with not responding or ignoring you most times.
When she acts differently towards you when she is in crowds.
When her parents are constantly fighting or insulting eachother or others.
When she is almost always pinned to the phone.
When she orders you around and tries to control your life.
When she refuses to split bills or does any kind of work at the house.
God im old, everything is a red flag now, and life is depressing.

[Merck]

“Shopping is my hobby” is another one for me.

[dillonc]

The "all men are trash" saying is an instant turn off for me. This is coming from a guy who's comfortable joking about 99% of topics without taking much personal. My last relationship involved that quote once a week and our convos would ALWAYS end in awkward silence.

[beukenboomer]

I was in a relationship like this for 3 years. I felt trapped and drained. When I finally broke up, it felt like I came out of prison.

[VeitLehmann]

Now I know better why my marriage broke and couldn't have lasted. You are almost 100% describing my ex-wive. The only differences: She considered herself normal and me crazy, and she wouldn't talk over me, but she would reject my arguments in any discussion, get angry and shut down. Which goes in line with "I won't tell you what I want, you should know". Both of us had their issues. I saw mine, promised to work on them and often failed with this. But she didn't see hers. Too bad I can't leave her behind, we have kids...

[robertlogan]

I was catching up on the bud light controversy going on and this video played next and I really was so impressed, yet very refreshed to be hearing a woman talking about warning signs on bad women.
This was AWESOME! And Courtney Ryan you are more than AWESOME to do this video. A wholehearted thank you sharing this

[robsolf]

If she's constantly posting on social media that she doesn't care what people think about her. Not only does this indicate that she's frequently being told by others that her behavior is bad, it also indicates that she doesn't understand irony. If you're communicating anything about yourself via social media, then yes, you care about what others think about you.

[LiberPater]

My half sister is "proud" of being a "b!tch". She "owns it".

She's nearly 60, over 350lbs, smokes 3 packs of 100s a day, has no husband, no kids. She does have 5 cats however.

She's destroyed every relationship she has to her actual family. She surrounds herself with human trash and people who exploit her. The one constant she's done throughout her entire life is create nothing but issues for those around her. My favorite quote from her is, "I can't be taught, because I refuse to learn."

She's the embodiment of red flag.

[GlennSyndallius]

Thanks Courtney. Sometimes it's good to get reminders of the red flags from previous relationships - time heals old wounds, but then you start feeling nostalgic for that person and... well, yeah, this was a good reminder of some of the reasons why I ended it! The "talking over" thing was by far the worst, and this ex gaslighted me HARD. I didn't even know what that term was until I came across it months after we broke up. Appreciate the vid (and the reminders!)

[prod.prettyboy]

I just got out of a 3+ year relationship with a woman who portrayed all of these except #5. She always wanted her way. If I ever questioned what SHE wanted to do at any time, she’d erupt into full out crying screaming, telling me I’m a piece of sh*t a**hole, and much worse. I let that happen though, I had seen past her red flags for years. I wanted to fix her/grow with her long term but she only got worse. Every fight was my fault. even when she did something to upset me, I’d call her out for it, and then SHE’D get mad at ME because she didn’t know how to take accountability for her actions. Literally EVER. I’d have to pry an apology out of her (if one ever came out). It got to a point where I never told her how I felt in our relationship, every fight I kept quiet and apologized to her because I didn’t want to deal with more fighting/bullsh*t. It got to a point where I felt I was walking on eggshells just to talk to her. But again, I WAS part of the problem. I had a hard time providing for her, which is what she clearly wanted/needed in a man. My response was to work my ass off and make more money, to get us out of this situation. In return, I showed her close to no attention for months, If not years. I showed the attention I could, but again, I worked 15 hour days, 2 jobs, with a 3rd side hustle on the weekends/in between jobs just to crack maybe 2k a month. I struggled with finding decent paying job for a long time, and the two I had still payed minimal. We got worse because of these problems on both ends of the relationship.

I relate to this video because these red flags came out within the first 6 months of dating, and I completely disregarded them, and she portrayed ALL of those listed above (almost). She was extremely immature, and never took accountability for any of her actions. To anyone reading this, let me save u years of time, and If you discover these red flags, whatever you do, DON’T avoid them. Don’t let your boundaries down for a woman. Long term, it will absolutely damage you as a man, humiliate you, and turn you into the worst version of yourself. I promise you. I loved this girl to death, even though she completely broke me inside. She did change me in many ways for the better, but the red flags far outweigh the green.

Bottom line, men out there. If a woman portrays these red flags, confront them about it, and if they can’t own up to it/offer to work on it, you HAVE to walk away. Do not be afraid to walk away. Do not stay and let her eventually walk all over you, which will happen if you don’t deal with these red flags early.

Just decided to rant here, haven’t spoke to almost anyone about my breakup, nor have ever been able to tell my ex about how I really feel without her erupting then me apologizing for how I feel.

Thanks to anyone who read this, and I hope you can understand what the long term consequences of avoiding these red flags really can do to you as a man. Stay safe out here ❤

[emodante]

Everyone, Courtney is right. STAY AWAY from crazy girls. Speaking from experience, you'll be sacrificing so much of your dignity and happiness for someone who wants the sympathy of being the victim but doesn't want to fix anything so they can continue playing the victim and getting sympathy. No one is worth that kind of psychological abuse.

[martinargota]

When she only talks about her life and doesn't ask about yours. Run, you're wasting your time.

[Nephibis]

I definitely needed this.

Something I found to be a red flag is when she says she is "too nice." None of the nice women i've met call themselves too nice, but every woman i've met who has, used "being nice" as an excuse to be flirtatious and act inappropriately with men while she was in a relationship.

[octavianr]

You are explaining very well, in each video, what situations are or are not within the discussed issue. Reading the situation is very important. You are also very warm and smooth in wording everything