Recognize The Red Flags Early!!

[natashafreeman]

When those Red Flags start to keep you up at Night, you Have Got to Go.

[ButterCookie]

People need to quit thinking crazy behavior is cute or flattering.

[sacredspacesllc]

Some people rather have a warm body in their bed rather then building themselves up so they ain't acting thirsty.

[greengoddessof]

I recognize red, blue, yellow and green flags. I watch everything and

[Insightful_Locs]

The problem is many of us get lost in love and we lack discernment! Many men will show you who they are in the first month but many women won’t realize the red flags until it’s too late!

[Dr.Elaine]

“You can’t play with it because you are desperate for a relationship.” TG

[jenniferjones]

Listen to this man. He is dead on. People can only fake the funk before the real deal shows up. Recognize this person for what they are and RUN FOR THE HILLS!

[DynamicallyDC]

If you stay in an unhealthy relationship, stunting and fronting online not wanting to let your haters win, can cost you your life!! 🙌🏾💯

[kimfrierson]

This message is true. I was in a verbally abusive relationship that turned physical. The red flags were all over the place, but I ignored them. Never ignore the red flags!

[AllThingsTiffanyTV]

i wonder if my ex husband thought the same thing. “Oh you a Christian, y’all don’t believe in divorce”., . Honey he looked up and i was gone too ✌🏾

[beckyvegalifecoach]

Got to go!!!! Good word. Don’t stay because you fear the unknown. Trust God and move forward

[prettydiamonds]

Left my last relationship because everything he did pointed to him escalating to physical abuse. He insisted on trying to come back until i threatened to call the police. I live in an area where the DA 🚔 will push for jail time no matter what. He left me alone. I think he suffered from PTSD but that cant be my problem, me first! AMEN 🙏

[toniwilliams]

People need to stop letting people come all up in their lives too soon...like, coming to your house and introducing them to your family. I learned this the hard way. No one should know where you live any time soon unless you have put in the time to vet them and know that they're solid. You can pick up a stray dog who will destroy your life. It's really real out here...

[tisha]

I think it's hard sometimes for people to recognize red flags because we've decided that certain behavior is "normal". Nope!! I would had few pleasantries with a guy from time to time. Then we had a longer conversation in person and he asked me out. EVERYTHING in my spirit said "No!!! Run!!! Exit!!!" But I ignored it. He didn't say anything necessarily "wrong" during that conversation...so I gave him a chance. (even though it didn't sit right in my spirit) After I spoke to the guy on the phone for the first time something seemed off. I asked a friend's advice and she said I was being overly judgmental. Guess what...3 months later I was getting a restraining order on him. Listen to your God-given intuition. God gives us discernment for it to be used not ignored.

[tieraevette]

I wish I known about you sooner, wouldn't have married my husband! When you know better you do better!💯

[Cinde]

Right on, Br Gaskins! When someone shows you who they are the first time, believe them; they ain't pretending.

[perfectlyyoubeauty]

When I was in my early 20s I dated a man who became extremely jealous and controlling. Where I went, who was there, what I was wearing etc. meanwhile all his friends were the same and they were all also cheating on their girlfriends so birds of a feather... anyway it finally proceeded to him putting hands on me. That was it... that one time and I was out! Not proud to say that I pushed him back when it happened. It didn’t matter how much he apologized, sent flowers, tried to drag me down and call me out my name.. the whole range. I was done. I’m glad I had the strength and ability to walk away. Some people are so worn down emotionally and mentally or are financially bound to their abuser that it’s not as simple as it was for me. I pray for all who are no those situations that they may be able to escape and find a healthy spiritually rooted relationship but most importantly self love.

[mbrown]

My God!! I just went through this after a 2 1/2 year relationship. Once you put your hands on me I'm done because it will only get worse... Thank you for your wisdom..

[staceythorpe]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Dont ever overlook the red flags because of being blinded by love or lust.

[sophisticatedmm]

This is soo true pray for discernment ladies. I had to file a restraining order against a nutcase that kept stalking/ harassing me & we weren't even exclusive or in a serious relationship