7 Signs That You Have Moved On From A Narcissist

In this episode, I talk about the different signs that show you have moved on from the narcissist. The first and the biggest sign being having no urge to go back or contact them.

Moving on from a narcissist is a very long process that needs a lot of patience and perseverance. It doesn't happen over a night neither are are you able to reach these stages in a month or so. Be patient.

moving on after narcissistic abuse

[sassi]

1. Little to no urge to contact them.
2. You don't care about them or their new supply.
3. You feel stronger and wiser.
4. You recognise your worth and importance.
5. You feel connected to the universe / the world / joy.
6. You feel positive emotions.
7. You do not keep reliving your past.

Yess! I'm getting there.
Thankyou. 🙏

[KeleiaJesus]

Every single thing you said rang true for me. This would've been my 33 yr anniversary today. Instead, I'm packing up and going through 33 years of stuff to start my life over soon. My divorce is close to being final...my PTSD did turn into complex PTSD. It's the hardest thing I've had to do...to not ever see him or hear his voice again would be the best thing. I'm moving to a whole other area of the state I live in just to not continually re-live every place we went all those years together. I'm getting stronger, reaching out and making friendships and sustaining life-long ones that support me and I can support them. I will continue to become stronger and learning from this to share a smile with others, to feel the sunshine on my face again. Thank you, you've helped me for months to start to heal. God is always with me and He uses so many to encourage and help others in this world. I'm grateful you are one of them.

[StormsHurt]

For the 1st time in my 50 years, I love ME unconditionally. I love looking at me, I love wearing pretty clothes, getting my hair done, smiling etc. The best part is I can actually compliment myself.
All my life STRANGERS told me I was pretty and my body shape was so beautiful, but the FAMILY said differently and unfortunately that’s who shaped my opinion of me.

I SPARE NO COST ON MYSELF unlike the old me.

[trishasamant]

This is such an important episode 🖤
I'm here after a 2 years of working on myself. It's been though, but I definitely see that now I'm stronger & can spot a narcissist from a mile.

[SashaRose-rlid]

Took me 5 years to move on and still think about him from time to time but I feel a lot better than I used to🙏🙏

[padminipeterson]

Every point is very correct by gods grace I survived from narsistic abuse. Now I am feeling sooo happy and and became very spiritual and connected to universe in my oldage at my 74 yrs of age. Tnq mr.danish you opened my eyes at least in my last stage it was not easy of surviving from narsistic abuse.

[julieanna]

Mr. Danish, I haven’t replied to one of your continuously outstanding videos, but please know that they mean the world to me. 🥰🙂😘. You are a natural at what you do and talk about. Your wisdom cannot be taught—it had to be lived. And you have lived through it, and are now victorious by sharing your knowledge with us. I want to bless your life and your devotion to being such a beautiful, compassionate therapist. May blessings fall on you, my friend.🙏🥰👏🏼

[desertangelfish]

You address this like no other on YouTube! These videos have been so helpful in my healing and moving forward. The deep and concise approach to this subject is so on point!

[animallover]

Narc father, step mother, husband, son, daughter. Left them all. I’m still standing better than I ever did is my song. I will never have another relationship in this life. I am not damaged, happy with myself.

[aliveagain]

I finally got rid of my narc the natural way...after 68 (!) years of marriage. He died at age 97. What a relief! Nobody is messing up my or my children´s life anymore!

[kalibaby]

Yes I've moved on I realised that when I saw her and felt nothing for her. I'm so much at peace with myself. People around me say I have anger issues but they just don't understand the hell I was put through 🤣 most of em wouldn't even survive it. I have no care in the world for the narc and they still mad at me as if we broke up yesterday it's been 6 years and she still mad I don't understand the rage.

[kerryannmoor]

40 years of torture married to a covert narc.
Three and a half years since I divorced him. I m still healing but much stronger and more grateful for my peace and safety.
He was malevolent and for many years, he sneakily set up accidents for me, and even put stuff in my food to create profound anxiety and illness. He sabotaged my career, which I loved. The only time I ever left my dog in his care, I came home to find her paralysed with a broken back. I had to say goodbye to her as the vet put her to sleep. She was only two years old and it broke my heart.
I can never prove any of the horrible things he s done. Evil leaves no fingerprint and he is extremely, strategically intelligent.
Both my beloved parents died over the past three years and I hardly cried. As you said, after narcissistic abuse, you will never feel such great pain again.
I guess this new strength and resilience is a blessing.
After a while, you realise that knowing these demon infested creatures is a spiritual lesson, one that brings you closer to Our Lord.
I never gave up my faith and belief, even though many times he and his mother would try to convince me that I was weak and foolish for believing in something that I can't see. Evil also has no soul.

