🚩10 RED FLAGS 🚩 YOU SHOULD SHOULD LOOK FOR IN AN EARLY RELATIONSHIP! 👀 💋

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#relationshipadvice #relationshipcoach #relationshipgoals #marriage

[ka-ta-ya]

‘Not all guys are MEN, Not all men are HUSBANDS, Not all men are FATHERS…’’A Thank you aunt Fumi

[VIsidore]

Fumi, you are 100 percent right on all points. My husband didn't raise any red flags. It was kinda scary to see a man do everything right. It could have been too good to be true but it wasn't. I remember him inviting my parents' to dinner to explain himself. He said "I love you" before I was ready. He waited until I was. He hasn't changed. We celebrated our 34th wedding anniversary recently. My husband is awesome. I love him dearly.

Good luck to my single and looking for a husband sister's. 🌹

[exquisitejewelrikkei]

As for the first red flag, you have to be careful about divulging too much about yourself, because some guys are narcissist and ask you about yourself so that they can mirror you and attain information to use against you.

[sbusisiweshaba]

Redflags

1. He's not asking you questions about you.
2. He doesn't want to label the relationship after months (3 months) of dating, neither has he asked you to be exclusive.
3. He has not posted you on his social media.
4. Your family and friends do not like him.
5. He doesn't introduce you to his friends/family
6. He calls you only at night, it's a booty call, he's trying to make you a side chick.
7. He never initiates a date
8. He doesn't surprise you with gifts or something special
9. He does not make an effort to know your family/friends or impress them
10. He ghosts you

[rubydikgang]

In all honesty my heart breaks for myself for allowing myself to settle for less..all these red flags I allowed...I allowed them ALL🥺😓But I know better now...thank you Mummy Fumi💕 love from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦

[ada-lf]

I want to say some:
- he's too clingy and doesn't give you space. calls you multiple times a day and complains when you say you are busy
- Takes back things he gives you when angry
- Does not apologize
-Does not show appreciation for the little things
-Does not spend wisely

[makebajackson]

Also, always trust your gut, if you are getting a vibe of negative energy or something within you just doesn't feel right!! Listen to your intuition you'll never go wrong.

[chumanithomas]

As a woman in her 50's let me just say you are goals. With age definitely comes wisdom and it's great to keep learning and your channel has taught me a lot. Thank you💖

[sharonmccarter-white]

I am toooo old, and ashamed that I am only now learning these lessons you're teaching
Thank You sister Fumi

[jaikaglory]

After enjoying this, we are looking forward to red flags in long distance relationships.

[betsy]

All I can say "Red Flags" are not "Imperfections" You have to know the difference. Don't pass up a great guy because you have mistaken an "imperfection" for a "red flag." For me personally smoking is not a 'red flag" but if you are a recovering smoker, you may not want to date a smoker so it could be a "red flag" or "deal breaker" for you. For me it's just an "imperfection." Maybe Auntie Fumi could give us insight on the differences between imperfections and red flags

[empresswb]

This is great advice!!!
When I was dating my husband he was like how she described her husband. And I noticed such a huge difference. I also was confused by my feelings. I was so used to the hand wringing, tortured feeling while dating a guy. So sad that I thought that was being "in love".
Ladies, if you want a husband you have to have standards and hold out for husband material.

[rivkaruthgolan]

Fumi, you brought to my attention the qualities of the good men I had in my past. Sometimes we get so hung up on the bad men we forget the good men. I had a boyfriend in my 20’s (unfortunately I broke up with him) who brought candy (1 piece)and/or flowers (growing wild) every single day the first year. He made a huge birthday party for me when he got a real job after college. He couldn’t afford much when he was in school, but he did the best he could. My father used to bring small items of jewelry for me. Thanks to your list, these men’s behavior is the standard with which I am now measuring my suitors.

[FrostyDufour]

Only you Fumi can tell hard truths in such an uplifting way, thank you! Congratulations on your milestone 400K and very best wishes to you.

[stasiasmith]

I had all the flags ... 10 years later I've finally seen them and I'm gone . Thanks to God. Thanks auntie Fumi for the content and always telling the real

[valeriemaddox]

Everyone, Fumi is absolutely correct. I loved how she eloquently explained the red flags.
I dated a guy some time ago and he did not ask certain questions that he should have asked such as, "What was my favorite color?, I was in school at the time we dated and he never asked what was my major?
He was also extremely critical. Well the end result was we went our separate ways. He tried to come back some months later but I was not to be bothered, I had moved on with my life. He was one of the worst guys that I had ever dated.

[josephineuzoyaijekhuemen]

Thanks so much. I just checked all the boxes in my recent relationship. I was feeling guilty for walking away, now I know I did the right thing!

[chisomokafor]

Omg! I’m 24 and I’m so addicted to your channel 🥰

[prettygurlChrissyD]

God bless you Fumi! So many women NEED to HEAR this and TAKE HEED!

[alifleuristal]

Love from Montreal Fumi. You are an inspiration for all black women in this earth ❤️ I'm addicted to your laugh 🥰😂