[harleyfsbo]

Such a lovely video. I have learned that the best and most effective way of defeating a Narcissist is to truly understand WHO your GOD is and to reject any and everyone else who wants you to BELIEVE he/she is god or BEHAVES like one, which typically, in fact always is going to be some Narcissist.

[TRuhYou]

I took time just for me... it felt so good!!! Self controlled! I missed that! I missed myself! Travelled alone, no one spoiling the/those moments. Took so many pictures in my ways. Met random people...just asking for the way or chatting on the train. Always pleasant. That would not have happened with my partner. It would truely be all about him.
I can advice, those who have the opportunity, to travel alone. It gives you confidance and adventure without someone always pulling the situations down. My personal experience. But a great experience.

[jacqepapara]

I went no contact a year ago. My elder sister unbeknown to me started telling my family and friends made-up stories and lies about me and my then dad is a narcissist and is the patriarch of the family.... I am 1 of 8 children....at present 2 of my sisters are his golden I was 16 I noticed my dad started treating me badly. Hot/cold scenario....I then began to feel uncomfortable and anxious in his presence it didn't matter where he was in the house or outside I just could not relax? when he was away from the house I felt free, calm the anxiety would was no sexual abuse it was more a bad vibe thing? Then the mind games started, the mood swings, the feeling small whenever other family members were around, then the blaming thing, then the gossiping amongst eachother about in mind I was a teen when all this started....I didn't have a clue what was happening? Being a young person I ignored it telling myself it's all in my head, they love me, their my family....I then noticed my siblings partners would make remarks but I didn't pay also noticed other people eg: extended family were looking at me sideways this included friends of my siblings....people I grew up with, went to school with? I noticed my elder sister hanging out with my old friends? people were cold toward me but I just didn't understand what this was?. Then They started talking about me in my presence, when I was in the room....they had no couldn't have children but my elder sister would take every opportunity to let it be known and my mother had no problem telling other people. This happened before my brother was demoted to a now, looking back I can honestly say that I was the only scapegoat in the family for years....I am 53 now, my mum passed 5 yrs ago, my 2 sisters are dad's golden children and my brother and his family are scapegoats....I remained loyal to my narcissistic family for 37 yrs thinking I could help them, supported them, loved them only to be unappreciated, treated badly and still gossipped about after all this time😱I am still with my boyfriend we adopted 2 beautiful children our daughter from dad's golden child and our son from dad's other golden childs daughter. These kids they could not take care of at the funny that ay👀Mum was the glue of our family, she was not a narcissist but I now know that she was abused mentally and physically by my narcissistic dad and later by my 2 golden child sisters. They unfortunately are narcissists too, I feel so bad for their children as they live their lives focused solely on only them but my brothers children also....at present my so called family whom I love dearly are dysfunctional including myself....caused by all the toxic trauma that we all went through for years....2 of my siblings have lived away from the family and have lived sheltered lives for years ( I now know my eldest brother was diagnosed with cancer, he doesn't have long to is 1 of my siblings who raised his family away from the toxic family....I visited him not long ago and he spoke openly about the trauma he's suffered with since childhood, regarding our narc dad. He's hoping before he dies that dad will say sorry and tell him that he's proud of him? Sadly, I know in my heart that dad will never say those words my big brother is longing to hear because it's not in the narcs told my brother, I seriously doubt our dad will say what he wants to hear not to him or anyone else, but pray for his soul that's all we can do😢I am happy now because my brother, his wife and kids support me and listened to my story👍My only support for years were my partner, kids and a few nieces and nephews, absolutely no siblings. Now my big brother ❤️ This is just bits of what I went through but I hope it helps somebody out there because your not survived this nonsense and so can you, God has helped me heaps, If it wasn't for the Lord I would not be here🙏🕊️♥️

[andreagayle]

I have reached the point where I have my mojo back. I know my worth and realize what the relationship wasn’t. He tried to kill my spirit. He almost succeeded. I’m free and I’m thankful!

[longislandny]

I’m definitely over the narcissist.Thank God🙌🙌

[marthabaker]

Thank you for this video. I'm trying to get out after 40 years of hell. I feel so broken. But based on these 7 points I can see that even in it I have a measure of healing. I want it ALL. Thank you!

[smarternow]

I think I am there. Yet, I need to listen to these videos everyday. 18 months out and I pray every single day.
I do feel deeper as a person ❤️thank you for this!

[naomifavor]

I have checked all the boxes I am happy I don't care who he is with where he is and I have peace